Getting married to a Gem

hello all... this is my first post here! 🙂 i'm pretty new in this astrology thing but have been reading quite a bit because i'm interested in it. i'm getting married to a Gemini man, any suggestion or advice i should know of? from what i read he and i are supposed to be incompatible, but we get along so well so far. i'd say this is the best relationship i've ever been (hence i'm marrying him 🙂 ). thanks so much in advance!!

Here's my chart:

Sun - Cancer (cusp of Leo)
Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Leo
Rising - Libra

Him:

Sun - Gemini
Moon - Leo
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Virgo
Rising - Leo

Congrats!!!! Looks pretty compatible to me. Venus in Gemini is a little tricky, they get a bad rep sometimes but you can't soley depend on ones birth chart. You're going to marry the guy so it must be great. Best of luck!

congratulations! Happy wedding! 🙂 looks pretty solid.. good luck

Posted by RealTalk
Congrats!!!! Looks pretty compatible to me. Venus in Gemini is a little tricky, they get a bad rep sometimes but you can't soley depend on ones birth chart. You're going to marry the guy so it must be great. Best of luck!

thank you!! yes i was reading about Venus in Gem and that made me a little bit wary at first... so far he's been nothing but faithful to me so there's no reason for me to doubt him. i did catch him flirt here and there, once was in the rental car place when we went for a getaway. the lady who worked there seemed to think that he was still in highschool and hitting on him. he is the type of person that would have a conversation with a stranger, etc. but that's fine though, because we ended up getting a pretty nice brand new car for that price range. 🙂

are you dating a Gem too? or have you had any experience with a Venus in Gem?

Posted by trolltrain
cancer/leo cusps are practically made for us. you guys have awesome personalities.

i should say the same about Geminis. you guys are so much fun! from what i read Geminis seem to get a bad rep but my experience with Gems so far have been pleasant.

Posted by plushyfishff
congratulations! Happy wedding! 🙂 looks pretty solid.. good luck

thanks 😄

Posted by cancer11134

Posted by RealTalk
Congrats!!!! Looks pretty compatible to me. Venus in Gemini is a little tricky, they get a bad rep sometimes but you can't soley depend on ones birth chart. You're going to marry the guy so it must be great. Best of luck!

thank you!! yes i was reading about Venus in Gem and that made me a little bit wary at first... so far he's been nothing but faithful to me so there's no reason for me to doubt him. i did catch him flirt here and there, once was in the rental car place when we went for a getaway. the lady who worked there seemed to think that he was still in highschool and hitting on him. he is the type of person that would have a conversation with a stranger, etc. but that's fine though, because we ended up getting a pretty nice brand new car for that price range. 🙂

are you dating a Gem too? or have you had any experience with a Venus in Gem?

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Yes I am. A crazy relationship but I love the guy. I don't have any experience with the Venus in Gemini but I've read about it. Aw, don't worry about that flirting thing. It's not even flirting really. You know how they love to talk! If they were having a conversation with a parrot, they would get off on it, lol. Sometimes people misconstrue genuinely being friendly with flirting. Most of the time, it's not the case.

I'm a Gemini with Venus in Gemini. I'm not sure what they say about us, so I'm not sure if I do it or not.

...But I'm gathering, from reading the posts, that it's said that we have problems with fidelity. Well, there's a strong tendency in Gems to ignore, or to rewrite, the rules. Fidelity is a societal rule. Rules aren't REAL, they're a philosophy agreed upon by the majority. We like to challenge the status quo.

Fidelity is best achieved when your parner understands that even though rules are a construct that he has the personal freedom to challenge, being with you entails acting in a specific manner. That leaves the choice up to the Gem. Be with you faithfully, or hit the road. That way, it's your personal preference he is respecting, rather than a societal rule.

I can feel, within myself, a tendency to think that infidelity (MY infedility, mind you, not HIS- yes, it's hypocrisy) isn't such a big deal. However, the choice that I understand I have is to be faithful and remain with my partner, or be unfaithful and destroy my marriage and a man I love. It's a no-brainer.

I hope this has made sense.

Venus in Gemini is different for males who tend to stray quicker than females ... it would be prudent of you to have a very long engagement, extending over a couple years.