Gem talking marriage??huh—??

I just met this Gem. like two weeks ago and he is already talking about taking me off the market. He is awesome, like him lots, great guy??_.really sensitive, etc??_hmmm, but do Gems move that fast? I thought Gems were commitment phobes. Shit, it's been the other way around right about now. Oh and I am an Aries.

He seems a little too clingy to be a Gemini. Which is odd to me? Ladies/gents please help a sista out here??_.

What Gemini talks about marriage after two weeks? I swear I want to run. He just seems too good to be true.

Should I be worried?

I'm noticing a trend here. A lot of the folks who write to ask questions about their Gem boyfriends say that the guy was talking marriage very early on. I don't know why that is, though.

LOL, well at least they made it to the boyfriend/girlfriend stage. We haven't even made it there yet, I think. He is a sweetheart tho, but I got watch those. I may take a few steps back and watch this one from a distance for a while.

I feel like we are in a bubble and it's about to pop any minute. This one makes me say "thank ya Jesus for men", lol.

Posted by Love366

He just seems too good to be true.

You describe a person who attempts to move the life of both of you at a rate in which will cause disruption ... due to the fact that you two barely even know each other. Which means = you are wowed by the power of charm, and not by the power of sincere love.

And that seems so good to you?

Men aren't stupid you know ... they know exactly what to say to get your panties down to your ankles and your ass stuck up in the air just for him, don't they.

You don't even have to know him, you don't even have to smell his morning breath ... none of that matters.

he only has to say, "marry" .... and he's so fantastic, that he makes the girl swoon.

He's too good to be true .. wow, you're fucking easy

That's true but I don't want to get married that is the problem and I want to tell him to slow down. I think he is hot though 😄. The marriage thing was a turn off actually. I am not even fucking him. I was just wondering if this is a normal thing with Gems.

I am easy but not that damn easy. You did teach me how to put up the breaks. 😉

you should not take any advice from anyone here. they do not know the slightest characteristic about this person.

now with that said, personally i think hes moving so fast because he knows hes got a good catch. he came out and said it, he wants to take you off the market.

My gem wanted to live together after knowing each other for 3 months...so yeah. I guess when they really like/love you they want something more. *shrugs*

Posted by westside

he came out and said it.

That's pretty hands on. I've learned that most gems don't say things they don't mean. If they are stating it, they sincerely mean it. In my experience.

Posted by westside
you should not take any advice from anyone here. they do not know the slightest characteristic about this person.

now with that said, personally i think hes moving so fast because he knows hes got a good catch. he came out and said it, he wants to take you off the market.

Yes, lord he is a fine specimen of a man. So, yea I think I may jump on this rollercoaster ride. 😄

Posted by DeadRingerr
I agree with Westside,, I move fast when I find what I want. It takes a long time, gotta go through a few toads to find the prince, but when I do its on baby!!

Well, it been on like popcorn. He does move fast but I kind of told him in a roundabout way and he snapped me up and asked who his competition is. From day one, its an instant attraction and we haven't been apart since. I like his swag 😉.

Posted by SultrySultana
how old are u guys?

If you both feel you're a good fit for each other.. i dont see the problem in taking it further?

Aries do move fast (much faster than lightening :p... no, i'm jus teasing)... and are not worried of landing the one they feel is good for them.

Jus make sure you both dont regret it. Every partnership comes with their own lil quirks, a gemini, moreso. But doesnt mean he shouldnt be given a chance. Maybe slow it down a lil bit? 🙂

Hehe, I'm 32 and he's 34 and for the most part we are taking it further at a much slower rate. I do notice his moods. He shows me a little of that —I am about to show you what you're getting into?? type of stuff. I just smh, and smile 😄. He does leave me speechless a lot so we shall see where this ride leads us. All and all we are like two big kids really enjoying each other right now so it's cool with me.

I wonder if this is a Gem/Cancer cusp thing? Within 2 weeks of dating the Gemini I'm with (June 20th), he was saying things like I was "spoken for", "off the market", etc. A few weeks ago while on a surprise trip to a plantation home, he said he could see "us" getting married here. I didn't react to it, maybe he was wanting me to, but it threw me off guard for sure. He also had said that if he was sure that I wouldn't go running for the hills, he'd have us living together already. Sheesh...I always thought Gem's were not fast movers, so that's why I wonder if it's a cusp thing.

I say if it feels right between you and him, go for it. If it doesn't feel right yet, then don't lead him on and just go with the flow (but make sure he knows that's what you're doing). 🙂

it's sweet talk. Just laugh in their face or run like hell he might be crazy

Posted by BullBeauty
I wonder if this is a Gem/Cancer cusp thing? Within 2 weeks of dating the Gemini I'm with (June 20th), he was saying things like I was "spoken for", "off the market", etc. A few weeks ago while on a surprise trip to a plantation home, he said he could see "us" getting married here. I didn't react to it, maybe he was wanting me to, but it threw me off guard for sure. He also had said that if he was sure that I wouldn't go running for the hills, he'd have us living together already. Sheesh...I always thought Gem's were not fast movers, so that's why I wonder if it's a cusp thing.

I say if it feels right between you and him, go for it. If it doesn't feel right yet, then don't lead him on and just go with the flow (but make sure he knows that's what you're doing). 🙂

Thanks??_😄

For the most part conversation just flows between us. Everything I have pretty much written here he knows so I am not leading him on. He is a cool guy and he hasn't put any pressure on me to do anything. I just wanted to know if it's typical of the Gems. nature. I asked him the same question I was pondering here, and he said I deserve it. Anyhue, we shall see where this road leads us.

Posted by trolltrain
it will takes me years to commit on paper...

tho in the mind...well...

This makes plenty sense to me. Hmmmmm.

Posted by Sag89
it's sweet talk. Just laugh in their face or run like hell he might be crazy

I think we're both crazy, hehe. 😄

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Just get married and get it over with lol

NO 🙂

Wow, i dont wanna burst bubbles here but he sounds just like the Gemini I had for 3 months, very into me,talking about future things together, then suddenly he dissappears (poof)gone. He was a cancer moon if that means anything—

Posted by NZaries
He was a cancer moon if that means anything—

Oooooh...those are tricky ones...yowzas!!!

Really tell me more??

Posted by NZaries
Wow, i dont wanna burst bubbles here but he sounds just like the Gemini I had for 3 months, very into me,talking about future things together, then suddenly he dissappears (poof)gone. He was a cancer moon if that means anything—

DXP is one big bubble buster.

Idk about Cancer mooners but maybe the disappearing after the courting is because they are afraid??_.shrugs who knows?

Did you ever ask him why he disappears and comes back like nothing happened?

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Posted by Love366

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Just get married and get it over with lol

NO 🙂

Why not ?

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Because I'll pass out when the vows are being read. 🙂

Hell yeah, he comes back with all sorts of excuses. Does my head in. So i cut all contact but he always ends up getting back in touch after awhile. He is only txting havnt seen him for 5 months now in person. Weird. He said he feels like a twat for not calling in and he would love to catch up. Omg i told him twat was an understatement but just call in and dont feel weird. I think he is embaressed at his behaviour. I wish he would just stop messaging so i can try to forget him. ARRRghhhh

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ah must be the nerves.
Once the ring's on the finger everyone's happy days ! 🙂

I am not really worried about the marriage thing anymore. DXP already burst that bubble, hehe!

So, you're telling me the new trend is a ring on the finger, yikes! That's ok! I'm good. 😄

Posted by NZaries
Hell yeah, he comes back with all sorts of excuses. Does my head in. So i cut all contact but he always ends up getting back in touch after awhile. He is only txting havnt seen him for 5 months now in person. Weird. He said he feels like a twat for not calling in and he would love to catch up. Omg i told him twat was an understatement but just call in and dont feel weird. I think he is embaressed at his behaviour. I wish he would just stop messaging so i can try to forget him. ARRRghhhh

lol, just tell him not to contact you anymore and mean it if that is really what you want.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno if it's a new trend, seems to have been going on for a while. 🙂

Thanks for enlightening me that rings brings happiness. I can be happy without a ring 😄

Do you believe it to be so?

Posted by Love366

Posted by NZaries
Hell yeah, he comes back with all sorts of excuses. Does my head in. So i cut all contact but he always ends up getting back in touch after awhile. He is only txting havnt seen him for 5 months now in person. Weird. He said he feels like a twat for not calling in and he would love to catch up. Omg i told him twat was an understatement but just call in and dont feel weird. I think he is embaressed at his behaviour. I wish he would just stop messaging so i can try to forget him. ARRRghhhh

lol, just tell him not to contact you anymore and mean it if that is really what you want.

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Ha Ha you got me. I do but I dont. Maybe thats my gemini moon coming into play Lol

Hmmm did u mean girly men or were u refering to me as girly—— Oh and no offense taken either way

yep defo girl last time i looked and yep he was defo in touch with his feminine side. New for me ive always gone for the mans man. Maybe i head back that way

Was enjoying the metro but didnt ride it long enough to give an informed answer. Il get back to ya on that. Oh thats right ive forgotten how to get to the station?

Its my dimentia setting in, hence the need to slow it down, been moving to fast for too long

Actually i just decided i think il take the bullet, less guessing games there. Hell as long as it slows down enough for me to get back on. Once on you know exactly where your going, not stops or turns, just hold on tight for a hell of a ride!!