How Do I Get My Gem Back??

Okay so when I was with Gem in the beginning he was way overboard into me. I did not want to get too involved with him. In the end I really got into him and now he is gone. I think he is stalking his ex-gf. 😢

I miss him. How do I get him back?

Forget that Gem and get with me! No, just kidding! Seriously though PD, you have to do something that's usually very hard for a Piscean to do....COMMUNICATE. I guarantee that he knows nothing about how you feel, or that you felt so strongly. Believe me, with all of the Pisceans in my family and my mermaid I know a thing or two on the subject. Don't keep those kind of secrets from a Gem or you will never QUITE have them. We know when someone is witholding information. At least I do. Words matter only if you use them to express thoughts AND feelings, k? So talk, tell, show, and appreciate that dude. Like Pisceans we are very special peeps PD. We definately need each other to fill in the gaps of our personas. Can you dig it? Don't be afraid to communicate, it's what we do. How's that for an answer? However, why would you want a stalker? Had to ask. What is it that you like about him PD?

Much Love and Respect,
~GM

lol, I'm sure there's someone you want to fuck in the next week or two .... the only reason why you are even thinking about him is because he no longer wants you, and you want what you can't have.



I'm sure your Scorpio professor will let you suck him off for another grade like last time ... that's will get your attention for awhile.

lol @ GM!! You already landed you a fish. 😉

Well GM I have gone above and beyond the communication line and no response. This is going to sound wild but I actually have become friends with his ex gf lol. Boy have I learned a lot about him, I don't think he is the guy for me. He has a trail of domestic violence stuff.

My ex-pisces is back around in the picture however we are just friends. I think this is what sent gemini off because he knew me and ex-pisces were together before him and I really liked ex-pisces. Well I am just not into ex-pisces now. lol I also think that this Gem is not the right guy for me either. There are so many things that go againist the grain of who I am i.e.marijuana, alcohol, and the DV. Talking to his ex gave me a whole bag of information, and I like the way I feel when I am with Gem ....but this whole escapade and all his other issues has warranted me to kick him to the curb for good. 😢 It makes me sad ....but really you asked the best question GM why in the world do I want a guy who stalks .....and does all the above. Perhaps I have had a laps in judgement.

PD

Gawd I love the Ignore Button .....So I don't have to read the trash that P-Cunt has to say about me!!! Yay!! 😛

PD

Gawd I love the Ignore Button .....So I don't have to read the trash that P-Cunt has to say about me!!! Yay!! 😛

PD

Mr. Nice .....I have always been honest with this gemini. It is the gem guy who has not always been honest or who has become secretive. What is that all about. I may have always been maybe a little too honest, when I made observataions about him. As for telling him how I feel.....well he knows. The last time we saw each other, I spilled my beans, maybe a little too much. I feel like he is the one that is not honest with me or anyone else and mostly to himself.

PD

Posted by Pisces_Dream
Gawd I love the Ignore Button .....So I don't have to read the trash that P-Cunt has to say about me!!! Yay!! 😛

PD

Wow! That whack job is still alive?? She's got to be the biggest projector I've ever encountered. Talk about a downstream fish.

GM

Get them back by going out with someone else.
We always want what we can't have.

Okay so I really had forgotten about this gemini and moved on. So I get this random text from him today. He sends a smiley face and than some scriptures .....I thought to self ......oh dear here we go again ......the holly roller is on the loose again. I forgot to tell you why I moved on. He belongs to a religious cult, that is was the deal breaker for me. Okay so Gem who thinks he can save all his bad actions of alcholism, drug addiction, abusive behavior, religious fanatic, and possibly going to jail. Long story ....but he has a long wrap sheet of DV. That was the major deal breaker. So he is going to save himself and anyone else with the word of God. *Rolls Eyes*

So the scripture he sends me is 1Corinthians 14:38 and it basically says "If anyone is ignorant let him be ignorant". I was like really—? So you are facing jail time and you are telling me I am ignorant....really— You are wanting to preach to me, yet you don't walk your talk....really—?

First: I cannot stand religious fanatics who try to be preachy to me.
Second: Who is he to judge me, when he has his own backyard to clean up.
Third: I do not tolerate "So called Christians" who are so self-rightous

Dude is a whack job!!! I thought I knew him .......I made the mistake of thinking I knew someone from 20 years ago. People do change that is for sure. He was not the same person I knew in HS. That is where I made the mistake.

I knew he would be back, but I don't want him back this time. Some people have baggage .....he has 3 semi loads full trying to pull up on my front door. nuh uh ....he is going to find someone else to embrace this crap. I am definately not that girl. I will never be the church lady whom he can manipulate with his faith. Give me a break!!!

Thanks for letting me vent....I feel better. 🙂

Thanks Lauren!! I agree not all Gem's are nutcases. It is really sad, he has potential to be something pretty great and he has let his life become by the shambles around him. I actually feel sad and sorry for him. 😢