How to get rid of a Gemini man...

...without having to change your phone number and/or getting a restraining order?

background info:

- dated for one... ONE month.

Posted by beachkisses
...without having to change your phone number and/or getting a restraining order?

HAHA. implying that either one of those would stop him.


nothing you can really do but wait until he loses interest. how long? depends on the person really. longest i went was about a week until i said fuck it.

Yeah...neither of those will work. I moved 3,000 miles from my Gem but he somehow kept finding me and calling for 10 years. He finally gave up when I got married. So try that- LOL!

have you tried ignoring him?

why? because it's over. the end.

It's been 5 months. and of course I ignore him.

Lol westside... "like that would work". Girl u need me! Where u think u goin!

Keep that attitude, that's how.

I have NEVER EVER heard of a true Gemini male or female that
has EVER stalked another person!!! BUT...? if you ever find
one that does look into his/her birth chart because something
is very very wrong!!! Gem's are always accused of not giving
enough attention,being forgetful and being late ect...
I am too forgetful to hold a grudge or get revenge most times
and I forget about appointments unless I make certain not to
miss it and I cannot focus on just one person all the time even
when in love,I don't cheat but I like to talk to alot of people
and carry conversations and be social ect...
but if u do meet that rare Gemini then start calling him/her
all the time,send tons of emails and drive by alot! works for
an aries too as long as you seem seriously obsessed with them
and they have a hard time getting rid of YOU!,which is more
likely the case since it's not a Gemini trait to stalk at all.
we would forget to simply do it lol

we also have short attention spans and we like alot of people!

Posted by beachkisses
why? because it's over. the end.

It's been 5 months. and of course I ignore him.

Are you sure he's stalking or just use to easy sex?
no offense but Gemini's are not likely to stalk anyone
even if they love the person.Are u sure you know his birth
date & birth chart? I find this impossible to believe,so
ask yourself,did he find you easy and just bugs you to get
sex?

also beachkisses how can he stalk you unless you haven't
made every effort to hide from him?

Geminithefox

Yes, he's a full Gemini. He also has Venus and Mercury in Gemini as well. So go figure.
haha what easy sex? I haven't seen him since beginning of July. He doesn't bug me for sex, all he wants to do is keep in touch/stay friends/see how I'm doing... HOWEVER he did tell me he is hoping I'll decide that I'd want a relationship with him one day, which I told him many times that I want nothing to do with him, and frankly I don't. I'm not attracted to him and I don't see a future with him. The reason why I don't want to even want to stay friends is because he's delusional about the fact that there is no future for us.

Posted by Geminithefox
also beachkisses how can he stalk you unless you haven't
made every effort to hide from him?

I didn't say he stalked me.
He is harassing me with phone calls/text messages/voicemails.

Easiest way to het rid of any guy : act CLINGY. Do all the things they say NOT to do to appear clingy. Usually does the trick.

@beachkisses it sounds like he just really wants to be friends with you but who knows? I just never heard of such a thing before but try getting a new number and email address if you really don't like him,I would.

Posted by Geminithefox
@beachkisses it sounds like he just really wants to be friends with you but who knows? I just never heard of such a thing before but try getting a new number and email address if you really don't like him,I would.

I've had this number for years, there are people I'm in contact rarely or for other reasons, so no, I'm not changing my number for this stupidity.

He messaged me again tonight saying that he misses me tremendously.

I do feel horrible, I wish I cared but I can't make myself feel any different.

Posted by Shagattarius
Easiest way to het rid of any guy : act CLINGY. Do all the things they say NOT to do to appear clingy. Usually does the trick.

HAHAHA

if only I had the time for that

its very easy to get rid of a gemini man: first you cut his head off then you stick it up his butt. After all that is how they look at the world in the first place.

gemini12121
I agree with u always be honest with a Gemini, and @beachkisses Are u sure he is a Gemini or a Libra.

Bring out all your Cancer traits and he'll fly away.

Agree with Geminifox this is a strange behavior for the twins. Gemini men that I know are chased instead of chasers. When I read it I thought wow a seriouly FLAWED GEM.

Posted by geminidude
Bring out all your Cancer traits and he'll fly away.

This ^^ LOL

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