Is my Gem gone forever

About a month ago me and my gem ( gem sun, aries moon, libra rising ) decided to go on a 1 month break after a big argument.

At first it was weird no talking to him or knowing what he was doing, because he doesn't get on social media. One day I randomly click on a girl's Instagram (Libra) who we went to college with, she is Instagram famous and I notice she has been hanging out with my gem the past month, at first it was them in group then she started posting pictures with just them.

Her Instagram was full of post of them taking trips and the captions were very vague. Now my Gem is very popular in the area and this could be her just trying to get more likes and comments. Everyone was commenting how cute they are. I was so hurt my heart drop.

I called him no answer, I texted him saying i'm ready to end the break. It takes him 2 days to respond. He tells me he is out of town (Prob with her) and wants to get dinner when he is back in town. I ask him about the girl. He hasn't said anything and it has been 3 days.

I don't know what to do. Can any Gem tell me whats going on in his head ?

I agree with my fellow Gem we don’t do breaks, even if we are really into the person we have way too much going and many other options to consider. We are social and love to learn and communicate, if he is not responding it is over. Heal and move on there many be another awesome Gem guy out there for you.

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I agree with my fellow Gem we don’t do breaks, even if we are really into the person we have way too much going and many other options to consider. We are social and love to learn and communicate, if he is not responding it is over. Heal and move on there many be another awesome Gem guy out there for you.

Interesting that we all agree we dont do breaks 😂 we are one and the same on this. Lol

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Yes, you give a Gemini a break....we are forever BROKEN UP.💯

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Posted by firestorm198
About a month ago me and my gem ( gem sun, aries moon, libra rising ) decided to go on a 1 month break after a big argument.
At first it was weird no talking to him or knowing what he was doing, because he doesn't get on social media. One day I randomly click on a girl's Instagram (Libra) who we went to college with, she is Instagram famous and I notice she has been hanging out with my gem the past month, at first it was them in group then she started posting pictures with just them.

Her Instagram was full of post of them taking trips and the captions were very vague. Now my Gem is very popular in the area and this could be her just trying to get more likes and comments. Everyone was commenting how cute they are. I was so hurt my heart drop.

I called him no answer, I texted him saying i'm ready to end the break. It takes him 2 days to respond. He tells me he is out of town (Prob with her) and wants to get dinner when he is back in town. I ask him about the girl. He hasn't said anything and it has been 3 days.

I don't know what to do. Can any Gem tell me whats going on in his head ?

You don't break up with a gemini for over a month and expect us to take you back.

I don’t get breaks...

Seriously why do couples need a break? That too for a month from each other?
I get the need for space. But breaks spell doom to me. It is disrespectful, ime.

I could never say to my girl friends or friends

Arrhhh I’m feeling abit like imma need a break from yo ass but I’ll be back when it suits me and we can at my discretion continue this friendshiiiit.


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You’re right it’s so disrespectful

Lol

I will never ask for a break while in a relationship. I might ask for space to think things through.

Also if someone needs to be away from you for a month, do they get to choose when and how they get to go away? What if there are kids involved or one of your health is messed up that time and you wanna walk away because you are feeling funky smh
New age dating and relationship style is so annoying

Actually thats why I date an aqua. They dont like breaks like that. Like sure, both needs freedom but within a clearly defined status. No drama needing breaks. Breaks tend to give one or both the chance to realize how much they actually dont enjoy each other. I think the only time i asked for a break was when I was ready to move on.

Tbh,I assumed Aquas and aqua doms need breaks...

I know if a guy were to ask for a break from me I will think he's a fool... Plus I will lose respect for him. Also it shows he doesn't like me enough, otherwise he won't leave me like that.

Who would have thought Aquas don't like breaks 🤔

Very interesting!

Hahaha! Aquas dont like uncertainty thats the reason behind it. They are too stable and will force that stability in their partners if needed hence, not agreeing to breaks. Thats what makes them good for gems coz we need an anchor in life otherwise we will be forever fleeing. Hahaha! I agree with you about the guy not liking you enough if he gives you or asks for a break from you. To me that will appear like you wanna see if the grass is greener on the other side and then come back once you find that its not? Hell no! Hahaha imma move on quick.

Makes sense. But they aren't into dating
All the aqua guys I know just like to annoy me. In that they are like Scorp guys... I don't even understand how you got into a relationship with an aqua!

Yeah.. plus it is foolish to leave a popular sign like Gemini alone for a month. Our ego will kick in. I won't move on to date someone else but I will resent the guy for taking a break.

Oh believe me. Aquas annoy me sometimes but i think its their way of catching attention hahaha in a very sweet, retarded way lol i find them funny when they try. And they are sweet when you get to know them more. And you know they only treat you that way coz youre in their circle already. Lol

It is true. Achhtually i have never met a gemini who got back with an ex. Normally we love our freedom more than we love our partners so if they give us a break, rest assured we will be fine to move on. I think its really crazy for them to think we will miss them if they give us a break. We dont operate like that lol

I never dated an Aqua, so I don't get this energy on a personal level. Most often I tell myself they hate me and I don't dwell on their ideas.


I wish all that were true for me

I kinda love being in a relationship and I place my partner above my freedom..aka I'm clingy af.

Open your heart to an aqua!!! Me and @señorita are happy with them!!!! Lols

An Aqua?
I don't think an aqua would like me.
Plus I hate dating. I will never ever date again. It's all over for me. I'm gonna be dxps cat lady astrologer. Just wait till I get my seven cats

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Don’t give up Beautiful, Mr. Wonderful awaits you ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

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Posted by firestorm198
About a month ago me and my gem ( gem sun, aries moon, libra rising ) decided to go on a 1 month break after a big argument.
At first it was weird no talking to him or knowing what he was doing, because he doesn't get on social media. One day I randomly click on a girl's Instagram (Libra) who we went to college with, she is Instagram famous and I notice she has been hanging out with my gem the past month, at first it was them in group then she started posting pictures with just them.

Her Instagram was full of post of them taking trips and the captions were very vague. Now my Gem is very popular in the area and this could be her just trying to get more likes and comments. Everyone was commenting how cute they are. I was so hurt my heart drop.

I called him no answer, I texted him saying i'm ready to end the break. It takes him 2 days to respond. He tells me he is out of town (Prob with her) and wants to get dinner when he is back in town. I ask him about the girl. He hasn't said anything and it has been 3 days.

I don't know what to do. Can any Gem tell me whats going on in his head ?

You don't break up with a gemini for over a month and expect us to take you back.

I don’t get breaks...

Seriously why do couples need a break? That too for a month from each other?
I get the need for space. But breaks spell doom to me. It is disrespectful, ime.

I could never say to my girl friends or friends

Arrhhh I’m feeling abit like imma need a break from yo ass but I’ll be back when it suits me and we can at my discretion continue this friendshiiiit.


🙄


You’re right it’s so disrespectful

Lol

I will never ask for a break while in a relationship. I might ask for space to think things through.

Also if someone needs to be away from you for a month, do they get to choose when and how they get to go away? What if there are kids involved or one of your health is messed up that time and you wanna walk away because you are feeling funky smh
New age dating and relationship style is so annoying

Actually thats why I date an aqua. They dont like breaks like that. Like sure, both needs freedom but within a clearly defined status. No drama needing breaks. Breaks tend to give one or both the chance to realize how much they actually dont enjoy each other. I think the only time i asked for a break was when I was ready to move on.

Tbh,I assumed Aquas and aqua doms need breaks...

I know if a guy were to ask for a break from me I will think he's a fool... Plus I will lose respect for him. Also it shows he doesn't like me enough, otherwise he won't leave me like that.

Who would have thought Aquas don't like breaks 🤔

Very interesting!

Hahaha! Aquas dont like uncertainty thats the reason behind it. They are too stable and will force that stability in their partners if needed hence, not agreeing to breaks. Thats what makes them good for gems coz we need an anchor in life otherwise we will be forever fleeing. Hahaha! I agree with you about the guy not liking you enough if he gives you or asks for a break from you. To me that will appear like you wanna see if the grass is greener on the other side and then come back once you find that its not? Hell no! Hahaha imma move on quick.

Makes sense. But they aren't into dating
All the aqua guys I know just like to annoy me. In that they are like Scorp guys... I don't even understand how you got into a relationship with an aqua!

Yeah.. plus it is foolish to leave a popular sign like Gemini alone for a month. Our ego will kick in. I won't move on to date someone else but I will resent the guy for taking a break.

Oh believe me. Aquas annoy me sometimes but i think its their way of catching attention hahaha in a very sweet, retarded way lol i find them funny when they try. And they are sweet when you get to know them more. And you know they only treat you that way coz youre in their circle already. Lol

It is true. Achhtually i have never met a gemini who got back with an ex. Normally we love our freedom more than we love our partners so if they give us a break, rest assured we will be fine to move on. I think its really crazy for them to think we will miss them if they give us a break. We dont operate like that lol

I never dated an Aqua, so I don't get this energy on a personal level. Most often I tell myself they hate me and I don't dwell on their ideas.


I wish all that were true for me

I kinda love being in a relationship and I place my partner above my freedom..aka I'm clingy af.

Open your heart to an aqua!!! Me and @señorita are happy with them!!!! Lols

An Aqua?
I don't think an aqua would like me.
Plus I hate dating. I will never ever date again. It's all over for me. I'm gonna be dxps cat lady astrologer. Just wait till I get my seven cats

Don’t give up Beautiful, Mr. Wonderful awaits you ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

Aww you so sweet... Thank you 😘

Are you and the Aries getting along?

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We are doing great, he is consistent and very sweet. Thanks for asking.

The way the op reads is that you only wanted him back when you saw he’s hanging out with this chick. Like his stock went up cause he’s chillin with another female. She wants him so now you do again too.

Just remind yourself of all the reasons you took a break in the first place. Those haven’t changed...

Posted by firestorm198

About a month ago me and my gem ( gem sun, aries moon, libra rising ) decided to go on a 1 month break after a big argument.

At first it was weird no talking to him or knowing what he was doing, because he doesn't get on social media. One day I randomly click on a girl's Instagram (Libra) who we went to college with, she is Instagram famous and I notice she has been hanging out with my gem the past month, at first it was them in group then she started posting pictures with just them.

Her Instagram was full of post of them taking trips and the captions were very vague. Now my Gem is very popular in the area and this could be her just trying to get more likes and comments. Everyone was commenting how cute they are. I was so hurt my heart drop.

I called him no answer, I texted him saying i'm ready to end the break. It takes him 2 days to respond. He tells me he is out of town (Prob with her) and wants to get dinner when he is back in town. I ask him about the girl. He hasn't said anything and it has been 3 days.

I don't know what to do. Can any Gem tell me whats going on in his head ?

What was the argument about? Who initiated the break? How long were you guys together?