I’m so numb and emotionally unavailable..

The Gemini and I didn’t work out. He had a temper which I was fine with, but one day he just caught me on the wrong day. We were debating a topic and it was going left. I never raised my voice...I simply said let’s agree to disagree and change the subject after he got yet another temper. He opted to get off the phone. I was upset and I never texted him or called him (he didn’t either) and he blocked me on social media two days later.

I reached out to him via phone and apologized (something I never do) he responded but never accepted my apology and we haven’t talked since. And I just let it go...I don’t think I was in the wrong at all...and I’m usually good about being honest. I was just tired of being the nice and accommodating care free person that doesn’t mind when he gets an attitude. It’s the fact that he thinks that he’s right to be mad about something so small. The fact that l told him things about myself and family and he said he cared but would block me over the dumbest sh!t.

I honestly felt so betrayed. And at that exact moment I didn’t feel anything at all. I’m so tired of dating...and I’m starting not to care. I have no desire to date at all...I don’t want to get to know anyone because everyone seems fake...I’m just over it and I can tell I’m just freezing up inside.

What was the topic?

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What was the topic?

I'm curious too. It's not a very Gemini-like trait to get mad over a difference of opinion and stay mad. We're usually cool to let people think what they want to think.

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All me and my gem do is talk shit and argue. But in a playful way. If I agreed with everything he said he’d get bored to tears and leave my ass 😂

But I guess if they had a disagreement about something big, something that makes them incompatible...like wanting to have kids for example. Then I guess it makes sense he checked out if he doesn’t see a future there.

I have many gemini in ma chart n ma dad is a gemini sun,. Give it a few days for him to chill. If hes ready, he'll talk again. I often argue wit ma dad as well about opinion 🤣 we often end up of no talk for 3-7 days cuz we both so stubborn. Sometimes i talk 2 him first n or sometimes he talks to me first then we are good again.

The temper thing is kinda worrying. He ever put his hands on you op?

Posted by peachy06
That's what you get when you date a double-faced sign 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m gonna laugh so hard when the universe sends you your soulmate in the form of a Pisces dom Gemini man 😂 actually laughing now

You are better off without him if he is going to behave like this every time you disagree with him 🙄

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What was the topic?

I'm curious too. It's not a very Gemini-like trait to get mad over a difference of opinion and stay mad. We're usually cool to let people think what they want to think.

All me and my gem do is talk butter and argue. But in a playful way. If I agreed with everything he said he’d get bored to tears and leave my ass 😂

But I guess if they had a disagreement about something big, something that makes them incompatible...like wanting to have kids for example. Then I guess it makes sense he checked out if he doesn’t see a future there.

Haha, there is so much good-natured shit-talk in our house too. My husband is a Pisces.

I'd say you're right that they touched on something of major importance to him. It's also possible that her Gemini is just an odd Gemini.

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I’m a Pisces! Wow another unicorn couple, Gemini/Pisces. We out there 🙌

I read through op’s earlier topics and they have only been dating 2ish months. Lots of arguments where feelers are hurt this early on doesn’t bode well for the longevity for them 😬😬

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That's what you get when you date a double-faced sign 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m gonna laugh so hard when the universe sends you your soulmate in the form of a Pisces dom Gemini man 😂 actually laughing now

Yeah, like what happens to me when I said I will never date Aquas again and yet I ended up with one.

Zip it! Just zip it! 🤣🤣

Karma is a BITCH! LOOOOOL

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Karma, fate, destiny,...yeah she’s one vindictive ironic mofo 😂

Posted by TechieAquaBarbie
The Gemini and I didn’t work out. He had a temper which I was fine with, but one day he just caught me on the wrong day. We were debating a topic and it was going left. I never raised my voice...I simply said let’s agree to disagree and change the subject after he got yet another temper. He opted to get off the phone. I was upset and I never texted him or called him (he didn’t either) and he blocked me on social media two days later.

I reached out to him via phone and apologized (something I never do) he responded but never accepted my apology and we haven’t talked since. And I just let it go...I don’t think I was in the wrong at all...and I’m usually good about being honest. I was just tired of being the nice and accommodating care free person that doesn’t mind when he gets an attitude. It’s the fact that he thinks that he’s right to be mad about something so small. The fact that l told him things about myself and family and he said he cared but would block me over the dumbest b!tter.

I honestly felt so betrayed. And at that exact moment I didn’t feel anything at all. I’m so tired of dating...and I’m starting not to care. I have no desire to date at all...I don’t want to get to know anyone because everyone seems fake...I’m just over it and I can tell I’m just freezing up inside.

what's his astrology?

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That's what you get when you date a double-faced sign 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m gonna laugh so hard when the universe sends you your soulmate in the form of a Pisces dom Gemini man 😂 actually laughing now

Can you please shut up sometimes ? Every comment you post piss me off. And I'd never date a fish. Never.

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Lol why you letting an internet rando's words ruin your mood tho?

Leave the mood swings and butt hurt to the Pisces. Its what we are good at after all, right? 😉

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Posted by peachy06
That's what you get when you date a double-faced sign 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m gonna laugh so hard when the universe sends you your soulmate in the form of a Pisces dom Gemini man 😂 actually laughing now

Can you please shut up sometimes ? Every comment you post piss me off. And I'd never date a fish. Never.

Lol why you letting an internet rando's words ruin your mood tho?
Leave the mood swings and butt hurt to the Pisces. Its what we are good at after all, right?

You're not ruinning my "mood". You're just ruinning this thread. Your lack of attention is seriously disturbing.

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Lol you literally said every comment I post pisses you off. Triggered much? Drama is supposed to be Leo’s thing. Stay in your lane 😂

It seems as though he took your easy-going personality as you being a pushover. Also you shouldn't have apologized when you did nothing wrong, but finally stand up for yourself. Forget him and go to the next man. As an Aqua woman, I personally don't like Gems. No matter how good they are to me, I just don't trust them at all because of the things I've witnessed them do to other people.

Posted by pisceswoman123
You are better off without him if he is going to behave like this every time you disagree with him 🙄

This. It sounds like he’s showing some emotional manipulation. I wouldn’t give a flip if I were you.