I've been talking to this Gemini guy on and off for almost a year now. When we first started talking things were intense (talking everyday 24/7 staying up all night talking) but being the libra that I am I needed some distance after a while so I didn't talk to my gen for 2 days. That's where everything went downhill. He messaged me asking if I wanted to end things and I told him no I enjoy his company and would like to keep getting to know him. I asked him the same question and he responded w an answer similar to mine. However, after that conversation I noticed his responses took longer and his messages were shorter so I asked him again if he wanted to end things with me and this time he said yes stating that we didn't really click. So I said okay and he sent me another message to which a response wasn't needed so I ignored it and then he sent me a snap that I opened and didn't respond and he sent another snapchat again to which I didn't respond bc there was nothing to respond to. A couple months later I messaged him and we started talking again and we started texting more frequently and hanging out more frequently too. He would spend me multiple messages and snap chats if I wasn't responding within a certain time frame.Things were going good, it was like how it was in the beginning again. He was goofy w me and we spent a lot of one on one time together. But then after a while it slowed down I don't remember why exactly it's been a while and some details are fuzzy. Anyway we got into a fight and didn't talk for the whole summer but he would send me messages of things reminded him of me which I thought was sweet. When summer ended and he came back into town for school he asked me to hangout but we ended up not hanging out bc neither of us brought it up again which didn't bother me bc being a libra I'm as fickle as a gem so I don't take it that hard when plans fall through every now and again. I wanted to understand what was going on so I asked him to tell me honestly what he's feeling about the situation. He told me he's always liked me and still like me but he isn't looking to be in a relationship with anyone because he has issues with himself he needs to work on. He's too fickle with things etc so I said okay I can understand that. We didn't talk for a couple days and then he messaged me and we started back up like nothing happened. Then a couple weeks later we fought and I unfollowed him on social media which he immediately noticed and found a way to message me asking why I had done what I did. I ended up telling him how much I liked him and it hurt me that he would keep entertaining me but not be willing to commit. I'm told him okay with him not being able to commit I just wish he wouldn't play with my feelings. I also mentioned that I was hurt bc I thought he cared about me but now I was starting to think that wasn't true which scared me and that I needed space. And he responded by saying he thought it was a petty way to do it and see you. A little over a week passed and I refollowed him on everything and within seconds he refollowed me back and messaged me and we talked for a couple days. Then I messaged him to next two day both of which he ignored so I decided I'd leave him alone bc he probably needed space after I emotionally unloaded all of that on him. He ended up messaging me the next two days both of which I ignored bc I'm hurt he didn't give me emotionally response a reply. I'm wondering does this Gemini mean it when he says he like me or is this just a game? Should I continue to ignore him and get over it bc he's told me he doesn't want a relationship or should I stick it out? Why does he say he doesn't want a relationship but also won't leave me alone? Fellow Gemini advice would be very much appreciated lol
