The "real" reason Geminis love LDRs ?!

I didn't think Gemini's liked long distance anything...

I don't like LDR's...

I did have one, once, with a scorp. I was on the phone with him about 95% of his wake time. Turns out he had another girl and married her. So, cheating CAN happen....

But, it's been 7 months and he's not even willing to meet you?? Do I have that right, you have not met??

Sounds sketchy to me...

Posted by KateFireMoon

Posted by misslissa
I don't like LDR's...

I did have one, once, with a scorp. I was on the phone with him about 95% of his wake time. Turns out he had another girl and married her. So, cheating CAN happen....

But, it's been 7 months and he's not even willing to meet you?? Do I have that right, you have not met??

Sounds sketchy to me...

No no noooo lol we've met up already. I mentioned in my post that we only see each other once a month and I don't know if that's normal?

Tell me more about this Scorp tho wow how did u find out and how did he manage to hide her??

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Oh ok. I must have missed it. I read it agian. Lol

I don't think that's normal. But, as a female gem I would want the touch...

He finally told me! And, the other question was a question I didn't want to know the answer to. I was done.

Posted by KateFireMoon

Posted by misslissa

Posted by KateFireMoon

Posted by misslissa
I don't like LDR's...

I did have one, once, with a scorp. I was on the phone with him about 95% of his wake time. Turns out he had another girl and married her. So, cheating CAN happen....

But, it's been 7 months and he's not even willing to meet you?? Do I have that right, you have not met??

Sounds sketchy to me...

No no noooo lol we've met up already. I mentioned in my post that we only see each other once a month and I don't know if that's normal?

Tell me more about this Scorp tho wow how did u find out and how did he manage to hide her??

Oh ok. I must have missed it. I read it agian. Lol

I don't think that's normal. But, as a female gem I would want the touch...

He finally told me! And, the other question was a question I didn't want to know the answer to. I was done.

Ouch .. I would've wanted to know errrrthang lol but that's my Venus in Scorpio talking! Haha sorry this happens to you 😢

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Thanks! But, no sad faces... I survived! 🙂

if there's any gem that loves LDR i gotta see that. None of the gems i dated enjoyed being in them. In fact i was coping moreso than them.

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Posted by virgowithasoul
if there's any gem that loves LDR i gotta see that. None of the gems i dated enjoyed being in them. In fact i was coping moreso than them.

Well, I do.

I do better in LDR and long distance friendship then those with me irl. 😉

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gimme your address and we'll be penpals lol

Still has their freedom, while still getting to care and be cared for. A Gemini lady once told me she didnt like men invading her space...

I also think that they like LDR because they get to learn about new cultures/languages.

If the Gemini really cares about you they will want to see you daily, touch you, hold you. To have physical distance...miles between you will strike hopelessness in his heart.

My opinion after reading this thread is that you are a entertaining distraction for him. And as many lovely things he whispers into your ear over the phone, as many 'I loves you' he gives freely to you he is stingy with his time.

Ask yourself why he hasn't introduced you to his dad. Wouldn't he want to introduce the woman he professes to love to his family?

The condo he's waiting on probably doesn't exist. He hasn't brought you home because he is already sharing his home with a SO? Perhaps.

Either way the fact remains that you are not a priority in his life.

I would also suggest you to proceed with caution. Instantkarma has some good advice for you Go to his city to meet his family and friend's group. let him introduce you to his family and friends as his gf and do visit his home and meet his dad as well. Then only you can say he is serious about you otherwise please proceed with caution we can see many red flags here

Posted by KateFireMoon

Just hate the idea of inviting myself to his dad's or making him introduce me to everyone .. Shouldn't this come from the heart? (His) and how long do you wait before you say f*ck it

Yes it should've come from him by now but its been 7 months now so if it has not come from his heart by now it probably never will. If you want to find our where you stand with him, You have to invite yourself to his dad's house. There's nothing wrong in wanting to meet his friends and family.

I hate LDR