My Gemini

My Gemini , just told me he is ready to be with me now.

He is out of town for the past 3 weeks on business. So, we have been chatting online alot. He tells me that he loves and misses me all the time. Leave message for me (6 hour time difference).And when I get up I get them. I really am so happy.

We dated 10 years ago, when we were at univeristy together. then He moved away with his parents to the far east. One of his parents works for the UN.

I went through a bad breakup with a libra. Now, I am so scared to let Gem in completely. He makes me happy and we stayed friends all these years. And all of the sudden out of nowhere we felt attracted to each other again . And making plans to be together.

any advice

He's saying this online and not to your face? That to me doesn't feel right, I do hope he follows through with his words. I'm curious what prompted him to say this. Did you meet face to face and then he told you this or have you not met yet and he's swept away with reminiscing on the past and said these words of love. It all makes a huge difference. I would caution you not to skip ahead of him, I know he's saying what most women love to hear, most of us want to be someones undying love, want to be cherished that's normal but maybe wait to see if you both click together on a human one on one level before jumping to conclusions, it's been years and who knows what his life style is like now, you won't know until it's real for the both of you, meaning your together for a long amount of time physically.

If you have spent one on one time with him and he's now professing his love and his wants to build a future with you, well congrats, take it slow, don't let the past destroy your future and relax, if he's for real you won't have to worry, he will take care of your emotions if he's serious.

I recent got together. --- The 10years ago has a bit of history.

Iam guarding my heart . I am just so affraid to let him incompletely. I want to take things slow. He is very handsome and such a charmer. And having had libra issues, does not help. Every man is not a lying cheat.

We are getting to know eachother and we are both enjoying it. But we both travel a lot. I am a Project manager for a IT consultancy. And I loved that about my job , that I am always somewhere different.

we were chatting on google talk today. "And he said that he is ready to be with me now".

you know what .You are right I should just enjoy what we have and not think so much. He makes me happy.

yes because a gem could hurt you worse than a libra! so definitely guard your heart

I'm not understanding you women here.



The Gem man in this situation is expressing nothing but genuine care .. yet, you all tell her to guard her heart based off of a different man?



It was the Libra who fucked with her heart .. NOT this Gem man.


NOT .... NOT .. this man.


Yet, you all tell her to watch out, to fear .. you counsel her on the negative when he is expressing his care for her?



seriously ..... how fucked up.

This lady is the one afraid of letting someone in .. this lady is the one with a wall up.


NOT the Gemini.


Can you all see that?

Do you have the powers of observation?

Really?



Because you tell her to guard and protect herself .. while SHE is the one who is likely to cause harm in this situation because SHE is the one with an erected emotional wall in front of a man who cares about her and wants to be with her.



Wow ... just wow.

Hi guys,

I have not logged in lately.

My Gem and I took off a few weeks and went "home" . He took me to all his favourite places .He was talking about getting married and having kids. He wants 4 kids. So, we compromised on 3.

Right now , I am just having fun and enoying a great relationship. It feels like we are on the same page.

Thanks for all our advice.

I am gonna have faith and let the chips fall where they do.

Just enjoy the ride.

GM