POOF!! Then You're Gone.

So, I'm talking to a Gem. I really like him. Despite all the good signs, I can't get over the fact that my (Leo) sister dated a Gem for 2 years... Everything seemed to be going great for them, and then one day, out of the blue, he left her for another woman and married her. He had obviously been seeing the other woman on the side, but my sis had NO CLUE!!

How do I get over the notion that the Gem I am seeing won't do it to me? Or, do I just have to trust that whatever will be will be?

Is this a common Gem trait? BTW my moon is Libra, Uranus conjunct Sun. I am drawn to all Air signs, so there is no going back.

Imput please.

I think it would be pretty unfair to base this man off of something another person did .. we all like to look at traits of sun and make opinions about it, but, in the end .. it really doesn't make a person.

Their own personal values and morals make a person.

It's unfortunate that your sister got her heart broken by a man .. but, the man who hurt her was him, not this man to whom you are crushing on.

If you attempt to date him, having thoughts in your head about doubt and mis-trust .. then this is exactly what you will see because it will be what you are looking for .. in which case, there's no way he could possibly measure up, since his character will be based off of someone else and he can only live up to himself.

In my humble opinion, I say ... judge him for who he is and NOT who the person was who hurt your sister.

Sound advice P-angel. I will definately take it. I guess my Scorp sun is so scared of being hurt that I am inventing scenarios in order to avoid heartbreak.

Well..this is an irony..and being a scorp and dating a gem...GO WITH YOUR SPIDEY INSTINCT..if it looks like a duck..then it is a duck!

My gem was so smitten with me in 5 months he proposed, gave me a ring, told me that I was the next great love of his life...last week I purchased 200.00 dollar tickets to a show for his birthday weekend ...on my way to pick him up from his home..He calls to tell me that we do not have a future..but he would still go provided that I knew that we had no future...and geuss what I went anyway...he called for two days. trying to get me back..and when he found me...he told me that he was sleeping with his ex of 10 years..and they were still in love, but he still loved me—?? I then got smart did a polite three way with ex..dont ask..but it was effective..she played me a voice message stating that he would want no other woman in his bed that night but her but he was just tired!

He still is saying I am the one...he is persistently playing games..I might have to get a restraining order...Good luck! Just wanted to convey keep all eyes open?

Scorp chick, I'm dating a scorp man. If we become exclusive i would never cheat on him.
Not all geminis are cheats. i know a lot o gems who are loyal to their partners. i also know that some geminis may cheat when they aren't happy in a relationship. This shouldn't discourage you from dating your gemini man. My scorp keeps me on my toes, and i'm sure if you keep him on his toes, he'll be all yours. When i say keeping a gemini on their toes, it entails being spontaneous, adventurous, often surprises him with things such as kisses (foot rubs, bubble baths or a home made meal) Yes we like to be spoiled by our partners. Small gestures go a long way

Hey! What's with these Scorpio/Gemini pairings? They seem to be popular nowadays... I'm currently seeing a gemini too AND I'm also a scorpio with a libra moon. I would say not to generalize, not all signs will act in the same way. Take it slowly and see how it goes.

Gemini is a very "love at first sight" sign and that Pisces girl with the broken car should also take this into consideration.

Since you are a Scorpio I will just say that your cautious intentions are essentially grounded but Geminis are very love at first sight people.