Minnesota191
@Minnesota191
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Stay or leave a gemini
Mistake on the Mc Donalds post..some how it added
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Well, it seems he’s comfortable for the most part with the dymacis of your relationship. And you seem to want more and are possibly worried you’re falling harder for him then he is for you.
Otherwise im not sure why you’re confused about leaving or staying with him. Did he seem uncomfortable when you told him you loved him? How was he behaving after that? Was he distant?
At your ages, meaning no offense, men are even more likely to be set in there ways and don’t want to change things too much. He could be the type of guy who doesn’t want to eventually move in together or get married.
He seems content with the way things are. If you hope for more from him, there’s no other way around it. You need to talk to him and tell him exactly what you’re feeling and what you want for the future. And ask him what he wants. You should never be afraid to ask those questions. Both of your feelings matter in the relationship.
If he’s on a completely different page, then you need to decide if you can accept that and be happy, or move on if you feel like he can’t give you what you want.
P.S. You can edit your post and erase all the McDonalds stuff, lol
Otherwise im not sure why you’re confused about leaving or staying with him. Did he seem uncomfortable when you told him you loved him? How was he behaving after that? Was he distant?
At your ages, meaning no offense, men are even more likely to be set in there ways and don’t want to change things too much. He could be the type of guy who doesn’t want to eventually move in together or get married.
He seems content with the way things are. If you hope for more from him, there’s no other way around it. You need to talk to him and tell him exactly what you’re feeling and what you want for the future. And ask him what he wants. You should never be afraid to ask those questions. Both of your feelings matter in the relationship.
If he’s on a completely different page, then you need to decide if you can accept that and be happy, or move on if you feel like he can’t give you what you want.
P.S. You can edit your post and erase all the McDonalds stuff, lol
Thank you all for responding.
No offense taken on the age thing.
When I told him that I'm falling in love with him he said "when did that happen" I thought that was funny...ha,ha funny.
He was not distant, he stayed that night and all of the next day.
I like that I have my own place and space.
Im not into living with or marrying anyone right now.
I guess what i want is to know for sure he will be in my life and want a relationship.
I know he is not seeing anyone else and does make the effort to see me often.
I will see what the future brings...
Thank you all for taking the time to comment.
No offense taken on the age thing.
When I told him that I'm falling in love with him he said "when did that happen" I thought that was funny...ha,ha funny.
He was not distant, he stayed that night and all of the next day.
I like that I have my own place and space.
Im not into living with or marrying anyone right now.
I guess what i want is to know for sure he will be in my life and want a relationship.
I know he is not seeing anyone else and does make the effort to see me often.
I will see what the future brings...
Thank you all for taking the time to comment.
You have been together 10 months and he hasn’t said “I love you?”
Well..our first night together he said it but he had a few drinks.
I know he doesn't remember and that it does not count because he had a buzz
What does your gut say?
That he ment it
Posted by Minnesota191How does he show it though?
That he ment it
He seems to want to spend a lot of time with me and texts alot!
And talks alot lol.
And talks alot lol.
Yes, it can be long paragraphs sometimes and yes at times it will get dull but he still continues the conversation.
My gut tells me he likes me but he can be confusing at times...the twins, i know lol
My gut tells me he likes me but he can be confusing at times...the twins, i know lol
Posted by Gems4life
I'm only young. To you probably really young however I'm a very tricky Gemini. I want a soul mate bond with someone however I don't like labels until I'm ready and if that person tries before then I will get cold feet really fast.... I don't like feeling pressured however recently I've been seeing a Scorpio and he's the most cheesiest guy you will ever meet. Usually I'd have run by now but I've stuck around because I do like him. Alot... However I do come across as cold sometimes and distant.... I want things to progress I want a friendship and then a relationship. I want that courtship that.... chase. It makes me fall harder. Now I'm willing to travel to see this guy and to do it alot, Any other guy (past relationships) I'd not have done that. I know this may not seem all that helpful but what I'm trying to say is I think he does like you but he's still making up his mind on whether he can trust HIMSELF... Us Geminis really do run hot and cold... But if he spends most of his time with you and talks to you alot then you're in there 🙂.
Thank you, yes it is helpful.
I hope yours works out well for you 😊
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Minnesota191
I've been seeing a gemini man for 10 months. I'm 53 hes 55. We were together breifly in high school and i never forgot him. He was a tender, considerate lover back then and i was so naive. Fast forward 30 plus years
He makes the effort to see me at least 4 to 5 times a week and communicates quite often texting.
I can feel the coldness at times and was very confused at this so I started researching gemini men traits and he fits most of it.
It helped to try and understand him.
He says he is a free spirit and i take that as a no commitment but we do things together like a couple in a relationship.
I recently asked him how he feels about me and he says he adores me...
We each have our own place and space and i like that.
I am a leo and I've never felt such an intense feeling from him when we are making love.
I am a very patient person in general and from what i have read about geminis this is what is needed to see if they will open their heart up to you.
I do love him and told him so and the response I got was when did that happen..
Im overwhelmed at how much I love him and don't know if I should stay or leave.
He is a very honest man and always tries to do the right things in life.
Can I please get some advice from a gemini man?
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