Sweet Talk and Gemini

I met a really cute gemini guy whom I am very interested in and its been 1 month. He asked me to be his gf the first date we ever had? huh I was like no. We had only been talking on messages before that. He told me that I am beautiful and he thinks I have soft skin and that I am such a lady.
He keeps messaging me all the time and stays constantly in touch throughout the day but if I ignore his messages for a couple hours (i.e. when I am busy he gets worried and keeps messaging me)

But here is the big question: Is he just trying to get in my pants or he is actually interested in a relationship?
Are geminis faithful?
How should I keep him interested because I am interested in him as well

He is a Gemini sun, libra moon, cancer venus. I am an aries.

Thanks for your insight TokerX. That was very helpful.

My question is what should I do in a situation like this? Wait to be his girl to have sex? Or keep playing hard to get? I like him alot too but I just dont show it as much as he does

Oh I make him laugh! He loves it. He has been trying so hard to get me but I havent given up

I hope youre right lol Gem87...So far we have been doing good but I wana know more on how to keep him interested

Oh yeah he loves my body and skin (well I do have pretty good skin and awesome boobs) lol but the way he makes me feel is just awesome.

He just looked in my eyes and told me that he thinks am really very pretty. Most guys say youre beautiful but its kinda just a compliment. When this gemini said it I felt like he was looking in my soul while saying it. He is pretty damn hot too

Oh I have a gemini rising, I never chase 😛 But other than that he has been doing the chasing and I am loving it. But sometimes he talks to me so much, I want to take it slow

Thanks for the tip 🙂 I will remember not to chase him

Posted by Sassygurl
I met a really cute gemini guy whom I am very interested in and its been 1 month. He asked me to be his gf the first date we ever had? huh I was like no. We had only been talking on messages before that. He told me that I am beautiful and he thinks I have soft skin and that I am such a lady.
He keeps messaging me all the time and stays constantly in touch throughout the day but if I ignore his messages for a couple hours (i.e. when I am busy he gets worried and keeps messaging me)

But here is the big question: Is he just trying to get in my pants or he is actually interested in a relationship?
Are geminis faithful?
How should I keep him interested because I am interested in him as well

He is a Gemini sun, libra moon, cancer venus. I am an aries.

In my earthbound opinion, anyone who wants to jump to bf/gf status on the first date comes across flaky and a little desperate. It's a red flag to me.

And gems HATE to be ignored. But if he gets worried/insecure after just a couple of hours, then he's got some issues. That crap makes me run.

Posted by Sassygurl
Thanks for your insight TokerX. That was very helpful.

My question is what should I do in a situation like this? Wait to be his girl to have sex? Or keep playing hard to get? I like him alot too but I just dont show it as much as he does

When my exhusband (gem) and I were dating, I waited three months. And we had a LOT of dates in that three months.
Don't know if that helps or not.

I see... This gemini I am seeing really likes "hard to pin down girls" and the ones that dont have sex with him easily...

I see... This gemini I am seeing really likes "hard to pin down girls" and the ones that dont have sex with him easily...

He is so charming, its hard to resist him honestly. But I haven't had sex with him yet either and we have been seeing each other for over a month now.

Posted by Sassygurl
I met a really cute gemini guy whom I am very interested in and its been 1 month. He asked me to be his gf the first date we ever had? huh I was like no. We had only been talking on messages before that. He told me that I am beautiful and he thinks I have soft skin and that I am such a lady.
He keeps messaging me all the time and stays constantly in touch throughout the day but if I ignore his messages for a couple hours (i.e. when I am busy he gets worried and keeps messaging me)

But here is the big question: Is he just trying to get in my pants or he is actually interested in a relationship?
Are geminis faithful?
How should I keep him interested because I am interested in him as well

He is a Gemini sun, libra moon, cancer venus. I am an aries.

Faithful with the right person once we decide to settle down with you. But that takes alot of time and doesn't always go so smoothly if you are the type who makes us constantly guess what your intentions are.

In my earthbound opinion, anyone who wants to jump to bf/gf status on the first date comes across flaky and a little desperate. It's a red flag to me.

And gems HATE to be ignored. But if he gets worried/insecure after just a couple of hours, then he's got some issues. That crap makes me run.





Yes we certainly do hate to be ignored. Don't get me wrong we like a little bit of a challenge, but if we have to constantly have to work at you it gets tiresome rather quickly!

Posted by Sassygurl
I see... This gemini I am seeing really likes "hard to pin down girls" and the ones that dont have sex with him easily...

So, give him what he wants. We prefer friends first, well I know I do. The sexual aspect will fall in line in it's own time. Why rush to bed?

Okay yeah we are friends right now! Thanks for your insight gemguyaz34 😉

Okay yeah we are friends right now! Thanks for your insight gemguyaz34 😉

Oh i see, thanks for the advice Lust