Toxic relationships

I'm observing two of them the first one is my Scorpio friend and her Gemini BF the other is my Gemini friend and her BF not sure what sign he is.

My female Gem friend she started seeing this guy a few years ago I knew of him they were happy together then things turned for the worse, he started to create stress in their relationship,I see what the stress has done to her. My Scorpio friend and her Gem BF their relationship has turned toxic he is getting the damage from her I look at him and think you didn't look like that before you met her.

I've never let any relationship/friendship turn toxic but I'm seeing the results of the effects of a toxic relationship does to a person. When I seen my female gem friend a relationship I know is a toxic relationship it confirmed it for me the Gem guy and my Scorp friend is a toxic relationship.

I haven't seen my female gem friend face to face in over a year I was shocked when I seen her, holy butter, the results of excessive stress is showing she looks older than she really is. The gem guy looks the same it's confirming what I'm seeing in the gem guy he is under stress its not my imagination.

Yes I'm watching a scorpio woman destroy a man I can see why her last relationship ended so badly she is tree trunking evil.

Posted by Stihl46
I'm observing two of them the first one is my Scorpio friend and her Gemini BF the other is my Gemini friend and her BF not sure what sign he is.

My female Gem friend she started seeing this guy a few years ago I knew of him they were happy together then things turned for the worse, he started to create stress in their relationship,I see what the stress has done to her. My Scorpio friend and her Gem BF their relationship has turned toxic he is getting the damage from her I look at him and think you didn't look like that before you met her.

I've never let any relationship/friendship turn toxic but I'm seeing the results of the effects of a toxic relationship does to a person. When I seen my female gem friend a relationship I know is a toxic relationship it confirmed it for me the Gem guy and my Scorp friend is a toxic relationship.

I haven't seen my female gem friend face to face in over a year I was shocked when I seen her, holy butter, the results of excessive stress is showing she looks older than she really is. The gem guy looks the same it's confirming what I'm seeing in the gem guy he is under stress its not my imagination.

Yes I'm watching a scorpio woman destroy a man I can see why her last relationship ended so badly she is tree trunking evil.

Toxic relationships take a huge toll on a person. Sleepless nights, usually poor eating habits, lack of enthusiasm in life, just feels like the life is drained out of you.

Trying to please a person that can't be pleased, is exhausting!! Someone constantly making you feel like you can't do anything right. Drama, all of it..

Posted by Impulsv
Still at it

*snickers*

I think we all been through a toxic relationship ...in one way or the other ...if there was those that didnt go through a toxic relationship then you were lucky.

I myself have been in one a long time ago, and after you go through it you become a better person. In a way it is painful and a struggle but its how you go on and move on from it that counts. trust me when you have gotten through that kind of experience you will see the world in a different light. in a lot of ways it was a hard and painful lesson but a very meaningful one. it gives you courage and experience and makes you realize your personal boundaries and what you wont put up with.

Posted by feby
My Aries has a scorp moon and he's not hard for me to deal with at all but I had a really hard time dealing with the Gemini.
There is just so much and so many things that happened that sometimes I feel I can't possibly express it without sounding crazy myself. It was very challenging though.

A lot of our troubles were sexual compatability issues. And we knew how to push each other's buttons.

I do see him but we have both moved on with other people. It's always to pick up my sons and a lot of times my aries goes and picks them up for me.
I long for some part of that but I would never go back. I hope that makes sense....

Toxic exes are a challenge. I feel you.

one thing I learned though of beiing on the road that you went through is that, dont give a **** lol. thats what I did and it worked his my daughter's dad btw (pisces sun, scorp moon too) and it pisses him off big time that I don't even bother replying to him if he gets nosy about my love life, career and everything. heck I refuse to even talk to his family and friends if its about him and his new wife (had 2 divorces after I broke up with him).

my life is now enfinitely better and peaceful. and my daughter doesnt give a f**** bout her daddy. LOL..

Heck yeah. Toxic relationships can affect you physically, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, sexually, financially, etc.

Stress period can ruin you if you let it.

But to be fair, some people are attracted to dysfunction b/c they're attached to it. And it's b/c that's all they know or what they inwardly believe they deserve.

As a friend, it's hard, but you've gotta wait until someone is sick and tired of being tired. You've gotta sit back & let and watch people go through those toxic relationships b/c the more you try convincing them that their relationship is a hot stove, the more they wanna gravitate towards it.

Some people snap out of it, realize their worth & never look back. And some, 20 years later are still with the same ole kinds of poisonous people, and going through the same ole bullsh**t. In those cases, I no longer see those people as helpless little victims. At some point, unhappiness becomes a choice, & you've gotta hold yourself accountable for where you are in your own life.

And the people who end up reliving the same ole bullsh***t b/c THEY refuse to make different choices & not b/c others are forcing them to go through it, get no sympathy from me. I'm doing no favors to them by babying them for being toxic to themselves

Since it is you posting this topic I will not participate but I will say is to mind your business.

You are extremely consumed by this scorp girl and her bf.

Focus on your love life and not your friends! Move on dude the girl doesn't want you stop making the same damn thread singing the same damn song!

Hey guys no I don't want anything to do with a toxic relationship NEVER!

I always look for answers to my questions when I solve problems I compare a known problem with one I'm trying to solve. I know my female Gem friend is in a toxic relationship I seen the effect that has happened to her, I'm seeing the same effect on the gem guy.

My female Gem friend knows she is in a bad relationship it is taking a toll on her I feel really bad for her she is working trying to get out of it. She has one problem she is too involved with the guy she is with money wise which they are trying to work out.

Here's the thing I needed something to compare too so I would have an answer to why the Gem man looks the way he does. When I seen my female Gem friend I said to myself holy butter what happened to you she aged 10 years, when I seen her it made me upset. A year ago when I spent time with her she was the healthy looking woman I've always known, we talk over the phone so I keep contact with her. She's pretty upset I try give her comfort she likes talking to me. It hurts me to see her that she's aged because of stress she is too good of a person to have that happen to her.

After seeing my female gem friend and comparing how she looks compared to the gem guy looks I know for sure the gem guy is in a toxic relationship. It explains why he looks exhausted he's stressed, Gems are not too different when it comes to how they act and look. I have another female gem friend she's always cheerful she is in a healthy relationship with her husband I know what a healthy relationship looks like with a happy Gemini.

I hate to see a man get destroyed by a woman but there isn't I can do anything about its every man for himself. I'm seeing how vicious a woman can be especially if you are a weak man. I'm not a weak man I don't let people pull the wool over my eyes I'm very aware of my surroundings. Why do you think I'm asking questions I want answers to what I'm seeing you don't turn a blind eye to butter.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
Since it is you posting this topic I will not participate but I will say is to mind your business.

You are extremely consumed by this scorp girl and her bf.

Focus on your love life and not your friends! Move on dude the girl doesn't want you stop making the same damn thread singing the same damn song!

She keeps getting me involved in her life she's un-happy in hers I'm getting the back lash from it.

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Posted by chococream

my life is now enfinitely better and peaceful. and my daughter doesnt give a f**** bout her daddy. LOL..

It's a shame you made an innocent child hate her own father. Women like you disgust me.

These things have a way of backfiring many years down the road. Children are impressionable...they learn to hate without understanding.

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i know it's more complicated than that. It's more greys. Nothing is black and white about this.