Telling a girl shes a gem

So this girl i work with is ur proverbial gemini. Im a male pisces. She broke my heart. I dont think she knows about astrology. She did tell me she loves angelina jolie. She would always try n get a rise out of me. After i called her out on treating me bad she kind of laughed it off. Even though she kept being flirty and touchy feely, when i went to make a move she freaked out and said she wasnt hooking up with me. I threw her out. The next day after we talked and shes all trying to sound innocent and stuff. Saying mean shit like " what made you think i wanted to hook up with u?" or "wouldnt i have hooked up with you now?" i think she was shocked that i held my ground and havent chased after her. Funny, considering she has yet to make contact with me or apologize, NOT! Seriosuly though, what the heck?

ok i'm gonna take a shot at this... and some may not agree but i really don't care. please do not take offense when i say this but if you think about it you already know the answer... you say she's the proverbial gem... then you should know that flirting means nothing to us. it just means we're being friendly... and there's really nothing to apologize for if you know the "proverbial gemini". why would someone say sorry for how YOU preceived the situation? and keep in mind that there's really nothing taboo with a lot of us... especially when it comes to conversing with another...

Judging by what you wrote, Misslissa could be right about what happened. Being flirty is a part of us, even to the point that we often GENUINELY don't realize we're doing it. We think we're just being nice, and the guy is getting the wrong idea. If she thought she was just being friendly, then SHE would be the one to now think that YOU were in the wrong for making advances. She might not have apologized or made contact because she thinks you're the one who should be apologizing.

Posted by Shogunrua
So this girl i work with is ur proverbial gemini. Im a male pisces. She broke my heart...... Seriosuly though, what the heck?

seriously?

hook
line
sinker


😄

and I bet she didn't really intend on catching you as her fish 😄

it's just how things are.

Posted by Shogunrua
So this girl i work with is ur proverbial gemini. Im a male pisces. She broke my heart. I dont think she knows about astrology. She did tell me she loves angelina jolie. She would always try n get a rise out of me. After i called her out on treating me bad she kind of laughed it off. Even though she kept being flirty and touchy feely, when i went to make a move she freaked out and said she wasnt hooking up with me. I threw her out. The next day after we talked and shes all trying to sound innocent and stuff. Saying mean shit like " what made you think i wanted to hook up with u?" or "wouldnt i have hooked up with you now?" i think she was shocked that i held my ground and havent chased after her. Funny, considering she has yet to make contact with me or apologize, NOT! Seriosuly though, what the heck?

She was touchy feely? Ok now Gemini's do flirt and not all of it is innocent (in that we are unaware that we're doing it). I'd say she was sending you mixed signals perhaps and you should call her on it. She'll appreciate it if you present it in a logical way. Let her know how YOU see it and see what she says. Don't hold your breath thinking she'll come to you and apologize. You said you threw her out...I think she knew what she was doing and what she had no intention of doing at the same time. The girl was messing with you...

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Posted by Shogunrua
So this girl i work with is ur proverbial gemini. Im a male pisces. She broke my heart. I dont think she knows about astrology. She did tell me she loves angelina jolie. She would always try n get a rise out of me. After i called her out on treating me bad she kind of laughed it off. Even though she kept being flirty and touchy feely, when i went to make a move she freaked out and said she wasnt hooking up with me. I threw her out. The next day after we talked and shes all trying to sound innocent and stuff. Saying mean shit like " what made you think i wanted to hook up with u?" or "wouldnt i have hooked up with you now?" i think she was shocked that i held my ground and havent chased after her. Funny, considering she has yet to make contact with me or apologize, NOT! Seriosuly though, what the heck?

She was touchy feely? Ok now Gemini's do flirt and not all of it is innocent (in that we are unaware that we're doing it). I'd say she was sending you mixed signals perhaps and you should call her on it. She'll appreciate it if you present it in a logical way. Let her know how YOU see it and see what she says. Don't hold your breath thinking she'll come to you and apologize. You said you threw her out...I think she knew what she was doing and what she had no intention of doing at the same time. The girl was messing with you...

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@GemStar05 are you insinuating that a "touch feely" from a gemini is not innocent?

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Posted by Shogunrua
So this girl i work with is ur proverbial gemini. Im a male pisces. She broke my heart. I dont think she knows about astrology. She did tell me she loves angelina jolie. She would always try n get a rise out of me. After i called her out on treating me bad she kind of laughed it off. Even though she kept being flirty and touchy feely, when i went to make a move she freaked out and said she wasnt hooking up with me. I threw her out. The next day after we talked and shes all trying to sound innocent and stuff. Saying mean shit like " what made you think i wanted to hook up with u?" or "wouldnt i have hooked up with you now?" i think she was shocked that i held my ground and havent chased after her. Funny, considering she has yet to make contact with me or apologize, NOT! Seriosuly though, what the heck?

She was touchy feely? Ok now Gemini's do flirt and not all of it is innocent (in that we are unaware that we're doing it). I'd say she was sending you mixed signals perhaps and you should call her on it. She'll appreciate it if you present it in a logical way. Let her know how YOU see it and see what she says. Don't hold your breath thinking she'll come to you and apologize. You said you threw her out...I think she knew what she was doing and what she had no intention of doing at the same time. The girl was messing with you...

@GemStar05 are you insinuating that a "touch feely" from a gemini is not innocent?

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It's not innocent; and she was leading him on. Sending mixed messages. On the other hand she could just be that touchy feely kind of girl (there's that Gemini in me seeing both sides of a situation) but he doesn't know that as she's combining all that with intense flirting. However, as I said before, I think she's messing with him. He made a move based on what signals she was giving him and he got shot down. Good that he threw her out! She just likes the attention... I'm still laughing at how she's acting all innocent the next day!