WHat's the best way to break up with a Gemini?

He's been the best bf, but I just don't feel the same way anymore. I just don't have the heart to see him hurt cuz he didn't do anything bad at all and I want to do it as nice as possible.

We don't have the connection anymore. I feel like we're just friends. I find myself being mean to him for no reason and I don't want to do that to him. I've been giving him hints that we don't see eye to eye on a lot of things but I don't think he gets it.

weeeell, the truth is, he will be better of without you. i can tell you're in a relationship for the wrong reason(s), which is how i came to this conclusion. so it would be in both parties best interest if you acted as soon as possible.

please and thank you

Hints? I don't know about other Gemini's but I abhor, hints, ambiguity, vagueness, etc. Just give it to him straight out.

Be direct..If it's done sneaky or cold turkey, the mental midget detective in my brain kicks in and it's all bad after that.

gawd, he probably already knows anyways, just pretends it's nothing, but if you have been detaching, don't worry, so has he probably. he will moan and whine at first and than he will wake up a day or two later and say to himself "good riddance".

that's how I am. always.

I've only been broken up with completely out of the blue once, and he did it the wrong way. He was direct in telling me he was breaking up (which was good), but then he still came around, giving me the impression that he hadn't been serious and that we were still together. He needed to disappear for a good long while so that I could have understood it really was over.

I broke up with the gem, but I feel horrible. I tried to really be nice, but at the same time not give him hope. Gem said that he didn't have any clue that things were bad. I thought it was obvious that things were not going well, but to him everything seemed perfect!? I still reply to his msgs, phone calls, but not all the time. Maybe once a day for every 10 msg he sends me on how he is hurting and don't understand why things are the way they are now. I get really sad and been crying since the day i broke up with him a few days ago. Should I just completely ignore him? ANy advise?

ignore him. you're playing with his hopes. kinda cruel.

How did you guys interact?

if you try to see eye to eye with our words, you are missing our eyes...air signs play on words like water signs play on emotions..

Posted by capris
I broke up with the gem, but I feel horrible. I tried to really be nice, but at the same time not give him hope. Gem said that he didn't have any clue that things were bad. I thought it was obvious that things were not going well, but to him everything seemed perfect!? I still reply to his msgs, phone calls, but not all the time. Maybe once a day for every 10 msg he sends me on how he is hurting and don't understand why things are the way they are now. I get really sad and been crying since the day i broke up with him a few days ago. Should I just completely ignore him? ANy advise?

Let it be...Gemini people tend to go through the hurt and get over it quickly. Oh and believe it he knew something was wrong when you weren't communicating with him--maybe he likes you so much he chose to overlook it. Why are you sad? You said you didn't feel the same about him right? It's the best thing for you AND him. A door has been closed and window will open...leave the door closed. Sorry to sound so cold but that's the logical Gemini in me. Hope you feel better (darn twins!)

Posted by roamingfree
gawd, he probably already knows anyways, just pretends it's nothing, but if you have been detaching, don't worry, so has he probably. he will moan and whine at first and than he will wake up a day or two later and say to himself "good riddance".

that's how I am. always.

Haha!!! I tend to overreact but just because I'm a complete drama queen and I want to make the other party feel bad. Then I get out there and find a replacement!