@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus
STOP ME!! Gemini impulsiveness again... :(
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Hmm maybe you could write down all the times you felt hurt because of him and that might get you to feel more distanced. Even though this might bring up all the old issues and you would want to bring them up again (not a good choice).
Another thing is to just get busy and do you. Do fun things, visit old friends, go workout, watch movies aka do everything that will get your mind off of him 🙂 Just when you least expect it he will contact you.
Lizuz,
That.. ugh.. I have no clue.. LOL But here's an idea... that might work. He must be having other female friends, right? Find out if he has... and I am dead sure he is all flirty with them too. 😉 And try to be a little possessive and you'll stop calling him first.
Comrade, thanks again for your advice but I think the key is to concentrate on me. He may have other ladies and really, so what, he is not my man. We are just exploring a connection and I need to dial crazy down, not up. LOL I'm going to live my own life and not be too worried about what's going on in his world.
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Posted by c0mrade
Lizuz,That.. ugh.. I have no clue.. LOL But here's an idea... that might work. He must be having other female friends, right? Find out if he has... and I am dead sure he is all flirty with them too. 😉 And try to be a little possessive and you'll stop calling him first.
Then the poor soul will run away scared (sometimes possessive appears clingy to some men) LOL
Posted by c0mrade
Taurus never contact a girl first. It's always come-hither. They do initiate the contact for the first few times and then I let HER do it. With exception to the one of whom Taurus thinks as a potential life partner. Hope this helped?
Now this is confusing. With my Taurus friend, I dropped the WHOLE thing..then he miraculously text me on Wednesday and called me at 6:35 in the morning when I KNOW that he is usually asleep (he is a night owl and I am a morning person). This is all after my not calling, texting or showing up where he is for 2 weeks. These exchanges should not be so DAMN hard, what gives? I do not play or understand games or unsurity.
Posted by c0mrade
Taurus never contact a girl first. It's always come-hither. They do initiate the contact for the first few times and then I let HER do it. With exception to the one of whom Taurus thinks as a potential life partner. Hope this helped?Now this is confusing. With my Taurus friend, I dropped the WHOLE thing..then he miraculously text me on Wednesday and called me at 6:35 in the morning when I KNOW that he is usually asleep (he is a night owl and I am a morning person). This is all after my not calling, texting or showing up where he is for 2 weeks. These exchanges should not be so DAMN hard, what gives? I do not play or understand games or unsurity.
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Calling at 6 in the morning? haha... I do that too.. but only with some of my close friends. 🙂
and MzDiana, i'm a night owl too. It's 1 AM here... :/ Coincidence or a trait? lol
Calling at 6 in the morning? haha... I do that too.. but only with some of my close friends. 🙂
Close friends or "Close Friends"—?? Again, confusing! He did say in his morning conversation that he was going to start going to bed earlier...like 8 or 9 (That is my bed time, LOL) This is why I broke off all contact, I am too confused by him. We are in the beginning stages of friendship, so I thought..not much ventured, not much gained and nothing really to lose.
Posted by Lizuz
So, if I ever needed a reason to hang back, Mz Diana, you just gave it to me!! LOL. Apparently, that is the key to this sign. Hang back and if they want you, they will make the moves. Gotcha! Thanks!
My event was really by chance. I am not trying to be a love interest (right now). He is an interesting person and I am waiting to see what kind of person he really is...just like he is evaluating me, I am evaluating him. I am new to the state and do not have a lot of background knowledge about him, his friends, etc. No affection, kissing or gifts. But I am glad my sharing could be of help to your situation.
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Taurus never contact a girl first. It's always come-hither. They do initiate the contact for the first few times and then I let HER do it. With exception to the one of whom Taurus thinks as a potential life partner. Hope this helped?