Went off on Gemini Friend -

I met this gemini guy on my birthday, 4/2 and we seem to hit it off. We hung around each other for hours and saw each other again last night. He came to my house and asked me to use the restroom. I have 2 restrooms in my house (one in the hallway and the other in my bedroom). I stated yes and went into another room to get something. After 5 minutes later I passed my bedroom and noticed that my bedroom door which leads to my restroom was opened (was originally closed). I asked him did he go into my bedroom and he stated yes to use the restroom. I lost it. I asked him to leave my house because I felt he was being disrespectful and also cursed him out. He tried to apologize and stayed outside my door for about 20 minutes asking to come back in. He finally left. Did I over react?

"asked me to use the restroom. I have 2 restrooms in my house (one in the hallway and the other in my bedroom). I stated yes and went into another room to get something."


When he asked to use the toilet, you obviously told him that there were two, one in hall and one in bedroom ... for if you didn't state that there were two, then there's no way he would have known you had one in your bedroom. In which case, when you said "yes", you didn't clarify that he is only permitted to use one of them.

In reality, by telling him "yes" and the locations of both, you were giving him permission to use either.

I feel sorry for the guy ... you mistreated a guest in your home.

Clarity: He used the restroom the 1st time he was at my house..the one in the hallway. I never told him about my second bathroom. He asked was "my bathroom" presentable. He explained that he was talking about my personal bathroom after I went off. I felt violated due to he violated my privacy. I think you are right, I did go overboard, but I did send him a text and apologized for the behavior about 2 hrs later. As of now...no response. Oh well...

Do you think that he will come back? I did apologize but no response.

I agree with Mar and that other person. You overreacted, but I find that Fire Signs often do.

He was out of line for going into your bedroom. I'm sure he knew damn well what he was doing. If he weren't guilty, he wouldn't have stood outside for as long as he did asking to come back in. He was being a snooper and he knows that you know it.

You may have overreacted, especially considering you're now questioning your behavior. Cursing him out and "losing it", as you say, probably wasn't needed to get your point across.

Perhaps try getting to know the next guy a little better before inviting him into your home.

He called me yesterday. We hung out again last night and never brought up what happened the day before.....

Tricky Gemini you should have been direct with where he should go, he apologized no problem that's it - I suppose that if you be direct he won't play games with you - you got him in yo house don't break it up oridnary sextile Air fanning Fire it should be just fine.

It is becoz that is how spontaneous these two signs can be that's why if they are typical that's whats happens its that Air Fire vibration when I wen't to my Sagittarius girl's house the first time I pissed in her private bathroom but she didn't wanna have sex with me becoz I didn't have any money she became upset about that.

And if you are a typical Aries girl.............. hey get real he just took a piss, I tink that it would be kinda neat if he had a jealous streak becoz if yu are typical of your sign then he will intervent every now and then so it works out nicely that way.

Mischevious Geminis if you don't like'em don't bring 'em home very bad idea. You are just (Yes JUst) an Aries that's all if he is typical he will know everything about u in a few minutues and Geminis are are Misses and Masters of manipulation.

"did I over react?"

yes, you really did for nothing...

I think you should apologize...

lol .. well since he called ..i'd say he's over it ..we're kind of totaly tolerant people..and we don't mind people acting out..find it quitte amusing , since we do it too ..and don't need to understand everything that others do, have the respect for ppl flipping out out of nowhere..

here's a question for u aries ! if i (gemini) over reacted at an aries..he called me a few times that day..so i went off at him for calling me so often ...to what he answered fine i'll never call u again .. was he serious ? that was in august!! we kind of lost touch since then ..had a beer once, talked a few times -i called him, and he still answers some of my messages..but only vague..

You freaked out on him for that? Umm whats your problem? You way over reacted. Do you have any idea what you just made yourself look like? lol

maybe he was checking your crib to see how tidy you are......