Experience w/Gemini Men— Help

Hi Everyone!

Oook to make a long story short I just got out of a 6 yr relationship (6 months ago). I started dating this Gem three months ago, and lost my mind. I guess I was not used to the dating scene and I became kinda aggressive and tried to push to make things work. At times, i would try to contain myself, but then I wolud go back to pushing.

I am typically not like that. I think I just wanted it to work so bad, and did not want to loose him I tried to rush things. Need less to say, it blew up in my face and he told me that he wanted to stop dating but still stay in each other lives as friends.

I am extremely upset over this. Not only was a begining to develope strong feelings for him, but I feel that I was acting very unlike myself for the most part, and he never got a chance to see the real me on a consistant basis.

Do any of you know anything about Gemini men, is there any way to get him back? He told me that he is stubborn and once he makes up his mind about something its over - but he said while thinking that this is what I am really like.

I have copletely learned my lesson, to just relax and let things happen I just wish there was a way to show him that.

Any suggestions or advice??

Please tell me you also posted this on the Gemini Board...

Gemini's are not stubborn. They are flighty and annoying! Not to mention-LIARS! Not all of them are like that but the few I do know don't push my buttons all that hotly. Girls or Guys.

My ex boyfriend is a Gemini well he is on the Gemini/Cancer cusp so he displayed both traits.

To be honest I can't add anything helpful to this only hurtful. So my suggestion is to follow your heart. Sit down and talk with him. Communication...always is the key.

Wouldn't touch the men from this sign with a barge pole...

Or sagis..

I have narrowed my preferences down now..LOL..

Scorpio or Aries

LOL...Both are Mars energetic and can shag the living daylights out of you..and also have the control/air of authority about them...Yep I think that'll do for me..Can't be arsed with the ones that stay in the middle of the road..they need to be run over..and then reversed over

"If you need your freedom that damn bad then what are you doing in a relationship anyway?"

Never has a truer statement been spoken..

Emerald....yea Ihave been doing some thinknig about it. I have decidedto allow what happens to happen. Im going to try my best to not think about it too much

Missmorals....yes Sagis are terrible!!! I think theyare worse than Geminis. I have dated two of them, for a short time of course. After dating them I vowed to never date Sagis again.

For some reason, I attrack them and Pisces. My ex b/f of 6 yrs is a Pisces, kinda boring and unstable. But anywho...life is crazy!!!!

I attract the fire signs...and I am really not complaining..

I wish I could just attract the "good man" signs. LOL!

LOL@MM!!!!!! Ran over then reversed on....

*Gives MM high five*

Why were you behaving impulsively?

If you are obsessed with him that much your consolation is the possibility for friendship.

Miss facetious Missmorals, down on your knees bitch, get dicked around by as many Martians as you wish.

'cookiemonster' wtf - B#*ch.

Be yourself relax, take it easy, stop being an idiomanic impulsive emotional gape stank, if he's offered you his friendship then you have a chance to start over again.

wtf? "barge pole." Fuk around with as many pleasuring inducing p#@sy ass mother f'ers as you wish you fool.

LMAO...

oh dear... gemini's are really not demons people...liars , we could be but dont hate bc we do it better then you! =)~ Ok now for the mature statement... Communication with this man is KEY* you just have to know the right tools needed when communicating to make it get into his head, Believe it or not he does hear every word you say even if he doesn't show it...

You have to let him chase you, he will enjoy it & find you harder to catch and in his head that'll make him think you're worthy of his time.

Thank you all soo much! I have not talked with him since Saturday...and I plan on giving it a little while longer. Just to allow everything to cool down (including myself) and so that things will not be soo awkard.

We I do call him...I have decided to just let things go with the flow. If it was meant for the two of us to be together...we will be. I have decided not to try to coax him into anything and create some sort of plan. That was my prob to begin with. I am just going to allow things to go with the flow and see where that leads us. 🙂

Thank you all soo much! I have not talked with him since Saturday...and I plan on giving it a little while longer. Just to allow everything to cool down (including myself) and so that things will not be soo awkard.

We I do call him...I have decided to just let things go with the flow. If it was meant for the two of us to be together...we will be. I have decided not to try to coax him into anything and create some sort of plan. That was my prob to begin with. I am just going to allow things to go with the flow and see where that leads us. 🙂

I was with a gemini for 6 years and it was 6 years of HELL! He was never consistent with ANYTHING. And we fought like mad. I tried so HARD to make it work but it never did. Although he was very smart and had the biggest juiciest penis...thats how i got hooked. The twins symbol for gemini is the truth. He was evil and then part good. It took me a long time to get over him though.

LOL. Very true......

hee hee

LMAO @em gem....

Maia, FD's advice was right on the money....this man is giving you another chance with his friendship....

I find the Gemini man to be sheer magic...perhaps this is my Gemini Rising speaking, but I can't live without my Gem...he is so creative, caring, spacey, sensitive...

Eaglegirl I thought you and your Gem broke up...you guys got back together?

Yea this is the thing....I say that I am going to let it go..and i have to a certian extent. LOL

The way that Gem told me that he has never changed his mind once he has decided that he just wants to be friends with a girl, was sooo cold. He said "if there was any doubt, i would not be bringing it up." I thought to myself ouch....he is showing no mercy! LOL. Then in the same breathe he sounded so sincere and sweet about wanting to be my friend. And honestly, I dont want to settle for being just his stupid friend. LOL

Oh well whatever...like I said I am just going to call him in a few wks and see what happens. FD.....ur a GEM man. Do you think his mind is set?

Me and Gem guy are friends right now. The feelings are there...will always be...that's the way we are....

Why don't you want to be friends with this guy? You might discover a whole other aspect to him.

B/c I am scared that I will never loose feelings for him....and he will only look at me as a friend.

Its kinda like a tease. But I guess the bottom line is....I just have to wait it out and see what happens..

If all we end up being is friends...i just have to get over it...stop bitching and moaning and move on. LOL

dward417- i am in the same situation, i dated a gemini passionately for 2 years and it was a lot of fighting, and arguing. until it ended. it felt like an addiction, and he took a long time to get over as well. now we are seeing each other again, 1 1/2 years later, but we live in different cities now so..who knows.