ALL LEOS with mercury in cancer HELP!

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ariesleo5eva
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
impossible lol jkjk

its actually not that hard to trap us (we get in the cage pretty easily) its keeping us there that's the challenge.
YES OMFG YES we've been talking (causually dating) for 9 months and I notice its harder to keep his attention texting isnt consistent which drives me nuts well how do I keep this one in the cage he's a keeper ive been told to be consistent and affectionate lmao 2 qualities I lack
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
impossible lol jkjk

its actually not that hard to trap us (we get in the cage pretty easily) its keeping us there that's the challenge.
YES OMFG YES we've been talking (causually dating) for 9 months and I notice its harder to keep his attention texting isnt consistent which drives me nuts well how do I keep this one in the cage he's a keeper ive been told to be consistent and affectionate lmao 2 qualities I lack
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lol my texting is inconsistent too, i just get distracted or im really busy but im still thinking about you. We need a leo male perspective on this one!
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
impossible lol jkjk

its actually not that hard to trap us (we get in the cage pretty easily) its keeping us there that's the challenge.
YES OMFG YES we've been talking (causually dating) for 9 months and I notice its harder to keep his attention texting isnt consistent which drives me nuts well how do I keep this one in the cage he's a keeper ive been told to be consistent and affectionate lmao 2 qualities I lack
lol my texting is inconsistent too, i just get distracted or im really busy but im still thinking about you. We need a leo male perspective on this one!
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sweet jesus thank goodness! & yeah where are yall at?!?! so you being a leo sun mercury cancer do you find yourself taking longer than the usual fire sign to get in a relationship?
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I have cancer moon, mars and mercury. For me communication is enhanced by emotion felt. if I don't feel an emotion I can't express myself, If I am stirred by emotion then I have no problem otherwise I have nothing to say. I'm generally very quiet but observant. So I will observe, and remember, everything. My memory for the past is incredible, I forget a lot about the present.

I feel that my mercury finds it difficult to find the words unless encouraged by a strong feeling - and then it's all action. And I love anyone who can invoke that for me.

I also can't be asked what I think about something and be able to give a thought out considered answer. Ive learnt to pause, let my mind go blank, and wait to feel because usually when I do this I get it right.

The hardest thing I find with this placement is being unable to use the right words to express what I mean as it's such and emotional ruler to have for communication. I'm feeling things but some things can't be expressed emotionally iykwim. I'm finding it difficult to describe I'm afraid 🙂
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I have cancer moon, mars and mercury. For me communication is enhanced by emotion felt. if I don't feel an emotion I can't express myself, If I am stirred by emotion then I have no problem otherwise I have nothing to say. I'm generally very quiet but observant. So I will observe, and remember, everything. My memory for the past is incredible, I forget a lot about the present.

I feel that my mercury finds it difficult to find the words unless encouraged by a strong feeling - and then it's all action. And I love anyone who can invoke that for me.

I also can't be asked what I think about something and be able to give a thought out considered answer. Ive learnt to pause, let my mind go blank, and wait to feel because usually when I do this I get it right.

The hardest thing I find with this placement is being unable to use the right words to express what I mean as it's such and emotional ruler to have for communication. I'm feeling things but some things can't be expressed emotionally iykwim. I'm finding it difficult to describe I'm afraid 🙂
wow all of you are like helping me put the pieces to the puzzle lol this is why I cant hold convo for long thank goodness i thought i was the problem 🙂 see me and his mercurys square each other in synastry and goodness gracious squared mercurys in synastry is so frustrating see im the opposite how i communicate is always with emotion more so with action I often hide that emotional side because im scared to show it because Im never sure how people react to me emotionally but its nice to know he responds well to it

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Posted by bricklemark
Im sure he has cancer or pisces in the chart...canlt be all Aries.....

Squares are difficult but they also cause an attraction.
nope he has no pisces in his chart except in his 4th house thats it I have pisces in my saturn his mercury is in cancer and our suns square each other even tho we are both fire signs squares are really attractive but frustrating at the same time our synastry is square dominant its not effortless like trines but when we both work for its so rewarding
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Yeah I'm not a big texter. I don't mind if a woman texts me (and of course I will reciprocate), but I'll usually only text to initiate a date OR for some quick playful banter...that usually winds up with me initiating a date. I think part of this is that I've always seen better results when I text less. I can also convey more complex ideas through a phone call or in person interaction.

As a Leo it's already hard for me to open up emotionally and because everyone treats texting so seriously, I always try to type out the best response and adhere to "texting etiquette". So I don't usually flirt via text and I RARELY use any emojis. I can still be playful, but I won't text for long periods of time. If the conversation is going on for a while, I'm just going to call the person.

Anyway, you can't trap a Leo, nor can you trap a Cancer. We'll see you coming a mile away (Cancer even more so) Cancer is a self protective sign and will side step any maneuver you make. A Cancer must choose you not the other way around. A Leo is different, you can walk straight up to us, and we'll consider what you want, but trapping us is another story. If we like what you're selling, you'll have our attention. Just don't try to control us because our stubbornness will take over. If we do something, it has to be on our terms.
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Im sure he has cancer or pisces in the chart...canlt be all Aries.....

Squares are difficult but they also cause an attraction.
nope he has no pisces in his chart except in his 4th house thats it I have pisces in my saturn his mercury is in cancer and our suns square each other even tho we are both fire signs squares are really attractive but frustrating at the same time our synastry is square dominant its not effortless like trines but when we both work for its so rewarding
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Well 4th is an angular house, so he's fundamentally water. Inherited from family. I thought he was Aries, how can he have Cancer Mercury?
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Posted by bricklemark
Im sure he has cancer or pisces in the chart...canlt be all Aries.....

Squares are difficult but they also cause an attraction.
nope he has no pisces in his chart except in his 4th house thats it I have pisces in my saturn his mercury is in cancer and our suns square each other even tho we are both fire signs squares are really attractive but frustrating at the same time our synastry is square dominant its not effortless like trines but when we both work for its so rewarding
Well 4th is an angular house, so he's fundamentally water. Inherited from family. I thought he was Aries, how can he have Cancer Mercury?
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no I am the aries he is leo with mercury in cancer so the 4th house will have to do with his emotions he does seem emotional but he doesnt show it but you can tell its hard to explain he is very complex