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Mercury in cancer
Why Mercury in Cancer Men Withdraw When They Like You
Mercury in Cancer men tend to withdraw to protect their feelings and process emotions when they like someone. This behavior is a form of emotional self-preservation, making them appear distant or slow to respond, even if they are interested. Understanding their need for emotional security helps improve communication and patience.
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sun
I consider cancer in merc to be one of my favorite placement but I get why it would be frustrating to some...
I consider merc the the way you express your self to others
Cancer in Merc express themselves in a gentle and CAREFUL way
Whats his sun, moon, Venus, and mars
And your sun, moon, merc, Venus, mars
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sun
hmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
Posted by Cancan26
I consider cancer in merc to be one of my favorite placement but I get why it would be frustrating to some...I consider merc the the way you express your self to others
Cancer in Merc express themselves in a gentle and CAREFUL way
Whats his sun, moon, Venus, and mars
And your sun, moon, merc, Venus, mars
yes I love his mercury being in cancer I find cancers to be HILARIOUS when they aren't down
my chart:
sun: aries
moon:leo
Merc: aries
venus:taurus
Mars: aries
rising: leo
his chart
sun: leo
moon:libra
merc:cancer
venus: gemini
Mars:virgo
rising: sag
as you can see his chart is all over the place he does not I repeat does not act like a leo at ALL he leaves me confused (which aries love smh) and he has a lot of fans
Posted by Cancan26
I consider cancer in merc to be one of my favorite placement but I get why it would be frustrating to some...I consider merc the the way you express your self to others
Cancer in Merc express themselves in a gentle and CAREFUL way
Whats his sun, moon, Venus, and mars
And your sun, moon, merc, Venus, mars
yes I love his mercury being in cancer I find cancers to be HILARIOUS when they aren't down
my chart:
sun: aries
moon:leo
Merc: aries
venus:taurus
Mars: aries
rising: leo
his chart
sun: leo
moon:libra
merc:cancer
venus: gemini
Mars:virgo
rising: sag
as you can see his chart is all over the place he does not I repeat does not act like a leo at ALL he leaves me confused (which aries love smh) and he has a lot of fans
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This is a tricky lol leeb moon indirectness
Gemini Venus.. Love of variety and get bored easily and maybe a shy cancer merc and who knows what aspect he has in his chart
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
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I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
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His moon is Capricorn
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
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Very well thought out. lol he has the most challenging venus and mars combo Gemini and Virgo. me having a fire mercury in aries I think he gets mad at me without telling me its tough I can't understand him at times I would love to express what I want with him but in my mind I think I'll come off as agressive or too pushy this is so complicated
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
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wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
Very well thought out. lol he has the most challenging venus and mars combo Gemini and Virgo. me having a fire mercury in aries I think he gets mad at me without telling me its tough I can't understand him at times I would love to express what I want with him but in my mind I think I'll come off as agressive or too pushy this is so complicated
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My ex is Gemini Venus too but mars is in libra lol
Posted by Cancan26
I consider cancer in merc to be one of my favorite placement but I get why it would be frustrating to some...I consider merc the the way you express your self to others
Cancer in Merc express themselves in a gentle and CAREFUL way
Whats his sun, moon, Venus, and mars
And your sun, moon, merc, Venus, mars
yes I love his mercury being in cancer I find cancers to be HILARIOUS when they aren't down
my chart:
sun: aries
moon:leo
Merc: aries
venus:taurus
Mars: aries
rising: leo
his chart
sun: leo
moon:libra
merc:cancer
venus: gemini
Mars:virgo
rising: sag
as you can see his chart is all over the place he does not I repeat does not act like a leo at ALL he leaves me confused (which aries love smh) and he has a lot of fans
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My guess would be his Venus in Gemini and Mars in Virgo. Both are looking for more mental stimulation and aren't going to push for anything romantic in the beginning. There will be back and forth here as the person tries to figure you out.
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
Very well thought out. lol he has the most challenging venus and mars combo Gemini and Virgo. me having a fire mercury in aries I think he gets mad at me without telling me its tough I can't understand him at times I would love to express what I want with him but in my mind I think I'll come off as agressive or too pushy this is so complicated
My ex is Gemini Venus too but mars is in libra lol
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jesus christ how did you deal with venus in gemini its fun and all but VERY FLIRTATIOUS do you think gemini's ever get bored of us? lol
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
Very well thought out. lol he has the most challenging venus and mars combo Gemini and Virgo. me having a fire mercury in aries I think he gets mad at me without telling me its tough I can't understand him at times I would love to express what I want with him but in my mind I think I'll come off as agressive or too pushy this is so complicated
My ex is Gemini Venus too but mars is in libra lol
jesus christ how did you deal with venus in gemini its fun and all but VERY FLIRTATIOUS do you think gemini's ever get bored of us? lol
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Yes, Venus in Gemini loves to flirt .. no, they don't get bored of us Aries, they get bored easily in general.. my ex & I were able to keep each other entertained most of the time.. I'm also libra mars & Aqua Venus, so the airiness between us was good but more so in the bedroom hahaha
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
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That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
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see that is the problem I am full blown aries impulsive as fuck! I really do act first think later. and you are exactly right he is toooooooo slow with decisions I want committment my impulsive self tried to tell him that because I swear he was hinting out that he was ready i felt so embarassed when he ran I had to play it off like I was joking which hurt my feelings when I flat out told him what I wanted he lied and was indirect and I knew he was but I ( being prideful as hell) played along we've been casually talking for 9 months how long is this going to take -_________________________-
Posted by Cancan26
I consider cancer in merc to be one of my favorite placement but I get why it would be frustrating to some...I consider merc the the way you express your self to others
Cancer in Merc express themselves in a gentle and CAREFUL way
Whats his sun, moon, Venus, and mars
And your sun, moon, merc, Venus, mars
yes I love his mercury being in cancer I find cancers to be HILARIOUS when they aren't down
my chart:
sun: aries
moon:leo
Merc: aries
venus:taurus
Mars: aries
rising: leo
his chart
sun: leo
moon:libra
merc:cancer
venus: gemini
Mars:virgo
rising: sag
as you can see his chart is all over the place he does not I repeat does not act like a leo at ALL he leaves me confused (which aries love smh) and he has a lot of fans
Hiiii Sun/Moon astro twin 😛
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ARIES WITH A LEO MOON 🙂 OMG
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
This isn't a cancer thing, all Leo's are super sensitive.
this is true but I feel like Leos have a better way of hiding it or being more direct with it.
Posted by Cancan26
I consider cancer in merc to be one of my favorite placement but I get why it would be frustrating to some...I consider merc the the way you express your self to others
Cancer in Merc express themselves in a gentle and CAREFUL way
Whats his sun, moon, Venus, and mars
And your sun, moon, merc, Venus, mars
yes I love his mercury being in cancer I find cancers to be HILARIOUS when they aren't down
my chart:
sun: aries
moon:leo
Merc: aries
venus:taurus
Mars: aries
rising: leo
his chart
sun: leo
moon:libra
merc:cancer
venus: gemini
Mars:virgo
rising: sag
as you can see his chart is all over the place he does not I repeat does not act like a leo at ALL he leaves me confused (which aries love smh) and he has a lot of fans
Hiiii Sun/Moon astro twin 😛
ARIES WITH A LEO MOON 🙂 OMG
Yes 😄
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I like want to hear your whole life story NOW!! lol kidding but thats awesome I've never met another. so do you have a favorite sun sign/moon sign combo you like to be romantically involved with?
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
see that is the problem I am full blown aries impulsive as fuck! I really do act first think later. and you are exactly right he is toooooooo slow with decisions I want committment my impulsive self tried to tell him that because I swear he was hinting out that he was ready i felt so embarassed when he ran I had to play it off like I was joking which hurt my feelings when I flat out told him what I wanted he lied and was indirect and I knew he was but I ( being prideful as hell) played along we've been casually talking for 9 months how long is this going to take -_________________________-
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Normally people that come off brash have no self control
People who can't make decisions look insecure
Both of you got work to do
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
see that is the problem I am full blown aries impulsive as fuck! I really do act first think later. and you are exactly right he is toooooooo slow with decisions I want committment my impulsive self tried to tell him that because I swear he was hinting out that he was ready i felt so embarassed when he ran I had to play it off like I was joking which hurt my feelings when I flat out told him what I wanted he lied and was indirect and I knew he was but I ( being prideful as hell) played along we've been casually talking for 9 months how long is this going to take -_________________________-
Normally people that come off brash have no self control
People who can't make decisions look insecure
Both of you got work to do
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A lot of work! but I know the ending result will be worth it. it's hard tho.. how do you make someone make a decision without pushing them.
Cancer Mercs absolutely suck at communication. Too vague and ambiguous and not in a mysterious way either..
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Cancer Mercs absolutely suck at communication. Too vague and ambiguous and not in a mysterious way either..
Jesus yes!! and I always have to play mind games see what these fuckers will do is show you how they feel thru action and not directly tell you until they feel comfortable and that takes forever
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
see that is the problem I am full blown aries impulsive as fuck! I really do act first think later. and you are exactly right he is toooooooo slow with decisions I want committment my impulsive self tried to tell him that because I swear he was hinting out that he was ready i felt so embarassed when he ran I had to play it off like I was joking which hurt my feelings when I flat out told him what I wanted he lied and was indirect and I knew he was but I ( being prideful as hell) played along we've been casually talking for 9 months how long is this going to take -_________________________-
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To be fair, 9 months is a long time by fire sign standards. Granted Libra energy can be pretty indecisive. Libra energy needs to mull things over and can't be pressured into making a decision. Libra Moons tend to be more decisive than Libra Suns, but this need for balance is still one to watch out for when it comes to romance.
Have you guys just been talking or have you been dating as well? If you haven't been out on dates, go ahead and start pushing for those. You did nothing wrong really, but you want to make sure that the Leo has been clear regrding your romantic intent these last 9 months.
I would also recommend giving this Leo some space to come back to you. Sounds like you've been pursuing him a bit. There's nothing wrong with this as long as he's reciprocating interest. If he backs away, let him come to you and be clear with your intent. He's still a Leo after all, the direct approach is always best.
Posted by SofiaV87
My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
see that is the problem I am full blown aries impulsive as fuck! I really do act first think later. and you are exactly right he is toooooooo slow with decisions I want committment my impulsive self tried to tell him that because I swear he was hinting out that he was ready i felt so embarassed when he ran I had to play it off like I was joking which hurt my feelings when I flat out told him what I wanted he lied and was indirect and I knew he was but I ( being prideful as hell) played along we've been casually talking for 9 months how long is this going to take -_________________________-
To be fair, 9 months is a long time by fire sign standards. Granted Libra energy can be pretty indecisive. Libra energy needs to mull things over and can't be pressured into making a decision. Libra Moons tend to be more decisive than Libra Suns, but this need for balance is still one to watch out for when it comes to romance.
Have you guys just been talking or have you been dating as well? If you haven't been out on dates, go ahead and start pushing for those. You did nothing wrong really, but you want to make sure that the Leo has been clear regrding your romantic intent these last 9 months.
I would also recommend giving this Leo some space to come back to you. Sounds like you've been pursuing him a bit. There's nothing wrong with this as long as he's reciprocating interest. If he backs away, let him come to you and be clear with your intent. He's still a Leo after all, the direct approach is always best.
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BOOM! you have hit the nail on the head I do think I've been pressuring him so I shall take this approach lol thank you seeing others POV definitely helps and we've been out a couple of times so yes I would call it dating. We haven't been out together in months due to him being on the run with family events (which I am okay with its fam first always) I do want to address that I miss him and we need a night out together BUT again I am scared to lol
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My ex was Mercury in cancer, when he likes someone he goes after them but he's also a Leo sunhmmm interesting! what was his moon sign? my guy is sun in leo as well but his moon is in libra maybe thats where the indirectness is coming from
I was going to ask why you think his Cancer Mercury is at fault. Generally you want to look at the guy's Moon, Venus, or Mars. As a Libra Moon he is looking for a partner ship
I'm a Leo Sun with Cancer Mercury which means I have a more "emotional" way of speaking. I think along the lines of how my words will affect how other people feel. We typically say, "think, feel, seems, probably" a lot because we don't want to make a definite statement that may negatively affect others. Speaking in general terms makes our words more digestible. That isn't to say that we can't be direct, but we prefer to account for everything when we speak.
Having a Libra Moon means this Leo will be more focused on peaceful situations and creating balance. Libra Moons can get caught up in how people perceive them (what other people think). The somewhat brash nature of Aries though may be cause for Alarm for a Libra Moon (not necessarily), but I would look into his Venus and Mars placements too.
wow, I never answered your Q. but I think it's his mercury because he is emotional but he doesn't like to show it (he gets hidden offended easily) I know he has gotten mad at me and hasn't told me about it there's been times we talked via text and he didn't respond because I unintentionally hurt his feelings or he'll see me talking to a guy via social media and he won't respond that makes me think thats his cancer peaking out
That's his Libra Moon wanting a more peaceful scenario. Cancer Mercury people can come across as being sensitive by the way we talk and may seem "hesitant" or slow to act. That can make us seem sensitive to an Aries Sun or Moon person. Cancer Mercury likes to digest all of the information first and make a well informed decision. So this Leo may be uncomfortable with being impulsive.
Just know that he'll be focused on creating well balanced scenarios. That's not to say that he can't rise to a challenge, but he'll probably be less abrasive about it.
see that is the problem I am full blown aries impulsive as fuck! I really do act first think later. and you are exactly right he is toooooooo slow with decisions I want committment my impulsive self tried to tell him that because I swear he was hinting out that he was ready i felt so embarassed when he ran I had to play it off like I was joking which hurt my feelings when I flat out told him what I wanted he lied and was indirect and I knew he was but I ( being prideful as hell) played along we've been casually talking for 9 months how long is this going to take -_________________________-
To be fair, 9 months is a long time by fire sign standards. Granted Libra energy can be pretty indecisive. Libra energy needs to mull things over and can't be pressured into making a decision. Libra Moons tend to be more decisive than Libra Suns, but this need for balance is still one to watch out for when it comes to romance.
Have you guys just been talking or have you been dating as well? If you haven't been out on dates, go ahead and start pushing for those. You did nothing wrong really, but you want to make sure that the Leo has been clear regrding your romantic intent these last 9 months.
I would also recommend giving this Leo some space to come back to you. Sounds like you've been pursuing him a bit. There's nothing wrong with this as long as he's reciprocating interest. If he backs away, let him come to you and be clear with your intent. He's still a Leo after all, the direct approach is always best.
BOOM! you have hit the nail on the head I do think I've been pressuring him so I shall take this approach lol thank you seeing others POV definitely helps and we've been out a couple of times so yes I would call it dating. We haven't been out together in months due to him being on the run with family events (which I am okay with its fam first always) I do want to address that I miss him and we need a night out together BUT again I am scared to lol
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Interesting. Well it sounds like this is unfair to you and this guy may even be stringing you along. When a Leo cares about someone, we definitely won't spend months away from them. We won't even spend weeks away from them if we can help it. If this guy can't even be around you for long periods of time, I doubt he wants anything serious with you. Family is indeed important, but being gone for months is a bit much. Likewise, why would you want to be with someone who runs so often?
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why the hell do mercury in cancer guys withdrawal when they like you
makes this aries tired and slowly giving up ughhhh