Okay there is a Leo @ my gym who has been chasin me since Nov of last year. I am goin to finally go out with him n c wat is in this lions den. Sooooo lookin forward 2 it. When he approached me in November it was not a good time in my life.he is really hot.
My question is there a certain trait Leos dig in chicks? Is it my aries moon? My sag rising? I do have a lot of fire in my chart.
Yes Mystic Dreamer this is true. 🙂 I have pulled a little away from Libra because of the red flags I see with him with just getting out of a relationship. I am absolutely wild about him but a bit cautious. Besides, I am playing the field right now and I am really looking for the best fit for me. In the past I have settled with dating one guy at a time and it had not served me well. When I am playing with all my options the following happens:
1 - I don't get attached to just one guy 2 - I don't sit around waiting just for that one guy 3 - It is stange but it is like supply and demand. I feel more worth when I am actually sought after. 4 - I feel like I am really getting the best match because I really am seeing the different flavor of men out there (no pun intended) 5 - In this process I am really discovering what I want and don't want in a partner.
I have been called a serial dater by Branh0913!! LOL I am definately having fun in this realm of exploration as I discover new friendships and continually learn a lot about myself.
Thats funny because I don't feel devalued but quiet the opposite. I don't get it, just because a woman wants to explore her own sensualism .....it is considered devaluing ....however when a man does it......nobody says a damn thing. Darling I am just learning to play the game of love and sex in a man's world and I am getting pretty damn good at it. 🙂
1 - I have friends and family for to rely on when and IF I need them. I like to be pretty much self reliant. I am not looking for a man to take care of me. In partnership I am looking for someone who I mesh with on a sexual level, on a spiritual level, and intellectual level. In the mean time I am having fun exploring until that comes along.
2 - "You are a Pisces, emotional, sentimental, compassionate, soft heart. There is no way for a fish to play this kind of games without hurt or pain involved." Darling you don't know me from Eve. There is a lot more to a person than their sun sign characteristics. You make me sound like I am some breakable china doll and must be handled with kid gloves. I am a 37 year old woman who knows how to handle and take care of herself. So sweetie don't pretend to know me.
3 - "There is no way for a fish to play this kind of games without hurt or pain involved. I hope you are that tough." Don't under estimate me...... again you don't even know me. So don't pretend you do ....just because you know my sun sign.
Thank you for your concerns however I am handling myself quiet well, thank you. Perhaps with a name like Proverbs this is an indication of where your mind set is, and I respect that however I don't share your same idealogoy.
"There is no way for a fish to play this kind of games without hurt or pain involved."
Any time ANYONE regardless of how you venture into ANY kind of relationship ......we take the chance of getting hurt or hurting. I don't think anyone will dispute this. There is no safe way of avoiding hurt and pain. It is the human emotion we all are challenged with when we play in the game of loving anyone whether it be family or lover.
Thanks Chocolate, SF, and Moonmadness. I really do know what I am doing. I have NEVER in my life been so optional in dating because I thought of all the negative titles that go with it. You really cannot judge a book by its title unless you try it....that is my opinion. I swear over and over I have fell for ONE guy and he had already moved on to the next while I am left picking up the pieces of my heart. I am holding my heart much closer to me, and realizing that sex and love are two very different things. Since I got this through my thick skull, it has been much fun. 😉
As for my chart ..... yes I have a lot of fire in my chart
Rise - Sag Sun - Pisces Moon - Aries Venus - Capricorn (I really do love like a capricorn. I enjoy the committed part of being a couple) Mars - Sag
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My question is there a certain trait Leos dig in chicks? Is it my aries moon? My sag rising? I do have a lot of fire in my chart.
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