Leo's are the best FWB

🙂 Could never date one seriously ....but sure fun. 🙂

PD

Chocolate - This is ldybg377 ....remember the leo I had fantastic experience with last year .....well it is him still. LOL As for not lasting .....he seems to not mind it is a year later. I DEFINATELY want nothing serious with him now that I got to know him on a friendship level. After getting to know him he is not the person I am looking for.

It is actually kind of interesting when I first got together with him I wanted a bit more, now that I don't want anything other than the great sex, he is all over it like bees to honey. Always calling, texting ....blah blah

I find it interesting that you all think this because this Leo does not want anything serious either. I tell Leo everything about how I want to find "the one" however I am not willing to settle for just anyone just because we have great sex. There is so much more to relationships.

I have a great friendship with Leo. There are just a few things that I am not fond about this particular Leo. He seems somewhat unstable, he smokes, not health minded, and in vague terms a bit lost. He is sweet, passionate, he often likes to talk about himself as if he is the expert on relationships and he has been married two times. It is kind of cute than he banters back, okay I am en ethical slut. LOL I do love his honesty and not to mention he is fun.

Well I already know I will get some banter because I am a casual kind of girl but whatever. For some reason it is always okay for men to have casual sex, however the minute a woman has the power of not being emotionally tied to the person she is having sex with she is a slut, a whore, blah blah blah blah It is the first time in my life where I feel empowered. I have more men after me. It is great to be in a position where men are chasing me and I am not sitting around for them to call.....because they eventually do. LOL

Perhaps this Leo is different or perhaps he is not, whatever the case I have tons of fun with being FWB with LEO.

PD
PD

I have always loved you chocolate ...my fav leo. 😉

I left this place ....going through tons of life change and wandered back. I am glutten for punishment as I know this place drives me crazy every now and than.

As for boys I am playing around with ....well.....a libra who ranks right up there with leo.....wowzer

A available wandering capricorn whom I love the adventure he brings to my life.

An attached Capricorn whom I won't even touch for he is still married however he is crusing on me bad. I just won't go there.

a young bull ......well he has a lot of learning to do about life and everything. LOL

Leo, Libra, and available Cap seem to bring tons of surprises in our engagement of activity and friendships.

It is so werid Chocolate .....I used to think that I could not enjoy myself in the pleasure of sex without all the committment and attachment .....I am a whole different woman. It is empowering to be wanted and desired. I feel like I have more control over myself and my heart if that makes sense. Ultimately I would love to be with the man whom is everything but finding I can have fun in the process of looking for the right fit. 🙂

How are you .....still charming a certain virgo—

PD

you have it all wrong! we are the best spouses! hehehehe.

Wrong or not ...having tons of fun. LOL

PD

Chocolate: "Leos do love a GREAT sex partner..."

Damn don't tell me such things..I must put hands over my ears..lalalalala....I am not hearing this...

::bites knuckle::

Chocolate let's just say trust wat bling is tlkn bout! What is it w Leos tounges? My fwb can stay down there for a long time wow

Pd

"Leos are fun to play with,and easily the most malleable/gullible fuck-buddies,so long as you let them think they are the ones that are in charge/making the choice to come back for more,put you down,then come back for more.....it's kinda fun to play with them....

Have any of you ever seen when a dog 'toys' with a kitten,pawing it and bouncing it around,knowing full well it could lay a smackdown,and the little kitty keeps coming back for more....well,yeah it's kinda like that..."

lol wow i laughed at this stupid post of yours. you know nothing sorry bud.

Ahhh the Blingster!....How goes it!

interesting analogy there, antibling. come to think of it, though, i've actually seen house cats chase fully grown dogs. and a bear too. i think it's cause they do that thing where they arch their back and all their fur stands up and they look possessed. that shit would scare me too.

"Eulogy...thanks for the insight, little boy....."

hah? what insight? all i spoke of is how ignorant you are in your post. if you got an insight out of the effortless post i made then good job bud, i'm happy for you.

Likity Split!!! 😛

I just had a visual going in my head, you know how kittens love to clean themselves. Do you think that is why kitty kats are so good with the tounge......masters of licking ....just as long as they don't get a hairball. LOL

Gotta love Leos ......Such sensual creature you are .....and sex pods. 🙂

PD

Can't believe nobody directed me to this thread when I asked about how Leo/Pisces get along. This is *HOT* stuff! Hope you're still enjoying eachothers company, Pisces_Dream.

What's the difference between FWB and just having sex until someone else more interesting comes along? They seem pretty similar to me.

Hm.. Why do so many women have a problem with FWB relationships? Now don't get upset the rest of you, I know there are women who like no strings attached too. But for the rest of you, how can you NOT get anything from it. I understand if the guy is dull and selfish, it would be a waste of time.

But sometimes when I say that I don't need to be in a relationship to have sex, or God forbid WANT SEX (!), some women tend to take a step back as if that would mean that I'm only using women's bodies to pleasure myself. If some women were more in touch with their own bodies they might discover that no strings attached can be quite an experience. I refuse to believe that women are in less need of expressing themselves sexually when not in a relationship than men.

I'm very tired and feel like writing something, so please don't get upset anyone.

"Why do so many women have a problem with FWB relationships?"

i don't think it's just women who have a problem with it. FWB isn't for me. if i'm going to have a relationship with someone, then i want a relationship that has promise and not waste my time on a dead end.

there is always potential for heartbreak as the risk of one of the "friends" getting sucked in emotionally increases. one partner almost always becomes emothionally attached while the other does not.

to each his / her own i guess.....just not my thing.

"But sometimes when I say that I don't need to be in a relationship to have sex, or God forbid WANT SEX (!), some women tend to take a step back as if that would mean that I'm only using women's bodies to pleasure myself. If some women were more in touch with their own bodies they might discover that no strings attached can be quite an experience. I refuse to believe that women are in less need of expressing themselves sexually when not in a relationship than men.

As long as it's between two consenting adults, and they both know the deal (meaning, guys not lied about the true aspect of the relationship, yeah, I'm saying men, cause hey, some do lie to get a piece)-- but, to each his on. It may not float everybody's boat, but there are some times in life where you aren't in the right frame of mind to BE in a relationship, but you wanna get your ummm, boat rocked, so guess what, a FWB can rock your boat, and then you keep on floating on.

"to each his OWN" sorry, typing too fast.

Hey everyone,

Im a LEO, you are right about LEOs taking relationships serious. Its only if they REALLY like you! Sad but SO true!!! ALso if in a relationship taken serious, if the other does something wrong to the LEO; there 86ed really quick, but that might flop depending on the level of mistake it is. It's best to fall back, give them space. I suggest warm true sincere apologies with something small a gift or a card displaying something that you and that LEO has shared together. It'll show you really have been paying attention and that is one thing we like attention with a little chase. Just keep this in mind the FWB doesn't work, LMAO with some. For the most part, every person I know male or female with this situation it ends up bad really bad. Just a FYI...

Ive got friends - Unfortunately I dont get the Benifits 😢

I just find it soul deprecating... But whatever floats your boat I guess.

"Why do so many women have a problem with FWB relationships?"

I don't know about other women but I have this thing called 'pride,' and I'm too proud of myself to do FWB. But if I were a brainless sex addict, I would prefer safe one night stands. In that way, you have many options to choose from and every night is an adventure. But before I do that, I would seek some therapy/counseling first.

Morisaki: " don't know about other women but I have this thing called 'pride,' and I'm too proud of myself to do FWB"

Well said! and DITTO

Well that's not a nice thing to say. So Pisces_Dream doesen't have any pride? Doesen't seem like that to me, but then again I don't know her in person so I might be wrong. Besides, I don't think it's about pride. Some people enjoy it, others not. But please, don't look down on people who are not ashamed of their sexuality. It's bad enough there are people out there who think it's a sin to masturbate.

🙂

Sex is disgusting and unsanitary!!!

It should only be done for the purpose of procreation. In the dark, with a specimen cup, a turkey baster and stuffed animals...

😉

ROFLMAO wit SoftCookie! ;p

FWB does not work for me either, I love sex, I would rather be a one night stand and move on because as much as i love sex, the men seem to loose the benefits part as well, I hate being a booty call, it becomes disrespectful to a female or so in my experience, taken for granted and advantage of, I too have a pride issue in all of that as well.

I have come to the realization i am a relationship person, by nature, and i care or i dont, so with that said, the FWB that i didnt "care" about in that capacity for a relationship, well, they lil feelings got hurt wanting more an to be a priority and dissing the one i do care about, so with that said, for get it!

One night stand, do it and send it home, i am gonna stop giving my contact info to them cause they all call wanting a replay and then its not a one night stand......

I am still figuring it all out myself.........
I like this thread so far......

>> I hate being a booty call, it becomes disrespectful to a female or so in my experience, taken for granted and advantage of, I too have a pride issue in all of that as well.

I think we were all referring to ourselves...Everyone has a right to choose how they wish to live their lives.

Opinions are arseholes and unfortunately everyone has one. LOL

I think some are more selective in their sexuality. We live in a democracy...you choose whatever pleases you.

I don't understand why women have to compete with men in that department anyway. Just cos a man goes out and shags 10 women in a day, doesn't mean a woman has to as well.

As someone once said on the boards, "she's had more pricks than a secondhand dartboard" how vulgar to be referred to as that!!

HAHA you've seen "Larry Flynt" too I see 😉 No, I totally agree with you. I was just reacting upon the "being taken advantage of" -thing.

>>As someone once said on the boards, "she's had more pricks than a secondhand dartboard" how vulgar to be referred to as that!!

How u diddling?

"You are ready to settle for being called a "secondhand dartboard" if you sleep with men on regular basis"

Like I said its personal choice.

I personally don't like it and would never do it. Doesn't make me any less of a woman. And I aint second best to nobody!..

I totally understand, I don't mean to come off as if you're not in control of your sexuality just because you don't sleep around. It's up to you. But I think you are missing the point. Nobody should be called a "secondhand dartboard" just because they don't share your opinions. Women are killed on daily basis because some men have opinions similiar those of yours about women. If they sleep around they are basically sluts (if men sleep around they are studs). I never expected to hear something like that come from an other woman.

"It should only be done for the purpose of procreation. In the dark, with a specimen cup, a turkey baster and stuffed animals..."

*nods*

All I know is this; men shape their world after their desires, we take what we want and make no excuse for it. Women however, shape their world after their low self esteem of being women; the do's and dont's of being a women. So you go figure how this statement fits here. Maybe little harsh, but true. Thou shall not sleep with men you desire; thou shall only sleep with men who want to bear your child. And if thou see a woman expressing desire for a man she has no intention of marrying, thou shall degrade her by calling her a "secondhand dartboard", cause that's all she is.

"Thou shall not sleep with men you desire; thou shall only sleep with men who want to bear your child. And if thou see a woman expressing desire for a man she has no intention of marrying, thou shall degrade her by calling her a "secondhand dartboard", cause that's all she is."

good gawd man! the drama! oh yes you are a leo 😛

HAHA I'm Shakespeare to the bone 😉

dali je mogu?e? haha!

your verse/dramatical flair does showcase a most compelling argument.....

*moguce -damn character map doesn't work here

and the "argument" i refer to is not the FWB argument Shakespeare 😉

HAHA you speak Croatian or are you just flirting with me 😛

hopeful on both accounts? jk!

the dramatics made me laugh

HAHA well humor makes the world go around ... regardless if you're laughing with me or at me. Either way, Mr. Leo 's at your service 🙂

Sarcasm?

not laughing at you 🙂

hey Cris

Wow, I had been away for so long and forgot about this topic. I have been working 24/7 on Obama's campaign. Thanks ET for defending my position, see you get me and get it. No one understand this, especially women.

I do want to respond to V2M. "P😱 Could never date one seriously
It is empowering to be wanted and desired."

^^^^^
Not true at all. Perhaps love / sex has made me cynical the older I get, but I am not willing to settle into a relationship for the sake of sex. I would rather be in a relationship with the right person for all the right reasons, and sex is not the only reason I would want to have a relationship. I so happen to enjoy sex and my sexuality and find the urges quiet natural. That is what changed with me this year I discovered sex and relationships are two very different things. I do think sometimes sex can lead to relationships but it is definately not the foundation for a relationship. If it is, than I believe the couple will have trouble.

So in conclusion, I believe it is okay to enjoy sex without all the typical stigmas that a relationship has to be involved. I do agree when there are great connections of love and all that other fuzzy stuff it is much better. However I believe relationships are not something that comes by every day, and a woman's got needs. 🙂

So that is my story.

BTW - I met this fabulous Leo .....not my type at all but I adore him with all his tattoos. What I love about Leos is their intelligence is off the hook. That is sexy to me. *Sigh* No sex with him yet, just friends, but I like him. 🙂

PD

i dunno. i've done the fwb thing once and he ended up confessing his love for me a couple of months into it... in which we were a monogamous couple for 6 years. i can only do the fwb thing on very strict circumstances. i have to be open, honest, and communicative with the partner involved. it does not normally feel natural to me to not end up in an actual relationship so i have to have me figured out before plunging into something like that. i am also not promiscuous at all. i have to make absolutely sure that my feelings for the partner are detached enough to be able to handle the consequences appropriately (i.e. he were to end it over finding another woman with gf potential).