I have been on 3 dates with this leo man.. on the 2 first dates everything was good, and he contacted me after the dates asking me for another date etc.. on the 3 date we had sex.. the day after he went on a weekend trip out of town.. I contacted him monday when he was back, and we were having a date thursday but suddenly he text me that he couldnt make it 2 hours before the date. I got mad, and he was like "ok I will hurry up, bla bla...." so we were going to his house, and I were an hour late, then he text me "dont bother coming, you are late, im not waiting anymore" .. I did not contact him .. 3 days after he text me, hope your good etc.. 3 days after that he text me again.. I kind of felt like he was regreding. But when I finally text him back, he was all cold, but still he asked me for a date, I said yes but then I cancelled the date, just because i felt like he was very cold and aloof and I felt like the only thing he wanted was sex.. But I dont know — HMMMMMMM....
So what do you guys think? I cant figure him out... Help please 🙂
All of that drama happened so relatively soon that, if I were him, I'd probably be done with the whole thing by now and have moved on. I know, I know, leos are supposed to appreciate drama. Well, I'm leo and I don't like head games and am only a fan of drama on stage.
Wow.. if this is drama for him, he hasnt seen drama.. LOL.. when we are together everything is good . but we misunderstand and are cold to eachtother alot through the phone
this is what u said.. "he text me that he couldnt make it 2 hours before the date. I got mad, and he was like "ok I will hurry up, bla bla...." so we were going to his house, and I were an hour late, then he text me "dont bother coming, you are late, im not waiting anymore" ..
Don't get mad because he couldn't make it. What if he had some emergency issues u didn't know about unless u asked him? And then u said he decided to hurry up and go. Then you were an hour late? (Either because u took a while to get ready OR it was just to get back at him) Then he got mad & said something very rude. Imo, Leo's tend to sound really rude without meaning to. You don't text him back, which you should have done because communication is KEY. If you thought what he said was wrong, tell him then and there. Work it out as soon as u can. (learned from a Taurus
well i go with what ninjamu said above, its like everything happened too soon, which is something of a leo-libran thing i guess, things happen fast - but then if they fizzle then leos tend to just drop the whole thing and lose interest
i'd say step back, and just let him contact you and lead the whole thing - and trust me, he will - he'll forget about you for a few days and then he'll wonder where you are - and you'll get a text (don't reply) - let him call.
act aloof etc - leos do like things which are hard to get - don't be so easy - but dont be childish like coming late etc that's high schoolish - act busy and charming - and you'll be out on the next date in no time -
and if you do go out you have to options - either no sex - or mindblowing sex which leaves him dying/wanting for more - no midway, or the leoboy may lose interest
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I have been on 3 dates with this leo man.. on the 2 first dates everything was good, and he contacted me after the dates asking me for another date etc.. on the 3 date we had sex.. the day after he went on a weekend trip out of town.. I contacted him monday when he was back, and we were having a date thursday but suddenly he text me that he couldnt make it 2 hours before the date. I got mad, and he was like "ok I will hurry up, bla bla...." so we were going to his house, and I were an hour late, then he text me "dont bother coming, you are late, im not waiting anymore" ..
I did not contact him .. 3 days after he text me, hope your good etc.. 3 days after that he text me again.. I kind of felt like he was regreding. But when I finally text him back, he was all cold, but still he asked me for a date, I said yes but then I cancelled the date, just because i felt like he was very cold and aloof and I felt like the only thing he wanted was sex.. But I dont know — HMMMMMMM....
So what do you guys think? I cant figure him out... Help please 🙂