Don't get mad, but Leos...........

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This is a question for the Leo woman. I'm not trying to judge anyone because i understand that though you share a sign it doesn't mean everyone is alike. Still the question remains....

Leo women, why is it that some of you fall head over hills in love with almost every guy you meet? You talk about how wonderful, caring, great, he's so this...he's so that... and on and on dreamy eyed. You go on about how wonderful every man you meet is. Do you just love men? Like you don't ever see that most guys are going to be wonderful in the beginning. Just seems like you feed into the man's words and never look beneath the surface. Seems like you meet a man then 2 weeks later "He's the one" or "He's a knight in shining armor" but then like 3 months later when you realize that your knight actually has a bad side you up and leave.

Do you all expect for a man to always be the way he is in the beginning of the relationship?
Do you wear your heart on your sleeve?
And how come every man you meet that rubs your ego and tells you your beautiful is so wonderful?

Just wondering...like i said I know you all are not like this, but i know at least 4 Leos and they are.
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i am infuriated. just kidding.

i think most relationships go through that infatuation stage, and maybe it's a little more intense with leo women. i admit that i do go through periods of unrealistic optimism when things are going well (usually including the beginning). when someone provokes those feelings of adoration in me, i just look at them with rose colored glasses (not to the point of ridiculousness - if they do something shady, i still recognize it). in general, i just prefer to overlook potential problems until they actually materialize. the way i see it, it's like, why create problems by worrying too much? and yeah, it can't last forever, so eventually i no longer see the person in such a positive light. i suppose that, yeah, sometimes i am really disappointed when i see the "ugly" side. the difference between me and what you are describing though is that i don't just haul ass when something goes wrong, i try and work through it because i do realize that perfection is just unrealistic. i'm not the type to hold on for too long either though, if it reaches a point that's too grim to really bounce back from.
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"some are really cookiemonstery like you described but hey atleast leo women have confidence and aren,t after money 24/7 like caps ."


My girlfriends a Leo and she is after money 24/7... only dates men who make over 100,000 dollars a year.

When my hubby and I met he was living in an apartment and drivng an 89 honda and I didn't care. Still has the honda and I don't care. I drive it to sometimes doesn't bother me at all. He did buy me a house but i would have been just as content in the apartment. Sorry dud.... I'm not one of those Caps thats why it erks me that my girlfriend is like that...can't ever find the right man because she only wants the ones who have money and everyone else wants them too so she's always fighting for attention...
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"it is hard for a cap to imagine the life of the admired leo"

Not really... I don't admire Leo's

I have Leo's in my life that I love...my mother is a Leo and two of my closest friends.

I do know that Leo's believe they are most beautiful of all... I don't have a problem with that because I dont' try to attract attention nore do i demand it. For example...when i go out to the club with my Leo girlfriend I just get dressed and not worry about what she is wearing, but if I look prettier then her when i get to her house she will hurry up and change clothes. I just laugh inside cause it's just not that serious. So it seems to be the other way around to me.
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"oh, LK, no need to sound so heinous. one could easily remark that your stereotypical comments about caps equate to her stereotypical comments about leos.
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A stereotype is when you are labling a group of people. I admited that not all Leos are like that. I said that just because someone shares the same sign doesn't mean they are alike. So don't make it seem like I'm judging all of you because I'm not...I hate when people do that with Caps so I would never do that to anyone else.
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"however, the insecurity displayed certainly rings the truth bell."

Dont get your feathers in a bunch. Believe me I know I'm treading on fire right now. LOL
I've just lived with a Leo my whole life and I've notice somethings always wondered about a few and wanted to ask the question.

Believe me I KNOW how defensive you all get... I know first hand.

It's not insecurity it's curiosity. I'm just learning something new. Maybe you should focus on trying to inlighten me instead of rag on me. I was even kind enough to admite that not ALL of you all are like that.. Like Rainfairy for example.. I like her, she's cool to me.
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"i never said i was nice and she came here to start trouble. there can be no other reason."

I'd never invaid your planet and start trouble. I just wanted to see if you were like that.. all you had to do was say no like Rainfairy did.. If everyone said no then I'd know that there is just something off with the Leos I know. My sister is a Gemini and she believes the same thing... Actually a conversation we were having is what raised the question in the first place.

I'm not trying to start trouble.. I sorry
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"Let say they fall out of love in a matter of 3 months - it is because they are not that stupid to wait for 3 years before realizing that this guy doesn't deserve their love.

You said "I'm not trying to judge anyone" - you just did.

Come on, Lionesses/Lions deserves a more intelligent topic than this."

I don't understand falling in love in 2 weeks. but i've seen some do it. Look I never judged anyone I simply ASKED a question and then said TWICE that not all Leos are going to be like that. NOW if i got on here and said ALL you LEOS are this and that...THATS judging the sign as a whole.

If you deserve a more intelligent topic then don't write on the post anymore.. duh!

Who would wait 3 years to realize someone doesn't want you? come on.

Like I said I know first hand how CRAZY defensive Leos do get especially when their egos are fractured. I'm not trying to do that.

Just answer the question and say "NO" it's that simple.