Okay so I've been talking to this Leo guy for about a week online, he eventually asked me out but not directly.. He seemed kinda shy about it, idk if he asked me out as a "date" or just to "meet" type of thing.. So whatever we had been talking for a week every single day non stop but the thing is out conversations were never flirty, it was a very friendly vibe, we just joke around a lot and laugh a lot in our convos, but it was never anything flirty and he has never complimented me either... So anyways I go on this date with him we go to a hookah lounge and we stayed till the place was closing, he seemed kindaaaa shy but not really.. Anyways so on the date he didn't flirt the entire time either and no compliments still.. After we left we were walking to our cars and he hugged me goodbye and said see u soon don't be a stranger and we both left.. And so today we haven't talked as much as we use to.. Is he interested in me or not—
FIRST DATE WITH LEO GUY
@instantkarma
I wasn't being flirty cuz he wasn't so I just didn't want to be the one doing all the flirting so I kept waiting to see if he would try to flirt but he never did, idk if he was just shy or just not into me 😱
I wasn't being flirty cuz he wasn't so I just didn't want to be the one doing all the flirting so I kept waiting to see if he would try to flirt but he never did, idk if he was just shy or just not into me 😱
@arieslove
Do u think I should text him first today? Or shoul I not contact him till he contacts me?
Do u think I should text him first today? Or shoul I not contact him till he contacts me?
@arieslove
So after the date I texted him saying I'm home and then he texted me and I ended up falling asleep and responding to his text in the morning we texted back and forth a couple of times and then he completely stopped responding back and hasn't texted me at all today either...
It's weird cuz before we met we would talk all day and send each other funny videos and literally text non stop and it just completely stopped..
So after the date I texted him saying I'm home and then he texted me and I ended up falling asleep and responding to his text in the morning we texted back and forth a couple of times and then he completely stopped responding back and hasn't texted me at all today either...
It's weird cuz before we met we would talk all day and send each other funny videos and literally text non stop and it just completely stopped..
@arieslove
Yeah I'm not going to text him anymore till he texts me.
Do Leo's usually do this tho?? On the date he seemed like he was really into me and we laughed a lot and had good conversation, but never flirted or kissed me or anything, just hugged me.
Yeah I'm not going to text him anymore till he texts me.
Do Leo's usually do this tho?? On the date he seemed like he was really into me and we laughed a lot and had good conversation, but never flirted or kissed me or anything, just hugged me.
Yeah I'm just going to wait and see if he'll contact me
Thanks for the advice!!
@arieslove
Thanks for the advice!!
@arieslove

He's just feeling ya out. You'll know by next week where you stand. It wasn't an instant attraction or he would have made the move.

Posted by Sarahvinetti
@sssupes
Do u think I should text him? Or wait for him to text me?
I'd wait and let him come to you. You could say hi and just keep it friendly. Don't flirt or you'll get fake interest and he will entertain your advances.
@sssupes
Yeah but we texted a little yesterday and then he just disappeared and hasn't texted since when before we would talk non stop.. And I'm a Pisces so this is killing me loll so I don't wanna text him again if he hasn't even responded to the last text I sent him.
And after our date he didn't say he wanted to see me again or anything
He just gave me a one arm hug and he's like see you soon don't be a stranger and then we left
I just want to know where I stand with him but I don't wanna be clingy and keep texting him if he doesn't wanna talk
Yeah but we texted a little yesterday and then he just disappeared and hasn't texted since when before we would talk non stop.. And I'm a Pisces so this is killing me loll so I don't wanna text him again if he hasn't even responded to the last text I sent him.
And after our date he didn't say he wanted to see me again or anything
He just gave me a one arm hug and he's like see you soon don't be a stranger and then we left
I just want to know where I stand with him but I don't wanna be clingy and keep texting him if he doesn't wanna talk

Posted by SarahvinettiCan I ask you a question?
@sssupes
Yeah but we texted a little yesterday and then he just disappeared and hasn't texted since when before we would talk non stop.. And I'm a Pisces so this is killing me loll so I don't wanna text him again if he hasn't even responded to the last text I sent him.
And after our date he didn't say he wanted to see me again or anything
He just gave me a one arm hug and he's like see you soon don't be a stranger and then we left
I just want to know where I stand with him but I don't wanna be clingy and keep texting him if he doesn't wanna talk
Did you pull back at all during the week before the meetup? Any flip flopping? Hot and cold?
@sssupes
No I was completely consistent... Didn't act any different, even after the date I still acted the same as I would but he just seemed like he didn't wanna talk.. I thought at least today he would text me but still hasn't
No I was completely consistent... Didn't act any different, even after the date I still acted the same as I would but he just seemed like he didn't wanna talk.. I thought at least today he would text me but still hasn't
@thelibramudra
Yup pretty much
Yup pretty much

Posted by SarahvinettiA consistent woman?! Lol! Jk
@sssupes
No I was completely consistent... Didn't act any different, even after the date I still acted the same as I would but he just seemed like he didn't wanna talk.. I thought at least today he would text me but still hasn't
Well, give it a few days, if you still don't hear from him, I'd bounce.
@sssupes
He texted me yesterday saying hi
We talked for awhile like how we use to, he told me his friends took his phone away cuz he kept texting me and they were getting annoyed so they hid his phone from him so that was his reason as to why he hasn't texted all day lol
Anyways our conversation wasn't flirty or anything but since day one we haven't flirted so it wasn't any different, he was responding back pretty fast considering the fact that he was at a lounge with his friends so idk I'm guessing this is a good sign? Lol
He texted me yesterday saying hi
We talked for awhile like how we use to, he told me his friends took his phone away cuz he kept texting me and they were getting annoyed so they hid his phone from him so that was his reason as to why he hasn't texted all day lol
Anyways our conversation wasn't flirty or anything but since day one we haven't flirted so it wasn't any different, he was responding back pretty fast considering the fact that he was at a lounge with his friends so idk I'm guessing this is a good sign? Lol

Posted by SarahvinettiAre you happy? Is his replying giving you a good feeling?
@sssupes
He texted me yesterday saying hi
We talked for awhile like how we use to, he told me his friends took his phone away cuz he kept texting me and they were getting annoyed so they hid his phone from him so that was his reason as to why he hasn't texted all day lol
Anyways our conversation wasn't flirty or anything but since day one we haven't flirted so it wasn't any different, he was responding back pretty fast considering the fact that he was at a lounge with his friends so idk I'm guessing this is a good sign? Lol

Posted by AriesLoveShe caved. It's ok though. He's giving her what she needs, for now.Posted by SssupesLolPosted by SarahvinettiAre you happy? Is his replying giving you a good feeling?
@sssupes
He texted me yesterday saying hi
We talked for awhile like how we use to, he told me his friends took his phone away cuz he kept texting me and they were getting annoyed so they hid his phone from him so that was his reason as to why he hasn't texted all day lol
Anyways our conversation wasn't flirty or anything but since day one we haven't flirted so it wasn't any different, he was responding back pretty fast considering the fact that he was at a lounge with his friends so idk I'm guessing this is a good sign? Lol
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Posted by AriesLoveIt's a month. Get it straight! ?Posted by SssupesYou know you guys make the best 3 week boyfriends...don't shatter her hopesPosted by AriesLoveShe caved. It's ok though. He's giving her what she needs, for now.Posted by SssupesLolPosted by SarahvinettiAre you happy? Is his replying giving you a good feeling?
@sssupes
He texted me yesterday saying hi
We talked for awhile like how we use to, he told me his friends took his phone away cuz he kept texting me and they were getting annoyed so they hid his phone from him so that was his reason as to why he hasn't texted all day lol
Anyways our conversation wasn't flirty or anything but since day one we haven't flirted so it wasn't any different, he was responding back pretty fast considering the fact that he was at a lounge with his friends so idk I'm guessing this is a good sign? Lol
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