Have you ever cheated on your partner?

Question for EVERYONE!!!!!

Have you ever cheated?

Why do you think you cheated?

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?

Do you still cheat now?

Have you ever cheated?
YES!! When I was a young gem I cheated on everyone I dated. Untill I met my ex cap. 3 And 1/2 years never cheated. Now I think of cheating differently. He changed my views.

Why do you think you cheated?
Didnt know where the relationship was going.

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
No! I belive that people can change if they want to.

Do you still cheat now?
NO! If I'm with you I'm only with you.

Right on proverb.... At least you made it fun.. I have been getting bashed from all sides with this topic....


I posted it on all boards to see the majority of cheaters male/female and what boards they came from.

Needless to say caps wont talk, scorps are pissed. and everyone else is just answering the questions.

So thank you.

haha, proverbs, that was gr8. 😛
mine's just gonna be boooring...

Have you ever cheated?
no i haven't.

Why do you think you cheated?
well, i never have, but i've been cheated on. i think he did because of distance and because he wasn't being fulfillllllled.

Do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
hmm...that's a tough one! i personally couldn't give the d00d another chance afterwards. if i happened to run into him tomorrow (although i won't; just saying hypothetically), i don't think i would feel any animosity towards him. cause, as proverbs says, everyone makes mistakes. i just would have a really hard time trusting the same partner after they had cheated. i guess that's kinda contradictory, but relationships are hard enough as it is, without the added trust issues. 😛

Garield- Always follow your gut hun, if you feel it usually your right....

I would never cheat again and yes I have also been cheated on too so I know how it feels. I was young and dumb but Im older and wiser.

I hope things work out for you. But please follow your gut that way you dont get screwed in anyway shape or form..

Good luck.

Lol proverbs


Have you ever cheated?
No, loyalty and respect are veryyy important to me.

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?

I hardly believe he/she will change...There's always a possibility, but I doubt. I could never trust completely again that person...There would be always a "shadow".

Patt I believe that. If someone cheats it will never be the same. But with me I have done it once to a cancer we lasted 10 months after that and I never did it again.

But now I would never even think of it. As I am now just seeing a leo man I am getting rid of the other men I was talking to because I would like this to bloom into something and I want him to feel secure with me.

I believe that too, because you are a good person with a good heart and after you have cheated, I believe you felt very bad with yourself and that's the main reason for you to not cheat again, you are loyal to your values (I think it's a matter of self-respect too, not only respect for the other).

But unfornately, not everyone is like this and so that ones keep playing around lol. I also think cheaters are very insecure ppl and with low self-esteem.

anyone wanna try to explain to me a leo who's cheated on i thing every girl, still cheats on his now wife (got married after/cos she got pregnant)

i guess the question is are you guys able to feel totaly passionate about more people at the same time ??

or are you lying when you tell a girl who is not your girlfriend that you want her? and in fact you just want sex with someone else for a change?

The leo I met in the summer (married, I didnt know about it till 3 weeks later then kicked his ass to the curb), he cheated on his girlfriend 4 times and then after they got married he tried to do it agin with me. Loser..... Some guys just dont learn. He used to tell me oh she will never leave me... It her lack of self respect that made him go elsewhere in the first place. (Bullshit). The only reason he stays with her is because he doesnt have some else to go to... If I were her boy he would be dickless at this point. Jail or no jail.... His dick would be on my wall....

So thats what he said anyway. Dont know if it was just trying to get down my pants or if it was true but if he felt the need to go elsewhere before and she didnt care I guess she asked for it...

I dont understand how someone can trust a person after that....

Patt. Yes I have only officially cheated once and I think it hurt me more then it hurt him.
But the other guys the relationship was over already I just found someone else really fast.

I think the longest I have been single for is 9 months. This time I thought I would be single for a while untill I met Mr. Leo so I guess it is true you meet good people when you least expect it. Im very happy though getting to know who he is.

No the Picses and Scorpio board did though. LOL 🙂

I knew it would get good responces thats why I put the topic up.

gemini: I agree with you about meeting good people when we less expect and I wish loads of happiness, welcome to Leo world =).


Virgos?? No offense to anyone, but talking about the ones I know... geez... my mother is a Virgo she's a mess , my ex was a Virgo he is just a mess too... They seem so complicated people and sometimes they way of thinking doesn't make any sense to me. :S

*I wish you

Patt** thats funny my bedt friend is a Virgo and she has had her share of mistakes. I always try to run her life though. Its kinda overpowering she says.
But I have good advise just no one listens to me.... That drives me nuts. If I just wanted to hear myself I would stay at home and talk to myself. But anyway. I get what you meen about virgos No offence to my best friend cause I know she will read this....

I try not to run her life... Sometimes it doesnt work. LOL

That's so true LOL. They seem to not enjoy getting advice unless they really ask and when they do, they ask in a way to not sound like an "I need help" lol. And me as a Leo, I auto-advice lol, it comes out naturally and when I hear "It's non of your businness" or something similar, I'm like "what the hell??" But then I will enjoy saying "I told you..." LOL. I think the ones I know, show more their negative part... Both my mother and my ex boyfriend are very pessimist and with low self-esteem, my ex boyfriend even is self destructive and was always saying bad stuff about him, a super low self-esteem...They really have issues with insecurities and blow everything away because of them...

I hope really your friend and other virgos don't take this in a bad way, I believe there are virgos less negative and with a more bright personality, I'm just really talking about the ones I know. =)

Patt have you ever dated a gemini.

But I think there is a big difference between males and females. Not to sure though.

Cause we get along soo well and things are going really great. I'm kinda getting scared though to put everything in a basket and jump. We both have busy life style s so we see eachother once maybe twice a week. He is not perfect but I like him for who he is. I hope he feels the same about me. Last night I saw him and he told me that he works around my schedual and I work around his schedual and he feels bad. So I told him we made an agreement that if he couldnt make time to just tell me. Dont leave me there waiting and he asked me to do the same..

But anyway my real question is, when a leo has sex with someone do they get attached?
Would it be something special or its just a need?

I also heard that leos where there hearts on there sleeves. He does act like he was hurt in the past. But he seems to give me all hes got. He makes time for me he calls or text me almost everyday. He was talking to his friends and he refured to me as his girl! He always feels bad because he is so busy and cant see me more.
Anyway how do I protect his heart with out getting hurt myself?

I think way to much maybe you can ease my mind! I hope.
Thanks

No never dated a gemini, just capricorn (relationship of 2 years) and a Virgo (almost a year). It seems I attract Earth people, let's see if the next one is a Taurus LOL.

Between Leo males and females there are a little difference maybe, I think the risisng sign influences too the way we express our inner self (Leo character).

I lost my virginity with this ex virgo guy and yeah I think we Leos put all our heart in it (as in everything, that's why we get hurt lots of times too), everything is very intense and full of passion, so I don't think it's a need and I think he's already attached to you (Leo attach to ppl, even to friends). Let me say, sex is a plus in the relationship, like we step to another level of the relationship where we both share your intimacy. So yeah, I think it's something special to him too 🙂.

I say all this because accordint to what you tell, he seems really like you. He even presented you as his girl 😉.
About the schedule, I think you can work on that. I don't know your times, but maybe there's a way of you 2 spending a little more time together.

To protect his heart, it's basically don't do the same things that hurted him, plus keep him confident, I mean giving compliments and dedicate yourself to him as you usually do.
I'm not sure if you did this already, but one thing I think it's pretty cool for you to o is: prepare a good dinner to both of you, like a surprise with his favourite food (if you like it lol) with a very pretty table, with candles, everything without him knowing and then surprise (this also shows to him your love and it's a plus for his heart). My best friend is a gemini and her boyfriend he's a Leo and she did this, I also help her preparing everything and he just loved! she also put some red rose petals in the bed, everything looked very pretty and they had a wonderful night. A side note, they are together for 2 years, going to the 3rd and yeah they want to buy a house and marry. 😉

I hope I helped you dear and don't be too much worried, because as he always gives you all he's got it's also a signal he trusts you, besides he had been hurted in the past. 😉

Hello Patt, thanks for your quick responce. I hope your right about him being attached to me because I am getting pretty attached to him. I would love to see him more. But right now we are both soo busy Im lucky I see him once a week...

The dinner thing wont work because I dont cook. My ex cap would insult everything I ever made for him so now I dont have the self esteme to cook anything.... But leo knows I dont cook. I told him I dont know how. He said it was okay cause he knows how to cook. Woo hoo. Anyhow, Im sitting here waiting for him to call and I know he wont because I told him that I was busy plus Im at work and he wont call well im at work. He didnt call yesterday either but once again i worked last night and went straight home to bed cause i had a long day to concor today. Cleaning out my grandmother place because she is on her death bed. so it was a hard emotional day for me.

So like the gem that I am Im sitting here thinking he doesnt want me anymore fully knowing that he does want me just he knows Im busy and I know he is busy. Some huge party that he celabrates.

Also about the trust comment. Isnt it hard to get a leos trust, even he has told me that he has trust issues and his problem is he doesnt give anyone a chance to prove themselves. That said alot about me because he is giving me a chance and so far we are successful together. We just dont see eachother that much. But on thursday when I was at his house he said something along the lines of He works around my schedual and He feels bad that I have to work around his.... But I have never had a guy say that to me before. I felt warm inside. He is the best lover I have ever had.... And I told him that and he laughed at me...... I think I embarrased him or something cause he went red in the face right away.....

Anyway how can I be romantic without the cooking or the roses. I still live at home with my parents and he lives by himself??

Oh and I also found out on thursday that all of his friends are married most with kids so he is definitly looking for a commitment. I hope....

you can be romantic in many ways. finding out his interests..knowing what he likes and doesn't like and then letting your imagination go off and do the rest. give him a basket of some of his yummy favorite snacks, maybe a cd from his fav artists....like a care/love type basket. make a bubble bath for both of you guys to get funky in. take him out to one of his favorite places to eat, or somewhere you both have never been to, somewhere by the water maybe? when you guys are both free make plans and show up at his house, light up the candles, etc; and all that junk.

and "awww" for the leo blush. hehe i find it so cute, my leo blushes too all the time. sometimes i'll say something just to see his cheeks go rosy. its definetly a good thing though, leos love compliments especially from those they like, theres more meaning to it.
one thing i don't think you have to worry about is loyalty and commitment with a leo. if you take your time with him, don't rush things and just go with the flow he will open up to you even more and gladly be committed to you. just show him that he can count on you, respect him, shower him with attention and mean it. leos aren't afraid of love, they LOVE being in love.

geee i'm writing a lot. but just want to add, always be self assured and confident when you are with him. don't let his dissapearing acts get to you. dust it off like its nothing. i tend to analyze things too sometimes when i well know the facts.

Ya wan- I tend to over analyze myself. He did call me today. He is a complete mess from the weekend. He was at a 3 day party and drinking fest... So now he is in bed at home sick as a dog. But he is still a sweet heart. I would love to plan a romantic getaway for the night even. But our schedual are to messed up right now. I just have to wait for his second job to slow down a bit.. Right now his shop is really busy and almost everyday he tells me "Usually we are not this busy" He is always appoligizing to me. I dont know why. Then he told me that he should slow down by march or the end of march. So I hope so that way we can spend alittle more time together without us having to sacrifice sleep all the time.. I need my sleep as does he..

But I know in the summer Im going to take a couple months off of my part time job just so I can travel a bit. Camping here I come baby. Maybe leo will come maybe he wont I dont care either way cause Im going..... Independence. He said that he loves camping too but he never has time for it.. We will have to see what the summer has in store.