Eliza1212
@Eliza1212
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How do you get rid of a useless scorpio woman?
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One day she was one inch away from my face almost wanted to hit me. She wants me to work from home so when she sees me in the office, she goes crazy. She is doing all her best to make my office life a hell. She used to want to hint that they are an item (LOL). I always knew that scorpions are delusion but not to this degree. She has basically nothing in common with this man, not to mention that she is a married woman with 4 kids, and he is a single man looking for a relationship. My problem is that I know all her motivations and skim. It is making me sick. I refuse to talk to her about it. I just want her to disappear - or just give up and shut up. I also do not show him that I am angry at all this. Because I am afriad that since he likes to get back at me, once I showed that kind of anger, he takes it as jealousy and will play it everytime things are not his way. So I really feel stuck emotionally. BTW - there are a lot of women who throw at him but almost all of them are married with kids so I never get bothered. But this woman is so much all over me trying to bring me down - that is what is annoying me. But I have to admit that she is trying to be at his service 24/7, I am afraid that he might get hooked?! I don't know. what do you think? Thanks for letting me vent:-)
Well, you did say he was kind of a ''player'' and maybe he likes the attention, what did you expect? You should have nothing to worry about if she's ''useless''.
LOL @enfant_terrible. I don't think he knows that this is irritating me. I am wearing my leo prideful mask and act like nothing bothering me so he doesn't know that there is a cold war b/n her and me. The 1 inch face approach happened earlier when this started. But once I realized her intentions, I am actually seeing her down without even a word, which makes her to dig deeper than ever. Work wise, I have nothing to do with her either. but as an admin assist, she is supposed to help everyone - but I doubt if I ever get help if I needed one (LOL).
annoyedfish - our workplace is a very professional place with highly educated people, family and everything - but WOW, the cheating whether emotionally or physically, is out of this world. I am not from the same culture, and really struggling to understand even if I have lived in the country for a long time.
Impulsv - I agree he is at fault too - but I think they are the ones in a relationship - not him. Actually sometimes I feel sorry for him. He is a charmer - but he does not seem to want things to be more than that. But the women takes this very serious and want him badly.
annoyedfish - our workplace is a very professional place with highly educated people, family and everything - but WOW, the cheating whether emotionally or physically, is out of this world. I am not from the same culture, and really struggling to understand even if I have lived in the country for a long time.
Impulsv - I agree he is at fault too - but I think they are the ones in a relationship - not him. Actually sometimes I feel sorry for him. He is a charmer - but he does not seem to want things to be more than that. But the women takes this very serious and want him badly.
Posted by annoyedfishLol
there goes the scorpio loyalty meme 😆
Posted by Blood ft. Waterlol what sign are you?
Keep your mind on the money and let everyone else go to hell
straight to the point ha!
Honestly he was showing you how much he respects you by entertaining her foolishness. You are a very typical Leo. strong and good at hiding pain. I would be devastated to learn that someone I care about but entertain I a pretend relationship with someone else. While everyone is different, I think something that we all can agree on is that it is messed up when a partner is overly flirtatious and gives the wrong kind of attention to someone other than their significant other.
Posted by ImpulsvThe scorp is not my boss. She is an administrative assistant who is supposed to help everyone in the office but of course him being the boss, she works for him more than for others. He is not my boss either.
This useless woman is your boss?? Yeah no man worth my career.
Posted by Blood ft. WaterYes!
Office flings never end well. Just forget about making the Scorpio disappear or you will lose what's most important to you and that's your job.
Posted by Blood ft. Wateruhmm.. if you were a girl, I would say Leo lolPosted by TxOgalGuess my signPosted by Blood ft. Waterlol what sign are you?
Keep your mind on the money and let everyone else go to hell
straight to the point ha!click to expand
but think you're a guy.. so maybe Capricorn or Virgo
that's based on your comment.. so what are you?? tell me tell me!
Posted by 88akkaNo I don't actually. I HATE to compete for a man too. Competing and manipulating may get you the man but not his love. But unfortunately that makes me look like wierd and disinterested, I guess. The women here are FIGHTERS specially the married they are the more fighters they are. As if you are taking away their toy or something. Ugh! I don't know. I don't understand the whole thing. I hate drama (againt my leo nature). But this woman is really pushing me. It feels like half of the things she does is because she wants him, half of the thinngs she does is to make send a messag to me. ....Well, I have been patient so far and can be patient for awhile, but when I am pushed too much....it is a different story. She is not going to like it. Actually I don't back down for anyone including him. Our company is a big one with loads of policies, and he is more walking on an egg shell than I am (if you know what I mean).
what a night mare . I would let her have him.
Not even dating or something semi good here with him and you are already going through this. A smart lady does not compete with other women.
she knows her worth and where she stands. right now they are making you miserable. Do you really want this from a man?
Posted by Blood ft. WaterLol! I will keep that in mind.
Keep your mind on the money and let everyone else go to hell
Posted by Blood ft. Wateromg! I think I'm getting a heart attack LOLPosted by TxOgalYou WIN!Posted by Blood ft. Wateruhmm.. if you were a girl, I would say Leo lolPosted by TxOgalGuess my signPosted by Blood ft. Waterlol what sign are you?
Keep your mind on the money and let everyone else go to hell
straight to the point ha!
but think you're a guy.. so maybe Capricorn or Virgo
that's based on your comment.. so what are you?? tell me tell me!
Western astrology tells me I'm Capricorn Sun Leo Rising but Vedic tells me I'm Aquarius Sun Virgo Rising.
I lol at astrology in general I'm in it for the lols I guessclick to expand
Posted by Magenta_AzureOh...it takes a lot to act not to give a damn. I am more angered by him. The way he misinterprets everything I do, and how quickly he wants to get back at me is beyond me. Some of his stupidity creates so much problem, like this woman.
Honestly he was showing you how much he respects you by entertaining her foolishness. You are a very typical Leo. strong and good at hiding pain. I would be devastated to learn that someone I care about but entertain I a pretend relationship with someone else. While everyone is different, I think something that we all can agree on is that it is messed up when a partner is overly flirtatious and gives the wrong kind of attention to someone other than their significant other.
Posted by KsamCancerLol....I think I should and send the tape to her husband:-)
You should beat her ass
Posted by Eliza1212Leo men are a handful and can be terribly egotistical. But they're so addictive 😢 its too much.Posted by Magenta_AzureOh...it takes a lot to act not to give a damn. I am more angered by him. The way he misinterprets everything I do, and how quickly he wants to get back at me is beyond me. Some of his stupidity creates so much problem, like this woman.
Honestly he was showing you how much he respects you by entertaining her foolishness. You are a very typical Leo. strong and good at hiding pain. I would be devastated to learn that someone I care about but entertain I a pretend relationship with someone else. While everyone is different, I think something that we all can agree on is that it is messed up when a partner is overly flirtatious and gives the wrong kind of attention to someone other than their significant other.click to expand
Posted by GreyWizI FUCKING LOVE LEOS. EXCUSE YOU?? ¢¢¢¢¢¢¢Posted by Magenta_Azurewhy the fucks does everyone say this. Damn we are not all bad for godsakes. They are happily married leo men. The weirdest thing is they are all married to leo women...............Posted by Eliza1212Leo men are a handful and can be terribly egotistical. But they're so addictive 😢 its too much.Posted by Magenta_AzureOh...it takes a lot to act not to give a damn. I am more angered by him. The way he misinterprets everything I do, and how quickly he wants to get back at me is beyond me. Some of his stupidity creates so much problem, like this woman.
Honestly he was showing you how much he respects you by entertaining her foolishness. You are a very typical Leo. strong and good at hiding pain. I would be devastated to learn that someone I care about but entertain I a pretend relationship with someone else. While everyone is different, I think something that we all can agree on is that it is messed up when a partner is overly flirtatious and gives the wrong kind of attention to someone other than their significant other.
I always wondered why leo/leo works so well.
oh yeah.......everyone else hates us...............
which gives both of us something to bond with..........
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Posted by GreyWizThat isn't loyalty. .. its infantile.Posted by Joseline+1. Not a real leo man.
actually he should turn you off...what he does is not sexy.
I would stay loyal to my chick. If i am pissed i would deal with her through hate sex/withholding sex. He is acting like a biyatch.click to expand
And likely the reason LEO women and leo men do NOT work,
in real life.
Posted by GreyWizThanks, Grey. I know I am dealing with an immature leo. He is so smart and ambitious, really great at work. But his personal life is a mess...at least in my eyes but may be that is what he wants. Things are wearing me out slowly and I am going to let my heart decide. When I go against my heart feeling, I always end up being hurt. So I will let this die on its own if it is not meant to be. He will never see me compete with them anyway - that is not who I am. I am sure he knows it that I can never be one of them because I am not the married one with bunch of kids and looking for a side treetrunk. I am dealing with true feelings. If he doesn't get it, his loss.Posted by Eliza1212look he is not a leo or he has forgotten what a leo means.....Posted by 88akkaNo I don't actually. I HATE to compete for a man too. Competing and manipulating may get you the man but not his love. But unfortunately that makes me look like wierd and disinterested, I guess. The women here are FIGHTERS specially the married they are the more fighters they are. As if you are taking away their toy or something. Ugh! I don't know. I don't understand the whole thing. I hate drama (againt my leo nature). But this woman is really pushing me. It feels like half of the things she does is because she wants him, half of the thinngs she does is to make send a messag to me. ....Well, I have been patient so far and can be patient for awhile, but when I am pushed too much....it is a different story. She is not going to like it. Actually I don't back down for anyone including him. Our company is a big one with loads of policies, and he is more walking on an egg shell than I am (if you know what I mean).
what a night mare . I would let her have him.
Not even dating or something semi good here with him and you are already going through this. A smart lady does not compete with other women.
she knows her worth and where she stands. right now they are making you miserable. Do you really want this from a man?
He should choose you. You need another man.click to expand
I love my leos!! Godbody
My take on this is that the Scorp is doing all this to wind you up.
Seems like it's working rather well too!
She probably knows you like the Leo and you don't like her so she's stirring it up simply because she can and she knows you're falling for it.
It doesn't make it right but your reaction to it all probably fuels her.
This post has been written by a Scorp... A non delusional one...!!
Seems like it's working rather well too!
She probably knows you like the Leo and you don't like her so she's stirring it up simply because she can and she knows you're falling for it.
It doesn't make it right but your reaction to it all probably fuels her.
This post has been written by a Scorp... A non delusional one...!!
HAHAAAAAA "How do you get rid of a useless scorpio woman?" Good look with that one honey. I am a Scorpio woman and I don't want MEN that don't want me. SO sounds to me like he is interested in her so the feelings are mutual. In that case even if you get rid of her chances are he will go find her. That also does not mean you will be "the chosen one". I'm dating a leo man and yes they like to flirt but every time I have every brought to his attention anything to do with another woman he has corrected his actions. so it sounds to me like he is just not that into you.
Doesnt matter what happens my leo guy always come looking for me. The attraction between scorpios and leos can be very strong. So much so that it doesnt matter whats going on around them. So you think that he doing it to make you jealous but he probably not even thinking about you SMH.
Female tip: Never concern yourself with the other woman.. Focus on being the cream of the crop
From what I have read you have played alot of games with him and im sure he has picked up on that because Leos aare no fool and are also very emotional people. A man who wants to be loved isnt going to really find what you are doing appealing.
Sound like you missed your boat hun.. HAHAAAA now stop being a hater and let those two set the world on fire.
Doesnt matter what happens my leo guy always come looking for me. The attraction between scorpios and leos can be very strong. So much so that it doesnt matter whats going on around them. So you think that he doing it to make you jealous but he probably not even thinking about you SMH.
Female tip: Never concern yourself with the other woman.. Focus on being the cream of the crop
From what I have read you have played alot of games with him and im sure he has picked up on that because Leos aare no fool and are also very emotional people. A man who wants to be loved isnt going to really find what you are doing appealing.
Sound like you missed your boat hun.. HAHAAAA now stop being a hater and let those two set the world on fire.
Posted by Blood ft. WaterDamn straight
Keep your mind on the money and let everyone else go to hell
Thanks everyone for your comments. I lost my password to both dxp and temp email address so I had to create a new account......
I have an UPDATE. After I posted this, I went cold on the leo man but I did not disappear this time - not to punish him but I got fed up of the craziness. The Leo man wanted to talk. We had a long convo and finally he asked for a date. For the lack of word, it was the greatest time I ever had (lol) and I really hate it b/c he made me fall for him even more. He treated me like I am the only woman on the planet - he pulled all his hidden gentleman cards to show me how a man he was(lol). He is like a child seeing him happy...it is really funny. I tried to open up without giving too much but still wanted him to know how I felt about him. He was amazed. He thought that I was not that much interested and he said he did some of the things he did (which I found them annoying (lol)), to get a reaction out of me. He said he really appreciated that I opened up. ....
Fast fwd...we went out a few times after that and it is a blast to be with him. Always attentive, making sure I am taken care. He even got me a gift which he said he bought it long time ago when I was on vacation. I like that he wants to spend as much time as possible with me. Last Wednesday, he said ....you know that you are not allowed to see anyone else. I kind of smiled, and I saw him when he immediately got nervous. I am actually a one-man woman.. Even when I like someone before anything starts, my heart tends to stay loyal. Anyways, I told him ...well, you need to lead by an example but you don't need to worry about me. I think he knows I am not a player but he needed some reassurance,, may be. So here we are me enjoying his undivided attention and adoration and the same for him. I love that man to a bit. I know it is stupid to say this after such a short time, but I am prepared that anything can go south anytime and I should learn to pick myself up and move it (lol). But I have noticed that ...he seems too POSSESSIVE now. I really don't mind as I have nothing to hide, but my sag moon wants some sort of freedom. So I am hopping he learns to trust me and tone down the Possessiveness (lol).
I have an UPDATE. After I posted this, I went cold on the leo man but I did not disappear this time - not to punish him but I got fed up of the craziness. The Leo man wanted to talk. We had a long convo and finally he asked for a date. For the lack of word, it was the greatest time I ever had (lol) and I really hate it b/c he made me fall for him even more. He treated me like I am the only woman on the planet - he pulled all his hidden gentleman cards to show me how a man he was(lol). He is like a child seeing him happy...it is really funny. I tried to open up without giving too much but still wanted him to know how I felt about him. He was amazed. He thought that I was not that much interested and he said he did some of the things he did (which I found them annoying (lol)), to get a reaction out of me. He said he really appreciated that I opened up. ....
Fast fwd...we went out a few times after that and it is a blast to be with him. Always attentive, making sure I am taken care. He even got me a gift which he said he bought it long time ago when I was on vacation. I like that he wants to spend as much time as possible with me. Last Wednesday, he said ....you know that you are not allowed to see anyone else. I kind of smiled, and I saw him when he immediately got nervous. I am actually a one-man woman.. Even when I like someone before anything starts, my heart tends to stay loyal. Anyways, I told him ...well, you need to lead by an example but you don't need to worry about me. I think he knows I am not a player but he needed some reassurance,, may be. So here we are me enjoying his undivided attention and adoration and the same for him. I love that man to a bit. I know it is stupid to say this after such a short time, but I am prepared that anything can go south anytime and I should learn to pick myself up and move it (lol). But I have noticed that ...he seems too POSSESSIVE now. I really don't mind as I have nothing to hide, but my sag moon wants some sort of freedom. So I am hopping he learns to trust me and tone down the Possessiveness (lol).
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
Posted by Elizaa1212'... hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door..'
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
What does that mean... her cloth?
And I picture her swinging wildly on his office door, somehow...
Clarify, please!
Posted by MontgomeryHaha! I meant hanging her outer wear on a rack. We have a couple of common racks near the entrance and the one that he is using is not close to her. But she makes it her job to find his coat and hangs it next to his. LOL...about the door - when he is not in the office, she has his office's key as she is an admin asst. and keeps extra keys to all offices. So she opens his door several times and writing and erasing again and again on his message board (or don't know what it is called where you write a note when you are OOO) ..I am convinced that the woman is crazy or she is extremely obsessessed about him.Posted by Elizaa1212'... hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door..'
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
What does that mean... her cloth?
And I picture her swinging wildly on his office door, somehow...
Clarify, please!
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Posted by Elizaa1212Obsessed is my guess.Posted by MontgomeryHaha! I meant hanging her outer wear on a rack. We have a couple of common racks near the entrance and the one that he is using is not close to her. But she makes it her job to find his coat and hangs it next to his. LOL...about the door - when he is not in the office, she has his office's key as she is an admin asst. and keeps extra keys to all offices. So she opens his door several times and writing and erasing again and again on his message board (or don't know what it is called where you write a note when you are OOO) ..I am convinced that the woman is crazy or she is extremely obsessessed about him.Posted by Elizaa1212'... hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door..'
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
What does that mean... her cloth?
And I picture her swinging wildly on his office door, somehow...
Clarify, please!
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Thank you for clarifying!
And congratulations 🙂
Oh... and be nice to her.
For one, because it's the right thing to do.
Thanks Monty. I like that....."be nice to her". That is what we leos are - right!!! I will try to be nice but she is out for my blood. I have written half of the things she does on an hoursly basis. It is really not easy. This woman used to work as a receptionist. When she got promoted to admin asst, I was so happy and gave her a hug and encouraged her. Everytime I was OOO for a long time, I used to give her a hug when I came back. She completely turned on me and this is the first time I have seen what a real deception means. She actually changed my view towards humans...I didn't know that this much ugliness was lying underneath her. But hopefully everything will sort out smoothly although she does not seem like the kind who gives up easily.
Posted by GreyWizLOL...yes Grey he is worthy.....well for now until he mess it up:-) I truly love the man, what can I say. He has behaved since our first date, so I can't complain about him now.Posted by Elizaa1212is he worth all this pain? why do girls get so crazy over leo guys. I noticed all i have to do is smile and girls naturally become nicer and more friendly/lusty. I am not bragging but i find it weird.Posted by MontgomeryHaha! I meant hanging her outer wear on a rack. We have a couple of common racks near the entrance and the one that he is using is not close to her. But she makes it her job to find his coat and hangs it next to his. LOL...about the door - when he is not in the office, she has his office's key as she is an admin asst. and keeps extra keys to all offices. So she opens his door several times and writing and erasing again and again on his message board (or don't know what it is called where you write a note when you are OOO) ..I am convinced that the woman is crazy or she is extremely obsessessed about him.Posted by Elizaa1212'... hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door..'
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
What does that mean... her cloth?
And I picture her swinging wildly on his office door, somehow...
Clarify, please!
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You are lucky then, if women are easily attracted to you....BUT PLEASE USE YOUR CHARM WISELY. Never use it to lead on people or for self gratification by giving false signals to keep them interested. This is the weakness I have
this is the weakness I have seen in most charmers.
Posted by ImpulsvYou are right, Impulsv! I didn't like that either. But we both are cancer venus and it is actually our worst trait that if we don't get the reaction we need from another person, we get kind of manipulative. I used to do it when I was much younger. But I have gone through so much family tragedy and I have changed a lot - I don't like mind games now. which I actually confronted him long time ago but he continued with it. I feel like he reminds me the young version of me even if he is the one older. I need to teach him some lessons (lol) as there are worst things out there in life and the best you can do is stay true to the people you love as they may never be with you tomorrow. or he needs some astro lessons 🙂
N u see no
Problem with that despite clearly seeing it.
I mean what MAn !!! Use another to play with ur head n get a reaction. Really use another's emotions to fuck with ur head. Great catch!
I think I real man would have an honest discussion from the get go. Good luck
Posted by GreyWizExactly @greywiz you guys are just so charming lol.. Be careful @elizzaa1212 hopefully you are not part of a game... Did you ask him about his relationship with her. Because a simple conversation would probably confirm if she is crazy or not.. But if he slept with her then she is not crazy she prob hurt or upset.. Smh y'all need to form an alliance against him.. Sounds like he is playing a gamePosted by Elizaa1212is he worth all this pain? why do girls get so crazy over leo guys. I noticed all i have to do is smile and girls naturally become nicer and more friendly/lusty. I am not bragging but i find it weird.Posted by MontgomeryHaha! I meant hanging her outer wear on a rack. We have a couple of common racks near the entrance and the one that he is using is not close to her. But she makes it her job to find his coat and hangs it next to his. LOL...about the door - when he is not in the office, she has his office's key as she is an admin asst. and keeps extra keys to all offices. So she opens his door several times and writing and erasing again and again on his message board (or don't know what it is called where you write a note when you are OOO) ..I am convinced that the woman is crazy or she is extremely obsessessed about him.Posted by Elizaa1212'... hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door..'
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a
company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
What does that mean... her cloth?
And I picture her swinging wildly on his office door, somehow...
Clarify, please!
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Posted by ImpulsvI agree••• sounds like it's just your turn now.. But for how long....
N u see no
Problem with that despite clearly seeing it.
I mean what MAn !!! Use another to play with ur head n get a reaction. Really use another's emotions to fuck with ur head. Great catch!
I think I real man would have an honest discussion from the get go. Good luck
How old is he ?
Posted by Scorpio4242Posted by GreyWizExactly @greywiz you guys are just so charming lol.. Be careful @elizzaa1212 hopefully you are not part of a game... Did you ask him about his relationship with her. Because a simple conversation would probably confirm if she is crazy or not.. But if he slept with her then she iPosted by Elizaa1212is he worth all this pain? why do girls get so crazy over leo guys. I noticed all i have to do is smile and girls naturally become nicer and more friendly/lusty. I am not bragging but i find it weird.Posted by MontgomeryHaha! I meant hanging her outer wear on a rack. We have a couple of common racks near the entrance and the one that he is using is not close to her. But she makes it her job to find his coat and hangs it next to his. LOL...about the door - when he is not in the office, she has his office's key as she is an admin asst. and keeps extra keys to all offices. So she opens his door several times and writing and erasing again and again on his message board (or don't know what it is called where you write a note when you are OOO) ..I am convinced that the woman is crazy or she is extremely obsessessed about him.Posted by Elizaa1212'... hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door..'
About the crazy scorp lady...OMG - that woman is a complete psycho., he doesn't seem to care about her existence any more, but her hatred towards me has grown exponentially. She actually became a complete stalker, parking by his car, hanging her cloth right after his, when he is not in the office, playing on his door.... Last time we had a
company gathering and he was not there, she sat so close to me almost like she wanted our heads to touch...Gross! I really don't know what to make of that woman. I know she is waiting for some terrible thing to happen to me. Her eyes turn red every time she sees me. A frustrated, desperate married scorp is in a mission (lol). I will tear her down one day, but so far I want her to continue to burn. But again, she is not the only woman who is after him, there is actually a libra, another leo (lol) and an aquarius who all seem not to like me but they are at least gracious about it(lol). Talk about punishment but he is worth it and I am here for him!!!!!
What does that mean... her cloth?
And I picture her swinging wildly on his office door, somehow...
Clarify, please!
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Haha...of course he has not slept with her, lol. We talked about all of them (not just specifically about her). I never doubted him anyway. I am not trying to be mean but the other women are much more beautiful, feminine and equally intellectual as him, so if he wanted to sleep with anyone of them, it would be them rather than her. You see, the problem is all of them (except for one) including her are married with small kids. I don't think with the position he has, he would want to take that road. After all he is not a slut, that much I know about him. He likes to chat and joke around with everyone. Some just take him as he is and don't read too much into it. Some takes it as interest and want to pursue it endlessely. The more they cannot catch him, the more they get interested. I am not trying to defend him but a similar thing happens to me a lot. I say hi with a smile (cultural thing). Some men start to chase me as they take it as interest. May be this happens to most women, I don't know. I am not a charmer and don't like to lead on people either. But I have noticed that people have a tendency to want to read signals and give it meaning which sometimes is a complete wrong perception. Again not defending him, but some of his behaviours are easy for me to understand. I think he knows how to draw a line. AS soon as they want to cross that line, he disappears.
I will watch my back though:-) If we are meant to stay together, no matter what we will. If not, then we will not.
I will watch my back though:-) If we are meant to stay together, no matter what we will. If not, then we will not.
Get her offended. She won't talk to you for a pretty long while.
Posted by Elizaa1212Story of my life. 😆
Thanks Monty. I like that....."be nice to her". That is what we leos are - right!!! I will try to be nice but she is out for my blood. I have written half of the things she does on an hoursly basis. It is really not easy. This woman used to work as a receptionist. When she got promoted to admin asst, I was so happy and gave her a hug and encouraged her. Everytime I was OOO for a long time, I used to give her a hug when I came back. She completely turned on me and this is the first time I have seen what a real deception means. She actually changed my view towards humans...I didn't know that this much ugliness was lying underneath her. But hopefully everything will sort out smoothly although she does not seem like the kind who gives up easily.
What I've learned (I think) is that yes, humanity is ugly... and
people act that way (like your co-worker) because they think
you're going to be like everyone else has ever been-- just as
ugly.
They've never been wrong before.
If you're keeping track because it's at work, then that's fine--
you should protect yourself... and if she crosses the line, then
deal with it at that time.
But don't give back to her, what she's giving to you... like that
saying, don't repay evil for evil.
Try to be the same person you were in the beginning, and don't
let the circumstances drag you down... they change
all the time.
🙂
Posted by GreyWizI wasn't suggesting she revert bag to hugging her upon arriving every day... lol
+1.
Also don't be so nice all the time. I mean just ignore her rather than giving her hugs and smiling. Sometimes leos enable such behavior because everyone thinks we are such a soft smiling teddy bears and they can walk all over us. I seen it time and time again. People will exploit leo's kindness and take us for a ride. There are some signs who read leos like compliments and try to manipulates us that way.
I think some leos need to experience the pain to get the message. The world is based on duality. Evil humans do exsist and thrive. Leos need to get that not everyone has the big heart and good intentions etc.
In the end we always win ofcourse 😛 still, we should take early action to cut these scumbags loose and destroy them if neccesary.
And yes, sometimes I think we do enable some of that behavior.... but at
the same time, some people just fucking hate smiling people, and they'll
do whatever it takes to wipe that smile off of your face.
This:
... we should take early action to cut these scumbags loose and destroy them if neccesary.
I disagree on Early Action-- destruction of the offending party comes so easily
when the time is right... you know this.
I'll be damned if I'm going to expend the energy to intercept them, ahead of time.
Plus in doing so, things won't fall into place as they should... and you may jump
the gun and be WRONG.
Well... not wrong, but it might look that way.
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Posted by GreyWizFair enough.
I guess destroy was the wrong word to use. I do believe we should cut them off early. sometimes leos believe the best in people and brush off when some people are being abusive and cunning. I am saying we need to develop a shorter tolerance to such people. we have to use our head as much as our heart.
I think looking to Capricorns and Aquarius in this aspect is very helpful. I do agree that karma takes care of everything in the end but we should do what we can to portect ourself in the meantime. Minimize the damage.
🙂
I always liked that quote in one of the astro sites,
used to describe LEO's attitude toward others:
Here's to me and
Here's to you, and
Here's to love and laughter--
I'll be true,
As long as you,
And not a moment after.
😛
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