How does a leo guy show his emotions

Yikes, and I thought I had it rough.

You gotta keep in mind that Leos are proud creatures, and tend to hold their innermost feelings very close to their chest. They have a tendency to act aloof or even upbeat after a serious situation, trying to appear like they aren't that bothered.

It's the pride thing.Getting the real good stuff out of mine is like pulling teeth. Even after all this time, it's still a push/pull thing between us, almost like he does it on purpose to antagonize me lol.

I'd say, it would take a lot of trial & error, as well as having gone through enough difficult periods together to the point where he'd feel very comfortable being completely honest with his feelings, because he'd know he can trust you with his heart.

On the subject of him telling you about it, for some reason it seems to me he was simply being merciful, like putting you out of your misery. Telling you how things are so you could start dealing with it. His timing might've sucked, but I think he was doing you a favor.

Chin up, luv.

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Yikes, and I thought I had it rough.

You gotta keep in mind that Leos are proud creatures, and tend to hold their innermost feelings very close to their chest. They have a tendency to act aloof or even upbeat after a serious situation, trying to appear like they aren't that bothered.

It's the pride thing.Getting the real good stuff out of mine is like pulling teeth. Even after all this time, it's still a push/pull thing between us, almost like he does it on purpose to antagonize me lol.

I'd say, it would take a lot of trial & error, as well as having gone through enough difficult periods together to the point where he'd feel very comfortable being completely honest with his feelings, because he'd know he can trust you with his heart.

On the subject of him telling you about it, for some reason it seems to me he was simply being merciful, like putting you out of your misery. Telling you how things are so you could start dealing with it. His timing might've sucked, but I think he was doing you a favor.

Chin up, luv.

Thank you so much for clear things out. I couldn't sleep at all, keep thinking about it. But does he still love me? Will he move on from me quick?

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If he was the rebel type (like me), he wouldn't care what his family thinks and he'd stay with you.

As things are right now, he's already given you his answer. Now it's up to you to accept it & move on. Whatever feelings he might still have, I don't think they'll make a difference. It looks like he cares too much what his family thinks, and he wants them in his life.

It's a tough break, but there's nothing you can do about it. Unless you can convincingly pretend to convert to their religion. But it wouldn't be genuine, and it wouldn't be you.

I'm an atheist (born Christian) and my Lion's family are Christian, but they're not as "into it" as I thought they were. I'm respectful of their religion and they're respectful of my choice to be self-reliant. When he uses Bible quotes on me, it makes my eyes glow red sometimes, kinda like this lol



but I understand where he's coming from. I don't necessarily believe he believes in an actual God, as in a supreme magical being with too much power, but in the teachings of being kind and loving, treating everyone with respect and decency, and leading a life of kindness and goodness.

But there are people who just go way overboard and turn religion into a totalitarian way of life, and that's just awful. I don't think I could handle that. But thankfully they've been very welcoming towards me, to the point they have no problem with their son and brother dating another man.

Instead of lamenting what you've lost, try to see it as a blessing in disguise. Living in such a religion-oriented setting, especially an opposing religion, would drive you insane and would constantly be cause for problems. You'd feel like you're constantly walking around on eggshells trying not to offend anyone. So consider yourself luck for dodging that proverbial bullet.

I know it doesn't feel that way right now, but I think you're better off. You can't put a price on peace of mind.

Sorry, luv.

Wait, you broke up with the Leo because of his parents? You knew from the beginning that you both came from different backgrounds and dated him for two years. So why would his parents not blessing your union change anything?

From a Leo's point of view it would seem like you gave up. One thing most people don't seem to understand about Leos is that we internalize hurt very deeply. You can't break the relationship and then expect a to come chasing you. Leos are not only proud, but we are also looking for a strong proud partner who is reliably consistent. We want someone who will stand by us through thick and thin, someone who won't let outside influences affect our relationship.

By breaking up with the Leo, you showed you are willing to let outside forces (his parents) dictate the relationship you two shared. The Leo is probably now questioning your resolve. If he didn't break up with you because of his parents, why would you? He's not opening up to you because what will that do? You're the one who broke things off, why should he show you how hurt he is? If you weren't able to stick it out with him then, you don't deserve to see that side of him now.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I never understand why people make a mess and expect Leos to clean it up for them. You broke things off, you need to go fix it. Unless the Leo's parents actually pulled him away from you somehow, the breakup was just your doing. By wanting to know how hurt he is now, you simply appear manipulative.

That’s why we need a bigger print so people can read...so much wnergy wasted!

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I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago due to his parents didn't bless our relationship. We came from different beliefs and faiths so i kind of understand why his parents rejected me. I just never thought this would happen when everything was alright and happy. I wasn't prepared both physically and mentally at all bcs i didn't expect we would break up that night. This is too sudden. From something to noting real quick. He even asked me to be his good friends instead. I just disappointed with his response. Yeah, he did say sorry but how can he able to act normal as if nothing happened after 2 years of being together? How this thing didn't affect him at all? I was sick with fever and stressed at that time, how can he had the guts to tell me this straight away without considering my situation? I was hoping more than this. Something like comforting and ease my pain. If he said he also doesn't want this to happen to us or he scared of losing me, at least i know we both are suffering and in pain together. But he did say nothing. He got me into this relationship, we were supporting and motivating each other in so many ways. He will remind me how beautiful i am in his eyes, how importance of my existence in his life, he loves how i keep on making stupid jokes and nonsense, i bring joy to his life. He used to say that he scared of losing me and afraid to make me cry. If i can recall properly, we've never had any huge arguments and fights at all. I just wanna know why he didn't say anything to me that night. How deos a leo guy show his emotion and feelings? Does a leo guy will move on so quick? Help me guys. Thank you.

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Wait, you broke up with the Leo because of his parents? You knew from the beginning that you both came from different backgrounds and dated him for two years. So why would his parents not blessing your union change anything?

From a Leo's point of view it would seem like you gave up. One thing most people don't seem to understand about Leos is that we internalize hurt very deeply. You can't break the relationship and then expect a to come chasing you. Leos are not only proud, but we are also looking for a strong proud partner who is reliably consistent. We want someone who will stand by us through thick and thin, someone who won't let outside influences affect our relationship.

By breaking up with the Leo, you showed you are willing to let outside forces (his parents) dictate the relationship you two shared. The Leo is probably now questioning your resolve. If he didn't break up with you because of his parents, why would you? He's not opening up to you because what will that do? You're the one who broke things off, why should he show you how hurt he is? If you weren't able to stick it out with him then, you don't deserve to see that side of him now.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I never understand why people make a mess and expect Leos to clean it up for them. You broke things off, you need to go fix it. Unless the Leo's parents actually pulled him away from you somehow, the breakup was just your doing. By wanting to know how hurt he is now, you simply appear manipulative.

You've misunderstood everything already. He is the one who asked for a break up. That's the reason why i'm here to ask for your opinion.

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Ok that makes way more sense. If he's the one who ended the relationship due to his parents not blessing your relationship, the problem is with him. It sounds like he cares way too much about what other people think. You simply can't build a solid loving relationship with a person like that. The best thing you can do is to detach from this Leo. He needs to learn how to be his own man and to make his own decision, which is a lesson he will have to learn on his own.

If the Leo does care about you, the silence will be torturous for him. Give him no amount of your time and you may see things turn around. The fact that the Leo broke things off means he thinks the decision was a valid one. If you're still around him, he won't feel vulnerable. Leaving him alone will make him face the finality of the break up.

The unfortunate truth is that the person who initiates the end of the relationship, generally feels justified in doing so. If you want to know his true feelings, show that you are strong enough to back off. If he doesn't try to reopen communication with you, then you have your answer. In which case, it's better to know the Leo's true feelings now than further down the line.

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I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago due to his parents didn't bless our relationship. We came from different beliefs and faiths so i kind of understand why his parents rejected me. I just never thought this would happen when everything was alright and happy. I wasn't prepared both physically and mentally at all bcs i didn't expect we would break up that night. This is too sudden. From something to noting real quick. He even asked me to be his good friends instead. I just disappointed with his response. Yeah, he did say sorry but how can he able to act normal as if nothing happened after 2 years of being together? How this thing didn't affect him at all? I was sick with fever and stressed at that time, how can he had the guts to tell me this straight away without considering my situation? I was hoping more than this. Something like comforting and ease my pain. If he said he also doesn't want this to happen to us or he scared of losing me, at least i know we both are suffering and in pain together. But he did say nothing. He got me into this relationship, we were supporting and motivating each other in so many ways. He will remind me how beautiful i am in his eyes, how importance of my existence in his life, he loves how i keep on making stupid jokes and nonsense, i bring joy to his life. He used to say that he scared of losing me and afraid to make me cry. If i can recall properly, we've never had any huge arguments and fights at all. I just wanna know why he didn't say anything to me that night. How deos a leo guy show his emotion and feelings? Does a leo guy will move on so quick? Help me guys. Thank you.

Whats ur sun sign?

I don't get what's so repugnant about your religion to the point where they just can't have you around.

It's not like you sacrifice cats on Saturdays and rip out people's hearts over a fiery pit during the week....right?

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Wait, you broke up with the Leo because of his parents? You knew from the beginning that you both came from different backgrounds and dated him for two years. So why would his parents not blessing your union change anything?

From a Leo's point of view it would seem like you gave up. One thing most people don't seem to understand about Leos is that we internalize hurt very deeply. You can't break the relationship and then expect a to come chasing you. Leos are not only proud, but we are also looking for a strong proud partner who is reliably consistent. We want someone who will stand by us through thick and thin, someone who won't let outside influences affect our relationship.

By breaking up with the Leo, you showed you are willing to let outside forces (his parents) dictate the relationship you two shared. The Leo is probably now questioning your resolve. If he didn't break up with you because of his parents, why would you? He's not opening up to you because what will that do? You're the one who broke things off, why should he show you how hurt he is? If you weren't able to stick it out with him then, you don't deserve to see that side of him now.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I never understand why people make a mess and expect Leos to clean it up for them. You broke things off, you need to go fix it. Unless the Leo's parents actually pulled him away from you somehow, the breakup was just your doing. By wanting to know how hurt he is now, you simply appear manipulative.

You've misunderstood everything already. He is the one who asked for a break up. That's the reason why i'm here to ask for your opinion.

Ok that makes way more sense. If he's the one who ended the relationship due to his parents not blessing your relationship, the problem is with him. It sounds like he cares way too much about what other people think. You simply can't build a solid loving relationship with a person like that. The best thing you can do is to detach from this Leo. He needs to learn how to be his own man and to make his own decision, which is a lesson he will have to learn on his own.

If the Leo does care about you, the silence will be torturous for him. Give him no amount of your time and you may see things turn around. The fact that the Leo broke things off means he thinks the decision was a valid one. If you're still around him, he won't feel vulnerable. Leaving him alone will make him face the finality of the break up.

The unfortunate truth is that the person who initiates the end of the relationship, generally feels justified in doing so. If you want to know his true feelings, show that you are strong enough to back off. If he doesn't try to reopen communication with you, then you have your answer. In which case, it's better to know the Leo's true feelings now than further down the line.

I was thinking to text him back today but most of you said that i need to back off for awhile, i gotta do so. I'm still not satisfied the way he ended our relationship. He kept on saying sorry instead of making things clear. Anyway, thank you so much for your advice and support, i appreciate it a lot. Sorry for my bad english.

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It sounds like he's apologizing for your benefit, which is patronizing. It's possible he feels bad, but that doesn't change what he did. Continuing to interact with him will only stroke his ego at this point. If you leave him alone, you will also make him wonder what your feelings are (if he cares). If he doesn't care, then you won't waste anymore time on him. When someone pushes you away, don't continue to validate them with your time.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Wait, you broke up with the Leo because of his parents? You knew from the beginning that you both came from different backgrounds and dated him for two years. So why would his parents not blessing your union change anything?

From a Leo's point of view it would seem like you gave up. One thing most people don't seem to understand about Leos is that we internalize hurt very deeply. You can't break the relationship and then expect a to come chasing you. Leos are not only proud, but we are also looking for a strong proud partner who is reliably consistent. We want someone who will stand by us through thick and thin, someone who won't let outside influences affect our relationship.

By breaking up with the Leo, you showed you are willing to let outside forces (his parents) dictate the relationship you two shared. The Leo is probably now questioning your resolve. If he didn't break up with you because of his parents, why would you? He's not opening up to you because what will that do? You're the one who broke things off, why should he show you how hurt he is? If you weren't able to stick it out with him then, you don't deserve to see that side of him now.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I never understand why people make a mess and expect Leos to clean it up for them. You broke things off, you need to go fix it. Unless the Leo's parents actually pulled him away from you somehow, the breakup was just your doing. By wanting to know how hurt he is now, you simply appear manipulative.

You've misunderstood everything already. He is the one who asked for a break up. That's the reason why i'm here to ask for your opinion.

Ok that makes way more sense. If he's the one who ended the relationship due to his parents not blessing your relationship, the problem is with him. It sounds like he cares way too much about what other people think. You simply can't build a solid loving relationship with a person like that. The best thing you can do is to detach from this Leo. He needs to learn how to be his own man and to make his own decision, which is a lesson he will have to learn on his own.

If the Leo does care about you, the silence will be torturous for him. Give him no amount of your time and you may see things turn around. The fact that the Leo broke things off means he thinks the decision was a valid one. If you're still around him, he won't feel vulnerable. Leaving him alone will make him face the finality of the break up.

The unfortunate truth is that the person who initiates the end of the relationship, generally feels justified in doing so. If you want to know his true feelings, show that you are strong enough to back off. If he doesn't try to reopen communication with you, then you have your answer. In which case, it's better to know the Leo's true feelings now than further down the line.

I was thinking to text him back today but most of you said that i need to back off for awhile, i gotta do so. I'm still not satisfied the way he ended our relationship. He kept on saying sorry instead of making things clear. Anyway, thank you so much for your advice and support, i appreciate it a lot. Sorry for my bad english.

It sounds like he's apologizing for your benefit, which is patronizing. It's possible he feels bad, but that doesn't change what he did. Continuing to interact with him will only stroke his ego at this point. If you leave him alone, you will also make him wonder what your feelings are (if he cares). If he doesn't care, then you won't waste anymore time on him. When someone pushes you away, don't continue to validate them with your time.

That's probably true. But i wish he could end our relationship in more proper way instead of saying sorry and let's be a good friends. I will leave him alone. I can't thank you enough for your advice. This helps me a lot to keep moving on.

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The fact that he can't end things properly tells you everything that you need to know.

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I don't get what's so repugnant about your religion to the point where they just can't have you around.

It's not like you sacrifice cats on Saturdays and rip out people's hearts over a fiery pit during the week....right?

I know right. I'm not sure why they refused to have me. It's not like i want to ruin their family line tho hmm. Actually, i don't blame their family. My ex is a kind hearted person, but somehow he always make a decision without discuss with me. I did ask him, 'so you want a break up? ' , he answered 'yeah but we can still be a good friends'. This is quite unfair for me.

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In my experience, Leos are fairly set in their ways regarding who they want in their life. But it doesn't necessarily mean they'll tell you lol. They'll show it via ghosting, some indifference towards you etc, to make you leave first. They're people-pleasers and don't like confrontation a whole lot. It takes a while for them to be comfortable enough to be completely honest about their feelings, because they don't like people hating them.

In this case I think he doesn't want to upset his family, and he's not too sure about you as a long-term prospect either.

In any event, his choice in the matter is fairly clear. I don't think there's anything you can do about it other than just accept it for what it is and move on with your life. Easier said than done, but it's gotta be done. You can't torture yourself over a guy who simply doesn't want the same things you do.

Heh, in a nutshell, they like to portray themselves as Lions, but they're in fact little pussies.