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Leo man giving mixed signals
Understanding Leo Man Giving Mixed Signals
Leo men often display mixed signals due to their desire for attention and uncertainty about relationships. They may be attracted but also hesitant because of past connections or personal issues. Patience and clear boundaries are key. Focus on your own well-being and avoid over-pursuing to see if he clarifies his feelings naturally.
Leo's take time to get over people. Sometimes years. If he's not over his ex, then you should probably move on. No point chasing someone that wants someone else.
Don’t fuck him. Your feels will just get worse.
Before I get to what's ailing you, I gotta ask.......do you happen to have a twin brother? You are identical to a friend of mine - except for the bits and pieces dangling between his legs lol. He's a total babe too.
Now that we got that outta the way, I would say Leos do a lot of talking through sex. Of course they are also prone to sex-ing anything on two legs, but if you want to prove a point I think you should show him exactly what he'd be missing out on. Sort of like your personal "told you so". I love doing that.
After all, the ex is like overworn knickers, he's been there done that. Show him that there's a far better alternative out there. She's a deli sandwich, you're Iranian Beluga caviar (the priciest type). And if it doesn't work out longterm, you'll still have the memory. Which is better than nothing.
too many red flags and it’s only been 3 months. He’s inconsistent and still emotionally tied to the ex. I know you have feelings for him, but imagine how stronger those feelings would be after 12 months instead of 3.
12 months? Really?
Ain’t no man waiting 12 months for a chick to drop the panties
too many red flags and it’s only been 3 months. He’s inconsistent and still emotionally tied to the ex. I know you have feelings for him, but imagine how stronger those feelings would be after 12 months instead of 3.
12 months? Really?
Ain’t no man waiting 12 months for a chick to drop the panties
Nobody said nothing about the panties. I’m saying if she sticks around and keeps fucking with him her feelings will be even stronger and harder to let go 9 months from now. 🤦🏼♀️ Everything ain’t about the panties 🤣😂🤣😂
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Lol. I was being an ass. Relax
too many red flags and it’s only been 3 months. He’s inconsistent and still emotionally tied to the ex. I know you have feelings for him, but imagine how stronger those feelings would be after 12 months instead of 3.
12 months? Really?
Ain’t no man waiting 12 months for a chick to drop the panties
Nobody said nothing about the panties. I’m saying if she sticks around and keeps fucking with him her feelings will be even stronger and harder to let go 9 months from now. 🤦🏼♀️ Everything ain’t about the panties 🤣😂🤣😂
Lol. I was being an ass. Relax
Only after I have my coffee lol too early to be fucking with me supes 🤣🤣 jk
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Lol. I had my coffee 3 hours ago
too many red flags and it’s only been 3 months. He’s inconsistent and still emotionally tied to the ex. I know you have feelings for him, but imagine how stronger those feelings would be after 12 months instead of 3.
12 months? Really?
Ain’t no man waiting 12 months for a chick to drop the panties
Well then to hell with em'. Bye.
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Geez, everyone so serious this morning
Please keep your pride and dignity and walk away.
Why is everyone always so anal about feelings and shit? Always overcomplicating things.
It's just panties & sex, luv. He's not made real promises to his ex, she's single, they should just get on with it. Take video!! And when it's over, they can sort all the other junk out, kinda like this.
He has a Virgo ex?
I felt that, but in reverse
If he isn't over his ex then I wouldn't mess with him or wait around for him. All you will be to him is a rebound. It takes us a long time and a lot of rebounds to get over someone, even then, we may never truly be over them. I'm still having dreams about ex's from 20 years ago.
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So I’ve been talking to this Leo guy for the past 3 months.. we never met but we are from the same city. Our conversations were deep, open and sometimes sexual. We finally met last weekend at a music festival and camped together. He gave me many mixed signals though.. he seems into me but then very off it.. we haven’t had sex but have fooled around. After the festival I found out he has been involved with his Virgo ex again who he admits he is not fully over even tho they broke up 2.5 years ago. She has him around her little finger and he admitted that when she came back into his life and he saw a glimpse of hope he went straight for her, leaving me to feel brushed aside. He’s unsure if he wants to be with her though and there’s lots of confusion. He knows I have feelings for him but it’s like he still wants me in his life but is confused. He also has a lot of anxiety and depression which I help him with.. I have started to back off cause I don’t want to be second best. I know I could help him grow and heal, but it’s up to him if he wants me.. if I just back off now do you think he will come forward? I’ve been pretty persistant, showing him lots of love and care but I’m very confused with all his mix signals. He’s hard to read! I instinctively don’t think him and his ex will last long from what he has told me.. halp!