i love leo...............

i love leo but sometimes you dont know what their are thingking of... like they dont want to share their feeling about you, sometimes never say anything if your dress is nice your permume that you used is good to smells it most of it you will not hear from him so i dont know were i must to stand for it... were been so many year were been togewther but until now i dont know were i must stand for him... my friend i want to know how seduce him or how to know what his thingking off...

i remember reading somewhere that in order to capture a leo's heart, you have to "tread lightly towards love". and the more i thought about it, the more true i realized it is. in the initial stages of a relationship, it needs to be generally playful and fun. if anything gets too heavy too soon, or i feel pressure, it just automatically repels me. i am reluctant to display my feelings early on because i really need time to let people prove themselves to me and get to know them before i respect them enough to genuinely praise them. and i HATE making giving inaccurate compliments that i later regret. also, i never like appearing vulnerable early on, because that gives them too much leverage too soon. if they know that their standing with me is not yet on a secure level, they are much less inclined to try to take advantage of my feelings for them (and games like that to "test" what people say about their feelings are SO much easier in the beginning stages). if i think i am getting attached, and someone does take advantage of that, it's very bad news, because i feel deeply (as i believe all leos do when it reaches that level). once you do earn that respect from me, if you abuse it because you know it's there, it seriously hurts, and that happening is much less likely when it's defined that we're committed.

one i am sure of the person's trustworthiness, and know what it really is about them that makes me love them, though...i have absolutely no problem expressing it. i guess you could say i tend to gush on occasion.

well as i read all your letter...ive been so funny with him if he make joke i laugh and if his very silent or he dont want to talk i respect him, i dont push him to make something that he make upset, but the last time with me i met his friend with the girlfriend. he feel jeoluos to the guy i'd dint know what happen just i'll remember he slap my face then he said his fed up from me, then im trying to ask him why? still he dont want to talk to me one week for now i try to send message to ask him to explain still he dont answer that why? i dont know were i must to stand for or i must to leave him alone, or for the better.. we're been 5 year we leave in the same house but now im here with my lady friend because when he told me leave him alone.....

ladymoody if he's putting his hands on you be it slapping you or anything physical, you might want to rethink your position with him. It's not healthy for people to be abusive in any form. Instead of trying to figure him out, you might want to figure out why your putting up with his abuse behavior.

It sounds like he needs his space and the more you push he repels and becomes agitated and angry. Give him some space and see what manifest.

yes my friend when i give him some space then i'll try to talk to him after one week, i ask him about what he done... he kept silent and still he dont want to continue what im saying that day... so yesterday i send a message to him but still he is not in the mood when he answer my text message, he told me i dont have a paracetamol so pls.. then i'll answer it by a sweet message, again it make me upset..
so i cannot sleep last nyt for thingking what im gonna do to him....

or i must to give him so space or i will ignore him anymore.........

Ladymoody ...I saw a similar post from U on scorpio board as well. Are U a cancerian by any chance ?

my friend i let my best friend barrow my passwords...

my friend i let my best friend barrow my passwords...

i remember reading somewhere that in order to capture a leo's heart, you have to "tread lightly towards love". and the more i thought about it, the more true i realized it is. in the initial stages of a relationship, it needs to be generally playful and fun. if anything gets too heavy too soon, or i feel pressure, it just automatically repels me. i am reluctant to display my feelings early on because i really need time to let people prove themselves to me and get to know them before i respect them enough to genuinely praise them. and i HATE making giving inaccurate compliments that i later regret. also, i never like appearing vulnerable early on, because that gives them too much leverage too soon. if they know that their standing with me is not yet on a secure level, they are much less inclined to try to take advantage of my feelings for them (and games like that to "test" what people say about their feelings are SO much easier in the beginning stages). if i think i am getting attached, and someone does take advantage of that, it's very bad news, because i feel deeply (as i believe all leos do when it reaches that level). once you do earn that respect from me, if you abuse it because you know it's there, it seriously hurts, and that happening is much less likely when it's defined that we're committed.

one i am sure of the person's trustworthiness, and know what it really is about them that makes me love them, though...i have absolutely no problem expressing it. i guess you could say i tend to gush on occasion.


WHEEL I have NEVER agreed with something so much in my LIFE...DITTO to ALLL you said...I am the EXACT same way...

Tough Luck !! Trust me if you smell nice he will tell you ....if you look good he will tell you... my Best Friend is a LEO man..if you want to get on his good side... you have to basically bow down to him...and i have seen plenty woman try to get him...you have to flatter him and treat him like royalty... don't give him too much attention...he will be running to you seconds if he really likes you... GoOD LuCk !!!