when leos start disconnecting you from his life

This topic was created in the Leo forum by 1_fine_gem on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 and has 10 replies.

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@1_fine_gem
19 Years

you know he did love you, and you did love him, but things went wrong. He tried to get back with you and work things out but you gave him no chance. He started disconnecting you from his life----completely---totally. Changed phone and stuff. It's impossible now, but though you screwd up, you don't wanna completely disconnect from him, but he's gone. Is there a chance? impossible. A miracle? I can only pray for. When he want you out completely does that mean he love you still but he's hurting? or that he doesn't care about you at all anymore? I want the truth, be mean if you must.

I am new here and by reading most of your input I can tell this is a pretty cool site.

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@purrrfect
20 Years1,000+ Posts

The truth? From the way it sounds, I think it's over. But then again, I'm not a Leo male and have never dated one if that's what you were looking for. I'm sorry. Getting over someone sucks, I know it.

Welcome to the boards.

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@1_fine_gem
19 Years

but i know he loves me still...i it just pride doing that? now I want him back ...bad idea if I contact him? I still have some of his info like e-mail and IM— the thing is I think that guys should contact girls first, but since its my fault, what do u think??

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@1_fine_gem
19 Years

"but i know he loves me still

how do u know??"

I feel it. We love each other so very much and our relationship was too deep and intense, he couldn't possibly have forgotten about that too easily. I know he loves me still but, he's pride and anger maybe commanded him to do those things, I deleted him in my list too once when I got really mad at him. Sometimes I think we do things impulsively which we later regret, but then I guess I am answering my own question..lol...though I wan to know the truth, my heart want to e deceived so I maybe want to hear something I don't know. Our hearts deceive is sometimes. NOW HERE'S ANOTHER QUESTION. He could have other reason too for changing his number, I still have his e-mail. anyway, How long do you guys forget someone you once thought was "the one"?
seems I can't forget and how?

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@1_fine_gem
19 Years

i know he doesn't have a gf or he wouldn't think of entering preisthood. He's my first so I don't know If I meet someone will I forget him? does it really help, but I can't seem to learn how to love others. I guess I am being emotional tonight lol

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

You haven't changed your number so if he wants to get in contact he can.

Your first big break-up is a killer, but you will love again. It just doesn't feel like it at the moment. And that is part of why the first love is so brutal. You really are convinced that it can never happen again. It will. You will be okay.

Just keep breathing.

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@waterscorpgirl
19 Years

i agree with LeowithCap, i've dealt with plenty of leos in my life- been friends with them, dated them, and its true, when they want something/someone- they pursue, putting their pride aside. if yours is running the other way, and making permanent changes to keep you from contacting them, take it for what it is. just like sparrow said, if he wants to contact you he will.