I need some expert advice on Leos...harsh & all.

To start off, I'm an Aries, he's a Leo. We had been dating for 10 months until yesterday when we ended things. I actually feel like I have officially pushed him to his limit. I??ve been real insecure in our relationship, so insecure to the point where I've started huge fights at least 3 times and decided to end it, then I always go back and apologize and he takes me back. The first time I ended things, however, was because of the fact that he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and I decided not to stick around. That was at around 5 months of dating, then he ended up texting me saying he missed me and wanted to take me on a date to talk about everything. My most recent temper tantrum was last week??_I was trying to go through his phone while he was sleeping and he had put a lock screen on it. That pissed me off so bad that I started throwing a tantrum at 12:45 a.m. waking him up out of a dead sleep. The next morning, when he took me home, he was trying to be nice and kiss me and I wasn't having it. He asked what was wrong and I told him nothing. He asked me not to lie to him and I still told him nothing. We normally kiss each other goodbye, but I just got out of the car and slammed the door. I didn't talk to him all weekend then I tried texting him like everything was fine Sunday morning and he didn't respond. That pissed me off even more, so I text him again telling him that I would never bother him again. I text him again on Monday apologizing and I ended up going over. He told me that he didn't want to be with me, that I loved him more than he loved me, that he was scared of committing to anyone and that this wasn't right. He told me that I had hurt his feelings so bad with the tantrum that I threw and he was thinking about ending things earlier that weekend because he was so mad. He said he was sleeping when I text him on Sunday, so when he woke up to my messages, he decided to not respond altogether because he didn't want to argue with me. He ended up getting drunk and kissing another girl, then added her on Facebook. He said he had met the girl a week prior to this meeting and nothing happened, but he did it this weekend cause he was pissed at me. I am truly in love with this man??_I really am. Do you think he??ll come back? I'm willing to stop all of these childish antics for him because I love him so much.

Are you sure you're not the leo?

my parents are leo (mother) and aries (father). I dont wish for my love life to be like theirs, they ALWAYS fight like no day passes when everyone's happy, there always have to be something that makes them tick. Girl this leo could be bruised from ur anger tantrums even if his actions lead u to this. Non of u will be happy. Go through what u wrote.. cant force a relationship and cant force love. Better see that sooner than later.. good luck i know it is hard.. i just broke up cos i loved him more than he did.

How old are the two of you?

I'm 25 and he's 33.

Every time I go back and read what I wrote, it kills me. I know without a doubt in my mind that I was acting completely fucking ridiculous. I won't even try to sit here and justify my actions; I was EXTREMELY childish, juvenile & selfish for thinking that I could act this way and he would continuously accept all that I do.

Posted by FieryHal
I'm 25 and he's 33.

Every time I go back and read what I wrote, it kills me. I know without a doubt in my mind that I was acting completely fucking ridiculous. I won't even try to sit here and justify my actions; I was EXTREMELY childish, juvenile & selfish for thinking that I could act this way and he would continuously accept all that I do.

Your a young Aries and havent figured out how to control your Fire/Anger, we are all childlike. But you havent gotten to the stage of learning how to control your insecurites and temper tantrums. Leo's do not react well to these, they do not react well to being conrolled (ie Checking their phone) They want trust, loyalty, respect of their own space, and someone who is secure in themselves. They are looking for the Queen, if you re-read your post, those actions are far from a Queen. I am not putting you down, you have all those qualities in you. I would let him come to you, in the meantime work on yourself and what you need to change.

You can only control your own actions, no one elses. Once you understand that and understand how you show action towards another, they tend to respond to you based on the action. If you change how you act/react, so will they. Good Luck

Leo/Aries = magnetic 😉

So true. Insecurities are one of the big killers of relationships and I let mine get the best of me. I did apologize to him the night that we broke up. I let him know that there was no excuse for my actions and that I was sorry for putting him through that. I never considered his feelings and that he'd have such a strong reaction to what I did which was SO SO inconsiderate.

I may have pushed him right into the other girl's arms.

Give him some space and work on your self; find the root of your problem (what's causing you to be so insecure). I've dated two Leos and one great quality they have is loyality!

I can understand your insecurities, women throw themselves at Leo's. We'll go out to eat and the waitress will be all in his face and he wouldn't pay her any attention. You have to know your mate! You also have to be secure enough to know that if he cheats on you, he'll be losing something great!

Don't go throw his phone (that's rude). If you feel like he's cheating simply say "I feel like your up to no good and if your are I'm leaving" and that's it. Leo's don't like arguing so set the ground rules. He'll respect your demands.

@JustALeo Lol pretty "LADIES" don't throw themselves at anyone. Excuse my French but only 'sluts' do...

Remember: you don't see too many commercials trying to sale you a Ferrari (because the value is high). Only cheap cars have to have commercials, to convince others the value is high lol

Posted by Aquarrow
Are you sure you're not the leo?

LOL. maybe a leo rising.

Posted by JustALeo
Cmccask1, where are these women that throw themselves at Leos? Lol I mean I have some but they are very unattractive, where are the pretty ladies at? Lol

exactly mate.

Posted by nimmoiselle
he doesn't want you back,simple.he may love the affection and attention you shower him but that's it.

it may be too fast to say that though. maybe he was just really pissed off and needed the space. 🙂

Posted by nimmoiselle


maybe,but leos are very direct.that it's the second time he's acting like he wants out means he wants out.she clearly can overeact but a Leo who wants in wants in..there's usually no grey area with Leos...maybe her actions have pushed him away or maybe he was never really into the relationship in the first place..

yes. leos are very much direct indeed. he might have been really hurt with her checking his phone. what i am saying is i think it is too early to say that. we haven't had any update of the situation yet. 🙂

Posted by RainDancer88
The sexiest thing a woman can have is her shit together.

this.

Okay. Here's an update...he ended up texting me on Friday telling me that he missed me and that he still didn't know what he wanted. He went on to say that he thinks that we are meant to be together because I care about him more than I should with all of the bad that he does and vice versa. He told me that he does, indeed, like the girl that me met the weekend before we broke-up and he hung out with her last night. I'm done with it. Any way we were truly "in love" he wouldn't bother with her..but he is soooooo moving forward.


Thank you all for the advice.
I appreciate you all.

Posted by FieryHal
Okay. Here's an update...he ended up texting me on Friday telling me that he missed me and that he still didn't know what he wanted. He went on to say that he thinks that we are meant to be together because I care about him more than I should with all of the bad that he does and vice versa. He told me that he does, indeed, like the girl that me met the weekend before we broke-up and he hung out with her last night. I'm done with it. Any way we were truly "in love" he wouldn't bother with her..but he is soooooo moving forward.


Thank you all for the advice.
I appreciate you all.

if he met her the weekend before you two broke up, and he hung out with her last, i think he just pretty much told you he really is not for you. I don't speak for other Leos but for me, he knows what he wants, and sorry, it's not you.

I figured.
That's why I'm moving on.