I just cut off a Leo friend

I'm an aquarius and I have a group of friends who are all earth and water signs and we like to get stoned together and hang out.

we have a younger friend that I introduced to the group and he's a Leo and he started smoking weed a year ago and since then he has become unbelievably volatile, manipulative, emotional and controlling.

I considered myself to be his best friend of the group because I introduced him to everyone and also because I'm more tolerant than the others.

He has a really bad habit of finishing your sentences for you before you say the last word he will say it like he knows what your going to say and its really off putting, he gets told about this all the time but he doesn't listen he gets really defensive and blames other things or just breaks down and you just feel awkward for bringing it up.

He's also starting a lot of drama between my friends and I, whenever I smoke weed with him he will bitch about one of my friends because he thinks they don't like him and then the next week it will be a different friend etc etc, its as if he needs to be the centre of all this drama that he creates.

Anyways I've deleted him off my friends list on Facebook and have pretty much told him to get on with his life and that I deserve better as I've been a loyal friend and to sort his shit out because I've had it with manipulative, bossy people.

Hes sent a friend request and a lot of apologies which I am surprised that he's not being defensive but I feel like I need to stick with my guns on this one because I feel if I don't follow through he will see me as well and then I would have provided him another opportunity to manipulate me.

Is this a good approach? I know I did it on Facebook but the last argument we had left me so emotionally drained and it was over something so fucking stupid I just needed to paragraph everything that was wrong that he had been doing and call it a day and end the friendship online.

any kind of advice or light shed on the subject would be appreciated even though at this point I'm like meh.

Aquarius people I know have always been super friendly to me even when I was acting like a weirdo, so if you're feeling like cutting him off, then cut him off 😛

wow, what you just said sounded so much like my brother who is a leo lol and they say aquas were indifferent.

The sexist in me wants to say you all sound like a bunch of women.

Bromances shouldn't be this complicated. lol

Well its funny you say that Enfant??_..we watched 22 jump street together the other day and I saw myself as channing tatum and he was jonah hill

We aren't a bunch of women, were thespians so your close and this leo is the str8 guy of the group but he acts like the bitch of the group even he has the girls rolling their eyes

J/k though 😄

But Leos can be high maintanance as we all know, sometimes you just gotta accept them on their terms, if that's an option. And if you consider them real friends.

I did this with my Leo best friend and we didn't talk for almost a year but after time passed we were able to reconnect. She respects my boundaries and doesn't TRY to control me and I respect her, as well as try to give her advice on how not to control everyone in her life. :-)

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I'm an aquarius and I have a group of friends who are all earth and water signs and we like to get stoned together and hang out.

we have a younger friend that I introduced to the group and he's a Leo and he started smoking weed a year ago and since then he has become unbelievably volatile, manipulative, emotional and controlling....

Maybe the weed is making him paranoid.

It sounds excessive, yes... but the way you framed it-- I just had to throw it in there.

🙂