IS THIS LEO PLAYING ME FOR A FOOL—?

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I'm not even sure where to start!!!!! I met this Leo while I was in hs. We dated a while and I called it off. I have always been curious as to how he was and I have searched and searched. It has been 26 yrs!!!! I finally found him. Of course, he lives 2000 miles away from where I live. He was very excited to hear from me. He says that I have never left his mind or heart and always felt as I were the one. We are both in unhappy relationships. We have both felt as if something were missing. We have been talking/texting everyday since the last of April. We don't communicate much on weekends due to our partners. He has talked about visiting and possibly moving here. When it gets closer to time, he says work.is really busy and that it will happen just not as soon as we thought. He says he'd rather his gf leave so he dosent look like the asshole. They have a 3 and 1 yr old. I see it as him making excuses. He gets so angry when I say that and asks why he'd waste time talking with me as much as he did if he didn't want a relationship. I know we can't drop everything RIGHT NOW, but if he was truly sincere, wouldn't he want to arrange at least a visit? Especially of he says I'm his everything and always have been. He says he dosent like to be pressured by the ''when,"question and thinks we should back off. Should I back off and see it for what it is?
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Posted by leowww
Wow......Anyway.

Yes he's playing you...for a fool..

He's not gonna leave her for you.

Back off.

Leave your unhappy relationship.

Get your life in order.

Find available men.

Not unavailable guys from your past.


I certainly wasn't looking for anything when we got in touch. Just happened that we really connected. I have been married for 14 yrs and definitely don't look for unavailable men. I guess I fell into his lies of what he portraid her to be. Thank you.
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Posted by Scorpio4
Posted by leowww
Wow......Anyway.

Yes he's playing you...for a fool..

He's not gonna leave her for you.

Back off.

Leave your unhappy relationship.

Get your life in order.

Find available men.

Not unavailable guys from your past.


I certainly wasn't looking for anything when we got in touch. Just happened that we really connected. I have been married for 14 yrs and definitely don't look for unavailable men. I guess I fell into his lies of what he portraid her to be. Thank you.
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but aren't you unavailable too by virtue of being married?
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Posted by Scorpio4
Posted by leowww
Wow......Anyway.

Yes he's playing you...for a fool..

He's not gonna leave her for you.

Back off.

Leave your unhappy relationship.

Get your life in order.

Find available men.

Not unavailable guys from your past.


I certainly wasn't looking for anything when we got in touch. Just happened that we really connected. I have been married for 14 yrs and definitely don't look for unavailable men. I guess I fell into his lies of what he portraid her to be. Thank you.

but aren't you unavailable too by virtue of being married?

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Yes, like I said, your right. I'm not perfect by any means.
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Posted by sultrykitty
I don't see it as him being an asshole tho. Someone he cared about (and wondered"what if") made contact, and circumstances being what they were/are, an opening presented itself for fantasy-making.

Long term relationships aren't always rainbows and unicorns all the time.

Best to snap to reality though, before someone (or many someones) gets hurt.
I don't see him as an asshole either. He says he wants to leave his gf but feels bad due to the age of kids. He says there have been problems for quite sometime and thinks she is going to leave. He wants her to leave so he dosent look like the asshole. Dosent make any difference, your right, it's all fantasy.