just waitin'.....not anticipatin'....

lol. remember the leo at work who i accidentally 'approached' via a dating site (a little aggressively cos he ignored my damn advances!!!) well, he left the company a few weeks ago. i was so busy fighting with our boss at the time and haven't been in the office much since and so i only noticed his absence a couple of weeks ago and haven't really given him much thought.

and so typically, cos i'm not obsessing, i was going through my ansaphone messages as some have been lost recently (i never answer my phone, lol) and he called a few days ago asking me to call him back i don't actually have his spanish number anyway and so just left a message for him on fb saying i'd just picked the message up but don't have his number.

he sounded kinda weird on the voicemail...a bit like he was starting a sales pitch. he's a top salesman, so i don't know if perhaps it's just his style .

he had asked me before about building him a website for his dj work and i know he's getting busy with that cos he told me to go to a festival he was gigging at a few weeks back but it was too late in the day for me to arrange childcare. we didn't have a conversation about that as such anyway, just via fb when he said he was playing there.

anyhow, i'm just assuming that's the reason wants to get in touch. we'll see.

only problem is that he's a carbon copy of the knobhead. they're friends from way back. same part of london as me. same age. they share the same characteristics and even look similar!! also there's only 2 days between their birthdays *very, very sad almost crying face*

this is what holds me back from this one. probably wise to be cautious. also i don't wanna get sucked into the knobhead's circle and have to be publicly civil to him.

Aw Rig, don't let Knobhead colour all your potential experiences with Leo men, they are nice really 🙂 Wait and no Anticipate is the best approach to take. Your going in from a position of strength this time 🙂

well, at least i know he's single and actually wants a relationship, lol.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well, at least i know he's single and actually wants a relationship, lol.

Lol, there you go, two check marks already - hard to find in this day and age 😉

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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s


and so typically, cos i'm not obsessing, i was going through my ansaphone messages as some have been lost recently ****(i never answer my phone, lol)****

SUCH a scorp thing. 😉

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s


only problem is that he's a carbon copy of the knobhead.

You'll find a lot of us are. But there *are* variations on the Standard Knobhead Template.

Hopefully you'll get one with a Libra Moon this time
Oh wait . . .

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i'm just gonna rise above the libra moon quip seraph.

and about the only thing i think leo men actually like scorp women (apart from the obvious) is that we're hard to get hold of. i drove the knobhead crazy trying to get hold of me. he finally created a fb account and i went on to be his first 'friend' and the first person to be blocked, LOL!! all that effort just to fuck me over anyway. knobhead!!

good to know i'm over it though 😄

Posted by 25thDecan
Is a date a waste of your time? If not...enjoy. if he shows he's a knobhead then cut off contact, laugh and have a blast.

Or...if you're ruthless.....
Find out what it is that YOU want between his business and your service. Go out with him casually and when the need arises..do him. Then...tell him to get lost, cut off contact, laugh and have a blast.

nah, i'm not ruthless. not even sure what ruth is to be honest so i don't know if i'm minus it.

i'll prolly go out with him. we've got alot in common and we get on well. my only concern is that he mentioned his friendship with the knobhead always had a very competitive edge and i don't wanna get involved in any kind of oneupmanship at my expense.

besides....he probably just wants his website doing. quit making me anticipate, lol!!!

cos you were making deliberate reference to the knobhead and his moon in libra. nice placement in my chart, yeah....crap if you're a knobhead though. it's like an all dominating genetic disposition being a knobhead.

LOL!!! he was looking for someone to take care of his daughter after school this week! he'd forgotten that i live miles away from where he lives, which is more or less next door to the knobhead! apparently, his ex wife just went on holiday on the spur of the moment and lumbered him with their daughter at the last minute. (lumbered isn't the right word but you know what i mean.)

we had a good chat and i said i would help him out in future if he is stuck cos childcare is a big problem for expats. nice guy. irritating similarity to the knobhead though in calling women darlin' or babe with a typically leo 'mate' thrown in sometimes just so you don't get carried away with their familiarity, lol. a few leos i know do that.

back to the drawing board, lol.

I think you should go for it...it's a very fulfilling relationship to be in...leo-scorp that is.

to be honest,i'm suffering from low confidence at the moment as far as relationships are concerned and so my preferred thing to do is stay in and keep a low profile. just had an awful week with my aries ex in spain for our daughter's birthday. we didn't see eachother much but enough for him to drag me down. i don't make good choices with men and never have so i'm opting out for a while 😢