Sagittarians.

I believe I posted in the Sag boards with this, but I wanted to see about Leos...

Sag experiences?

My first love is a Sagittarius. I was his first everything, and it's frustrating as all hell seeing how he likes to pop up every few weeks and enjoys pushing my buttons. It kills me so much knowing this ONE person somehow always knows the ins and outs of my brain and individual makeup.

I'll never go back to him, nor trust him - after we ended our relationship he turned into quite the manslut. And of course I wouldn't go back to 'white gold' when I already have a 'platinum' pristine mate. The nostalgia and his likeness to me just weighs on my heart at times and it sucks. And we both indulged in kinks of exhibition (which I veryyyy much miss due to the thrill).

I think a bunch of it attributes with the shared fire in our signs. I always find myself holding long term bonds with fire signs. And lately too much water has been drowning my fire. I'd love to hear fellow Sag experiences. I've heard older Sagittarians tend to settle down if rampant in their youth. I never like to assume with a generalization of sign traits, so if there's any varied experiences, I'd love to read them. 🙂

Blah, true.

I'm not a fan of somebody being able to psychologically, emotionally, and mentally be pin me down with such .. ease. Physically is another matter 😉

Heh, but in all honesty this must be a learning experience that I will just need to learn from.

Never had a relationship with a sag. My father was one which was great for a leo girl and I've a few friends (male) who are too, I don't think i could go saggy 🙂 I find them to be terribly inappropriate, as in saying inappropriate things, and they seem to use other people to make themselves seem funny, use them as the butt of their jokes, which offends my thinking - everybody should have their dignity so you don't make fun of someone in public to make yourself appear to be fun. Don't know any sag females so this is only based on the males. But other than that they are good fun mostly and good to be around.

They make for great friends and lovers but I don't think I could ever date an archer unless he was balanced with some Virgo and Cancer. Not into the commitment phobic attributes. My last boyfriend was a Sagittarius and his sun sign and the fact that he had Capricorn in EVERYTHING made him commitment phobic AND incredibly shut off emotionally.

Never again, lol.

My first love is a venus in Sag. Quite a kinky player in and out of the boudoir. He has a shit load of Scorpio in him though. And me being an Aries Sun and Sag rising (the ONLY fire in me) likes it a little too much! 😛

Yeah, there's this astonishing bond between fire signs. We play hard and we play fair. And there's always..ALWAYS a second chance. Hell, even more. 🙂

Posted by seraph
Yeah I had one.

(But didn't we all?) 😉

"I always find myself holding long term bonds with fire signs."

This is normal. It'll always be there. Just know where to file it.

Hmmm...words to live by.

Posted by celticlioness
Never had a relationship with a sag. My father was one which was great for a leo girl and I've a few friends (male) who are too, I don't think i could go saggy 🙂 I find them to be terribly inappropriate, as in saying inappropriate things, and they seem to use other people to make themselves seem funny, use them as the butt of their jokes, which offends my thinking - everybody should have their dignity so you don't make fun of someone in public to make yourself appear to be fun. Don't know any sag females so this is only based on the males. But other than that they are good fun mostly and good to be around.

^^ This. So very much. My experience is with the females though. The only sag man I know is the exact opposite. He's too painfully introverted and shy. Also, I know we fire signs are more aggressive in nature but I reeaaallly hate feeling like you're competing with me all the time. I just wanna hang and be cool with each other. Maybe it's the tension from the sag sun squaring my virgo moon :/

Oops. I actually know 2 sag males well.

The other is an enigma to me. I've known him for, oh, 14 years now. He can charm the pants off of anyone! He is politically minded, endearing, and laid back BUT once you know him it's all over. His actions will force you into a love-hate relationship forever. He doesn't manipulate with malice, but he takes advantage nonetheless and won't learn from it. It's like trying to reason with a toddler. His commitment-phobic issues run very deep. Way beyond the context of romantic entanglements. He and I have only remained friends because I have strict boundaries with him and he knows I don't cave. So all that's left are only good times to be shared 🙂

Posted by ninjamu
He can charm the pants off of anyone!

Sounds like the situation I always find myself in with Sagittarians. 😉

Whoops - heh.

Mm, I do have a touch of sadness that I don't have a close Sagittarian in my life. We've always flourished in what ever type of relationship that was held.

I've only been burned by one, and it was mostly due to different levels of life experience. And man, I'm ridiculously competitive - so I'm a teensy bit of a sore loser (as silly and trivial as it is) over his ability to ultimately resist my charm and hunting tactic.

Stupid competitions that the heart and head create.