Leo Disappearing

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Leo texted me to hang out and was not near my phone til the next day. Replied that I could and haven't heard from him for a week. The day before, I texted him again if he was still up for it, nothing. I was pretty upset because it seemed he really wanted to. A week passed and asked if he was upset, nothing. Two weeks later, I just texted him as normal how he was doing, nothing.

He liked me and vice versa. We were going back and forth and henced he asked and before I had to cancel for family obligations I was willing to make it up. Is there a way I could've said to make him reply? Why did he asked and then ignore me?
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Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
That's kinda stupid. So you would do that to a friend too? I don't apologize that I was busy(unintentional), but I had reply and tried to contact him. If that's the case, what a baby.
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Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
It was a family obligation. I should abandon my sick mom?
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Except you weren't friends yet. We're pretty good at seeing whether someone or something isn't a good match pretty early on. Having that much difficulty connecting the first time means that it's likely to be a struggle in the future. Unless like previously posted we're seriously into you.

By your quick reactions to our little bit of input, I'd guess he was probably right.
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Posted by sultrykitty
Except you weren't friends yet. We're pretty good at seeing whether someone or something isn't a good match pretty early on. Having that much difficulty connecting the first time means that it's likely to be a struggle in the future. Unless like previously posted we're seriously into you.

By your quick reactions to our little bit of input, I'd guess he was probably right.
We were friends for 5 months.
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Posted by sultrykitty
Except you weren't friends yet. We're pretty good at seeing whether someone or something isn't a good match pretty early on. Having that much difficulty connecting the first time means that it's likely to be a struggle in the future. Unless like previously posted we're seriously into you.

By your quick reactions to our little bit of input, I'd guess he was probably right.
+1.
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Posted by sultrykitty
Was it the first time meeting in person? If not, then I can't explain it, other than he has other things he'd rather spend his time on. Or that he's dealing with something personal and doesn't have time pr desire to stay in touch right now.
We've been hanging in person. He recently graduated and got an intern job. He was super busy then, but then after, he offered to hang out and it was unfortunate that I was not near my phone and decided to not reply as if I did something bad.
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Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
The little things do matter.

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Posted by FireAries27
At least be considerate and say nevermind because ignoring an Aries is a dangerous game...
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Considerate... like saying you're sorry you missed his text, which

you couldn't be bothered with?

Heh... and what do you mean by dangerous?

Are you going to kick his ass?

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Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
The little things do matter.

+1


Posted by FireAries27
At least be considerate and say nevermind because ignoring an Aries is a dangerous game...
Considerate... like saying you're sorry you missed his text, which

you couldn't be bothered with?

Heh... and what do you mean by dangerous?

Are you going to kick his ass?

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He didn't reply for 3 days before, but you don't see me throwing a big fuss only if it was intentional. I didn't mean to and he drops me like a rock because I couldn't hurry anu faster. You Leoa are pretty odd.
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Posted by MiZLeo
That's kinda stupid. So you would do that to a friend too? I don't apologize that I was busy(unintentional), but I had reply and tried to contact him. If that's the case, what a baby.

I would not do that.to a close friend. But someone who is just a casual friend, maybe. It's not a baby thing, it's more of a...you can't make time for me I won't make time for you.....thing...we don't have time for that kind of nonsense. We would forgive you if u told us it was your mom sick....which I'm sure u did and that's why he asked you the second time....but now you didn't reply to him fast enough and he doesn't have time for that. He probably doesn't want you to reject him for a 3rd time.


And they were both unintentional. First time was mom so that counts? Secondly, unintentional because I was working on a costume. He didn't reply to for 3 days because he was wprking.on his homework and I was fine but because I was working on my stuff, "omg not worth it. Drop her." There was no 3rd time.
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Posted by FireAries27
Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
That's kinda stupid. So you would do that to a friend too? I don't apologize that I was busy(unintentional), but I had reply and tried to contact him. If that's the case, what a baby.
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Just a heads up...Leo placement people are petulant when they don't get what they want. They do ignore people very well, but they will alwats come back if you're still willing to give them attention. Their need for admiration/recognition/attention is up there with the need to eat. I have a fair share of Leo sun and moon people in my life. As long as you're nice and willing to give them something (your precious time by fitting them into your schedule or making time for them in your busy schedule and when all else fails buy them something nice or take them to a nice restaurant)...they'll come back and will actually forgive you.
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Posted by FireAries27
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
The little things do matter.

+1


Posted by FireAries27
At least be considerate and say nevermind because ignoring an Aries is a dangerous game...
Considerate... like saying you're sorry you missed his text, which

you couldn't be bothered with?

Heh... and what do you mean by dangerous?

Are you going to kick his ass?
He didn't reply for 3 days before, but you don't see me throwing a big fuss only if it was intentional. I didn't mean to and he drops me like a rock because I couldn't hurry anu faster. You Leoa are pretty odd.
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Soo... you were getting back at him?

This is confusing, anyway... before what?

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Posted by FireAries27
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Posted by MiZLeo
I'm a leo woman, if you canceled on me once and then didn't answer me for 24 hours the next time and it was the beginning of us seeing eachother, I'd probably ignore you too. Unless, I was infatuated by you. I once had a guy pissed off at me cause he was gone for a week and I didn't hear from him (no cell phones back then) and when he got back I already had a new boyfriend. lol.
The little things do matter.

+1


Posted by FireAries27
At least be considerate and say nevermind because ignoring an Aries is a dangerous game...
Considerate... like saying you're sorry you missed his text, which

you couldn't be bothered with?

Heh... and what do you mean by dangerous?

Are you going to kick his ass?
He didn't reply for 3 days before, but you don't see me throwing a big fuss only if it was intentional. I didn't mean to and he drops me like a rock because I couldn't hurry anu faster. You Leoa are pretty odd.
Soo... you were getting back at him?

This is confusing, anyway... before what?

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No? Read from start to end of this thread and come back to me.
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Attention, charm, and status of some sort will get them every single time. They can't resist a charming person with position, rank, or money (someone who basically has the respect/admiration of others). So, just be charmimg and give attention...especially ask for forgiveness. Bingo...you're in there. You already had/have the required status or the Leo person wouldn't have wanted you in the first place.
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Posted by MsTeeq1974
Attention, charm, and status of some sort will get them every single time. They can't resist a charming person with position, rank, or money (someone who basically has the respect/admiration of others). So, just be charmimg and give attention...especially ask for forgiveness. Bingo...you're in there. You already had/have the required status or the Leo person wouldn't have wanted you in the first place.
Maybe due to pity-- needless to say, I disagree.

Status and attention mean nothing (esp to the water moons), if you lack depth of character,

intelligence or principle.

And forgiveness is not on par with either-- it honors your integrity as well as our own.



LEOs are not a shallow sign, no matter how much people would like to believe we are.

We're just shiny. 😄




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Posted by MsTeeq1974
Attention, charm, and status of some sort will get them every single time. They can't resist a charming person with position, rank, or money (someone who basically has the respect/admiration of others). So, just be charmimg and give attention...especially ask for forgiveness. Bingo...you're in there. You already had/have the required status or the Leo person wouldn't have wanted you in the first place.
I now know why a certain Pisces kept trying to impress me with his status and money.

lol

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LEOs are not a shallow sign, no matter how much people would like to believe we are.

We're just shiny. 😄



1+^ haha
I usually ignore someone like that when I'm up for some socializing and have too much free time on my hands so I tend to fill it up with whom might be available, not necessary that I really care about that person. I know this is a bad trait but that's the way I am sometimes . But ignore me and I will ignore you back.
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Not shallow, but you'll hang with just about anyone just because you're lonely? Uh, okay. And did you even bother my post or just assume you know what's going on? I said that it was unintentional that I wasn't near my phone and he ignored me. There was a time he didn't respond to me for a few days and I was cool with it because we're friends and he was busy doing his own thing. Do I have to continuously remind that I have done nothing wrong? Unless you're trying to justify for every move a Leo does because "they're the best sign"?
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Posted by FireAries27

Not shallow, but you'll hang with just about anyone just because you're lonely? Uh, okay. And did you even bother my post or just assume you know what's going on? I said that it was unintentional that I wasn't near my phone and he ignored me. There was a time he didn't respond to me for a few days and I was cool with it because we're friends and he was busy doing his own thing. Do I have to continuously remind that I have done nothing wrong? Unless you're trying to justify for every move a Leo does because "they're the best sign"?
My apologies. I felt rather grumpy when I read your post today the first time. Re-read your post, this is what I genuinely think.
He texted you, you could not answer at that time. Maybe he got a bit upset (this also happens to me) but ignoring you after, even after you apologized? pretty douche-able. I don't do that.

You can either:
1. ignore him back
2. simply and clearly ask him what's up with his behavior. If he doesn't reply to this either, he's really immature.
Apologies again btw 🙂
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Not shallow, but you'll hang with just about anyone just because you're lonely? Uh, okay. And did you even bother my post or just assume you know what's going on? I said that it was unintentional that I wasn't near my phone and he ignored me. There was a time he didn't respond to me for a few days and I was cool with it because we're friends and he was busy doing his own thing. Do I have to continuously remind that I have done nothing wrong? Unless you're trying to justify for every move a LIeo does because "they're the best sign"?
My apologies. I felt rather grumpy when I read your post today the first time. Re-read your post, this is what I genuinely think.
He texted you, you could not answer at that time. Maybe he got a bit upset (this also happens to me) but ignoring you after, even after you apologized? pretty douche-able. I don't do that.

You can either:
1. ignore him back
2. simply and clearly ask him what's up with his behavior. If he doesn't reply to this either, he's really immature.
Apologies again btw 🙂
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No worries! As long as you read the post and understood. I just didn't get how the other Leos think I did this on purpose when I explained 5 times now. Anyways, I texted a couple weeks back, "Are you upset?" Nothing. The past one was casual and texted that I hoped everything was fine with him(boring and generic I know). I'm debating whether to make a last attempt and confront(I heard most Leos don't like it well) or just drop it. At least I was trying that's all that matters. I'm disappointed how most people nowadays take the cowards way and don't even explain why for the disappearances.
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MsTeeq is interesting.

She comes on the Leo board to accuse us of certain behaviorisms. When we try to correct the notion, she goes on the Scorpio board to laugh at us. Saying that she told us we are like this and we refused/denied it.

Simply because she's dating a Leo moon Scorp.
😆
Wait...

We're being held responsible for the behaviour of a Scorpio?

😐

Is that legal?