Best way to tell leo chick "I'm not interested"

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Kalvinhere on Wednesday, September 2, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@Skitty
10 Years500+ Posts

I'm a leo- and the majority of my friends are all leos. Both male and female

I have never seen any of them- Show aggression when rejected. Typically they just pretend to not be bothered by it (even tho you can tell that they are really hurt) and then they move along with their life.

This is one of the many reasons why i'm having difficulty's believing in Astrology. Far to many contradictions. Nothing i have read matches myself or my friends.- Or the explanations are so broad they could fit most personality types.

Anyhow- digress- Just be honest. If your not feeling it. Your not feeling it. No reason to extend it.

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@whitedream
11 Years

Posted by flowingwater
Posted by beautifuldiaster
Say, "I'm not interested."

If she wants an explanation be blunt..

Then run like the devil himself is chasing you.

Lol
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YEAH... i rejected my friend thats a Leo guy recently after he `kept making moves` on me. It was awkward, difficult, and he is still raging. This was a few days ago. Actually what he was doing was highly inappropriate. But then instead of accepting the blame of his actions, he pretty much blames me for not telling him to stop or doing anything cause he was grabbing on me, and I'm like.. fuck dude you're angry now and you're sober.. and before you were drunk, angry, and slamming shit. Like i was terrified.

After that he said all he did was `TRY TO FIX ME` i was like so mad, I usually dont get mad, but that pissed me off. He said how `he was trying hard to change himself` ridiculous. Big ass baby / can't adult.

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@Kalvinhere
12 Years

Posted by Skitty
I'm a leo- and the majority of my friends are all leos. Both male and female

I have never seen any of them- Show aggression when rejected. Typically they just pretend to not be bothered by it (even tho you can tell that they are really hurt) and then they move along with their life.

This is one of the many reasons why i'm having difficulty's believing in Astrology. Far to many contradictions. Nothing i have read matches myself or my friends.- Or the explanations are so broad they could fit most personality types.

Anyhow- digress- Just be honest. If your not feeling it. Your not feeling it. No reason to extend it.

Exactly how it went

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by capricornmoon
Right Monty?
He might be feelin' himself too much, I bet the Leo chick will shrug it off and hit up another back up dude..

My friend (scorp-sag) and I were talking about this the other day....

some people, you can't just be friendly without it being

misconstrued as interest.

Fixed sign problems. 😛

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@MsTeeq1974
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I was going to say, be very upfront, blunt, and keep the convo topic very short. Leos always have other people they can pursue or someone after them. Just don't waste her time. If you DON'T say you're not interested, that's going to make her believe that you ARE...then when she finds out later that you weren't interested all along...she's going to be pissed.

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@MsTeeq1974
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Montgomery
Posted by capricornmoon
Right Monty?
He might be feelin' himself too much, I bet the Leo chick will shrug it off and hit up another back up dude..

My friend (scorp-sag) and I were talking about this the other day....

some people, you can't just be friendly without it being

misconstrued as interest.

Fixed sign problems. 😛

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I never noticed that this was a fixed sign thing, but in thinking about it...you're absolutely right.

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@MsTeeq1974
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm a Taurus Mars and rising, but instead of me thinking that a male friend wants me or me wanting more with a male friend, the opposite happens. I think we're JUST friends and they want more...even if it's just casual sex. My male friends are mostly in my life, because they dated someone close to me and when that fell off, we stayed friends. Not all, but at some point...about 80% of them at some point just flat out asked to hit it. Smh

Then the other 20% a mutual friend usually tells me how they feel or that the male friend revealed their interest in sex with me to them. I've been friends with most of them now for yearrrrrs and most of them started new families or are doing some other significant new thing. It's cool to have that kind of friendship security.