LEO IS and HAS BEEN after me!! What to do!—HELP

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Okay so if you've read my other post you know me an my leo history. Bottom line he like me and i like him. ALOT. However he's got this silly notion that im "afraid" of him.lol. I'm Libra, we are cautious in matters of love because we put so much into it, ironically just like leo's. But we dont like to be rushed. And with this leo i feel he's rushing me. My mom always says if a man is rushing he has secrete motive.
Everytime my leo see's me he's smiling, following me around at parties, not in a creepy way just like he's always watching me like a hawk, or prey. I'm flattered because he's a very "wanted" man if ya catch my drift and he's after me. Always telling me how badly he wants me on a physical tip and suprisingly just recently let me know he wants me to be his woman. We've only been out 3x. YIKES! He tells me he likes me sooo much, and wants to "take me off the market" yet, he comes on me physically so much i find it hard to believe he's sincere.
Call me crazy for not pouncing at the chance to be with a powerful leo, but they're BOSSY! well the men are anyway.
Then just like today, i told him i love his fb pic, he wrote back "thank you, and i need to be inside of you" WHAT THE HECK! Do i run, stay, or just go with the flow?lol. I just ignored it and said "your welcome, and when will i see you again? How was that? ANY SUGGESTIONS WOULD BE HELPFUL. THANKS! YOU GUYS ROCK!
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Posted by FireDragonScorpio

so all i'm saying is just be sure you know he's available. i don't like to check people out. it's part of my job though and in future, i will be checking out every aspect of a guy...especially a leo.

it says on his fb profile that he's fluent in bullshit and omg, so he is.



Your right. I have been slightly cautious of his past relationship, we haven't the chance to talk about it just yet. However the weird thing is i went to high school w/his ex, she hated me! lol. Not to toot my own horn, but she has been jealous of me since 8th grade. I had never done anything to her, and she started messing with me in middle school we almost faught.lol. However i didnt know she was his ex, until i saw it on her fb page. She had put mrs."..." (his last street name) on one of her pics. im like ugh of all people, why'd it have to be her.lol. But whatever. I know they still had sex, i dont know how recent, but their actual relationship has been over for 2 yrs now. Im guessing since thats how long he's been single and the datings on the pic on fb is 2 yrs old. soo... anything else people? Please comment. This IS a leo i need all the advice i can get. THANKS!
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You should know the full story about this guy. Yeah, he'll chase you around but don't feel so special because if he isn't taking you out every Friday or Saturday night, he's got others.
Libras and Leos both have huge egos and are superficial to an extent. You love his success and looks and he loves your looks but is that enough?
He should act like a gentleman around you and want to take you out than just talk about sex to you. If he is, then he's getting a sign from you that you think that's flattering which you shouldn't by any guy. What should really be flattering to you is a guy who suppresses that and acts like a gentleman around you. He proves himself to be worthy of you and wants to get to know you and establish something real with you before hopping into bed. Until then, he's on the make and will be a dog sniffing around anyone who smells good.
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Posted by Jonleo
You should know the full story about this guy. Yeah, he'll chase you around but don't feel so special because if he isn't taking you out every Friday or Saturday night, he's got others.
Libras and Leos both have huge egos and are superficial to an extent. You love his success and looks and he loves your looks but is that enough?
He should act like a gentleman around you and want to take you out than just talk about sex to you. If he is, then he's getting a sign from you that you think that's flattering which you shouldn't by any guy. What should really be flattering to you is a guy who suppresses that and acts like a gentleman around you. He proves himself to be worthy of you and wants to get to know you and establish something real with you before hopping into bed. Until then, he's on the make and will be a dog sniffing around anyone who smells good.



1. I am flattered that he took interest in me, because i liked him for sooo long, I didnt even know of his sucess until after the fact, so i am NOT the least bit impressed, its nice to have someone thats established but its not a Big deal as i take real good care of myself.
2. I am NOT flattered that he's coming on to me sexually, if i were cool with it, i wouldnt be writing for advice now would i?

NOPE.
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And the reason we haven't been going out, is because i stopped talking to HIM, because i didn't like the way he came on me the last time we spoke. In which he still continued to try to get me to be his girl, but i didn't like his bossy attitude. So it's not like we're talking on a regular, and all he does is talk about sex. perhaps i should've wrote more. I stopped talking to him. When we started back a couple wks ago he began talking about me being his girl, but i want to talk and date, im not sure if im ready to be his gf. or if he's even serious yet
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Posted by FireDragonScorpio
lol...i actually thought the leo i met didn't even like sex!! we didn't even have a full on snog for 4 dates which i actually found refreshing cos most other men come at me like a lizard the second we meet for a date (i kid you not, it's hilarious). anyway, with the leo when it came to sex, he said he wanted to make love to me like never before which was a little cheesy but so much nicer than i wanna fuck you, lol.

little things like that do reveal something about their intentions but as i said, the leo i saw seemed to be full of shit anyway so i have no clue what i'm talking about really 😢

i've never been so fucked up about a man in my entire life! the important thing to me is not to let it show which is why i come here to be pathetic.



LOL!! I LOVE YOUR COMMENTS.You are NOT pathetic girl. You were in either in strong-like, or in love, both which can make you blind to what real. Sort of like me, only i see whats up, but then my leo will throw a curve ball. But im no fool, i come here to get other outlooks, as i am always told as a libra i think too much. So i wana make sure im not blowing anything out of proportion or making things deepere than what they are.
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You will be alright. Im not that deep with my leo because i wont let it go that far. If he weren't bringing up sex and only talking about taking me out and me being his girl i believe i would be gone over him by now because we started talking all the way back in May. However since he does, i've have this huge wall up with electric volt around it, and he knows it. He goes " i would love to get close to you and snatch you off the market, but you just got this wall up around me" lol. I'd like to tell him that wall he's talking about is up around anyone i meet, man/or female. You have to earn my trust, it just goes double for a man that tries to get in my pants after 3 dates. Get real. I just wish i didn't like him so much.lol
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Posted by Jonleo
You should know the full story about this guy. Yeah, he'll chase you around but don't feel so special because if he isn't taking you out every Friday or Saturday night, he's got others.
Libras and Leos both have huge egos and are superficial to an extent. You love his success and looks and he loves your looks but is that enough?
He should act like a gentleman around you and want to take you out than just talk about sex to you. If he is, then he's getting a sign from you that you think that's flattering which you shouldn't by any guy. What should really be flattering to you is a guy who suppresses that and acts like a gentleman around you. He proves himself to be worthy of you and wants to get to know you and establish something real with you before hopping into bed. Until then, he's on the make and will be a dog sniffing around anyone who smells good.



1. I am flattered that he took interest in me, because i liked him for sooo long, I didnt even know of his sucess until after the fact, so i am NOT the least bit impressed, its nice to have someone thats established but its not a Big deal as i take real good care of myself.
2. I am NOT flattered that he's coming on to me sexually, if i were cool with it, i wouldnt be writing for advice now would i?

NOPE.
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pinklibra: "Everytime my leo see's me he's smiling, following me around at parties, not in a creepy way just like he's always watching me like a hawk, or prey. I'm flattered because he's a very "wanted" man if ya catch my drift and he's after me."

Ok, this is why women drive me nuts.

I say my piece and get shit for it. You ARE flattered by this guys superficial attention or you wouldn't be posting about it. I remembered what we discussed in the past so I'm pretty much reinforcing a lot of what was said. Guess all that just flew out the window. Donna's laughing at me now, I am too, really. I can't take this shit seriously or I'd end up in a mental institution. Women, ok SOME women, post something than do a 180 once you reply, 'Oh, I don't mean that I care But......................why isn't he calling me?' :/ If you want a guy's opinion stop shooting us down for it. No wonder guys hardly respond to these threads.
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Everybody else, keep the comments rolling. DESPITE what you guys think, i appreciate the responses, this leo is a tuff cookie, and like i said, just when im abt to give up on his ass, we run into one another. I know that will happen again real soon, so i want to know what i should do. SWEETLIBRA, YOU ROCK! LOL. Thanks. Now tell me, if it were you approaching the leo on the topics you mentioned, how would you word it? Maybe i'm not being clear enough w/him. Even though i clearly told him i want to get to know the "real" him before anything physical jumps off. He said he got it, but obviously not.lol. Maybe i should be honest and tell him i have no interest in having sex with him. Thats the truth, not yet anyway i dont. But wouldn't that damage his leo male ego?
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Posted by FireDragonScorpio
i guess it's uncomfortable getting romantic advice about a leo man from an actual leo man. it's like you become him and she has to backtrack cos she's given too much away, lol. so she admits her feelings on here, you make an observation and her kneejerk reaction is to deny the aforementioned feelings like you're him and not you.

it's a bit like 'does my butt look big in this?'....you're gonna be shot down no matter what you say, lol.



Not true. He's acting like i ignored his advice and went out and screwed old dude, and THATS why im coming and asking for help. This is not the case. I took his advice, yet i got pissed w/dude before i could even put it into perspective. I was on some "eff this leo male" crap altogether, until i saw him again and started jumping off the deep end bout how he likes me so much. Im libra woman, so yea it felt good to hear it, but it rubbed me the wrong way for some reason, which is why im back here. Thats all