Leo male/Scorpio female

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Yeah,
Leo males like to be pursued. How ever, DON'T try to CONTROL him. Scorpio's and Leo's have control issues. They R both intense, both intelligent, and both rated #1 in the passionate department. So everybody else wants some of us. However, U both want to be in MAN in the relationship. And a Leo MAN is not going 4 that. However, if U R willing to lead each other SHARE the power! Then this could be a good match. Especially in bed!
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lol. Yeah Krobe. I can see that. My best girlfriend is a Leo. We also have "king of the hill" issues. However, as a Scorpio, I have no problem allowing them to have the spotlight and believe they are in control. Its kinda cute, except when they try to control me, thats not gonna fly. Hmmmm....I guess I can give alittle extra attention than I am use to giving. Any more info to seduce my lion?
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ScorpioSweetie,
I am a pro with the Leo issues. However, I want to first mention to U that if U can keep in your mind (which U R a Scorpio) I know U can, that a MAN, cannot complete Ur life. Then I can give U some direct advice. He naturally attracts! Other women Yes! Period. It is in his nature to attract. He cannot help that. The sunny dispostion, the charm and oh Lord the intelligence us creatures have! LOL! I have heard of alot of Scorpio/Leo relationships being awesome! However, we R both competitors.

If U can let him be his natural self. Without being possessive and jealous acting (A BIG turn off for Leo's) they can despise U 4 acting like that. He is a KING or at least considers himself KING. He wants to be in CONTROL of his own life. U be in CONTROL of your own life. Don't try to rush him or pressure him. If U R stable, he is going get with U. Because he is not. Not at first anyway. He is stubborn and U R stubborn. However, in this relationship someone is going to have to bow-down. Give up the pride. If that is impossible 4 U to do. Then it is impossible to be with a Leo man. Because he is not. Trying to control him, will make him feel trapped in a situation that he will want out of once he has had enough! Leo women which I am, can go 4 control by a man 4 so long. However, Leo's don't settle 4 less. If U R the lesser bargain. Then once someone else comes along with the best benefit. It is over. I don't mean to sound direct. However, this is how we R. A security mechanism. He will try to become one with U. Leo's have to work as 1 unit. It cannot B a I only, Me only in this relationship. You HAVE to be willing to unite.
If not than U will not have a devoted, faithful partner that this man came be. We like competition. However, too much competition especially with another male/female we will be out. It is ME only with Leo's. Ur attention has to B focused on HIM. I suggest U don't do all that ego stroking, giving out to much attention that they say Leo's so much need. We R emotional and we don't like emotional drama. NO that cannot happen. Keep your emotions to yourself and let him come around seeking emotional support from U. He is a truthful, faithful, devoted, loving person to another that can unite as 1. No team separation here. Tell him what U want! And mean it. Leo's don't like pushovers, however U cannot be the man or to much of a dog here of U can cancel him. If U lack in these areas. He will be on the prowl. Good Luck!
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Hmmmm....this all sounds very interesting. I think I might have inadvertantly messed up tho 😢 I do believe I made an off the cuff remark about his job. I believe I said that it sounded boring. He didnt sound like he liked that too much. He is a very smart person, with degrees in chemistry and engineering. I didnt actually mean it, I was just being aloof and sarcastic. I also denied the saturday night date cuz I am at my moms house and. then planned a lunch date, in which I said that I wanted to keep it casual and not dress up, I think he wanted the night date cuz he then canceled the lunch date and proceeded to try to get me to go out to a really nice restaurant on sunday night, I had to say no, becuz i will then be at my fathers house, geez. I also think I turned him off alittle because I had mentioned I had a seven year relationship, I didnt go into any detail, I just mentioned it in passing, and he never brought it up or said anything about it, but I think that might have thrown him off. Here is the thing, I am 32, he is 25. I usually date younger, and he seemed to not have a problem with it at all. So all in all, did I mess up? Cuz now I havent heard from him in two days. I sent a text message asking if he was feeling better, he had a cold last time I talked to him on the phone (reason for canceling the lunch date). And he did not respond yet. Hmmm......so, I am not willing to pursue anymore, he canceled the date, it should be on him to reschedule. Oh, and what the heck! He says he likes to challenge people, and he certainly does, he is a politely sarcastic little bugger, funny tho. But does it ever stop? I mean, he is making it hard on me, and I am not sure if its games or if he is jaded or what. Please explain the challenging thing!
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Please explain the challenging thing!
Challenging is a man biological make up. To women it is games. However, it is just part of men. They don't do it on a purpose type thing. However, women R very emotional and men usually hide their feelings and they hide them very well. Women are made to be emotional and we don't hide our feelings well, because it is part of us. However, SOME women like their emotions take over and they lose CONTROL of themselves. This is an advantage for men because they have more experience with dating than women do. So they do stupid things to us. We get emotional and do stupid things to make them give up attention. This is a challenge. Don't give attention, live your everyday life and let him come around if he wants U. He will if U just let him B him.
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lol. personally, i think he was fake sick to bs me. but that could just be my suspicious nature. i texted him last night to build my case, i asked him if he was feeling better. i wanted to see how he responded or didnt respond. he texted me back this morning that he was better (miraculous recovery) but still alittle sniffly (whatever) and then asked me if i was free tonight. Hello, i already told him i had dinner plans. and yes, he is a real smart ass. and no, when it comes to stuff like this i absolutely hold my ground. i have not texted him back becuz i am annoyed. well, we will see how this turns out. i am older than him and know how these things work, if he keeps this up its not going to set a very good precedent. ya know?
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Yeah,
Chocolate
krobe, U hit that one. Don't put up with the BS! Men will try U. However, don't loose your control either and let feelings build up. U know scorpiosweetie, how to do it. Be the nice, kind BIT--. Be nice and KEEP CONTROL of U. However, don't be the pushover, easy going women that men like to run over. Men get a kick out of this butter! I know U being 32 know how men R with the challenges especially if U R ending a 7 year relationship. Yeah, don't bring up your ex man again. Most men say that they don't like this competition or having competition with other men, however, that is BS! They love it! LOL! They seem to B more into when U do have someone else other than them. However, if U can attend college, earn a degree if U don't have one, or earn a higher degree if U do have one. Do something else that will take your mind off of just completely him. A man can drive U crazy if U don't have other things going on in your life that can take U away from their drama! I worked two jobs and earned a college degree and working on a higher degree. U will come out better if U keep in mind that he is not going to complete U, you will have to complete yourself and let him B in your life if HE meets YOUR standards.
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Wow you have been given GREAT leo insight by Krobe and Chocolate, USE IT because they give great feedback.

If U can let him be his natural self. Without being possessive and jealous acting....

yep, my leo test my patience all the time, he will do things to intentionally see if I will blow up, it can be very un-nerving at times but I SEE the benefits of not reacting. Leos open up more when they know they can be themselves but when I used to react I got nowhere fast.

He wants to be in CONTROL of his own life. U be in CONTROL of your own life. Don't try to rush him or pressure him. If U R stable, he is going get with U. Because he is not.

I couldn't have said it better, my leo confirmed this, leos want you to have a life, they want to be trusted, I believe chocolate mentioned how loyal leos are when they find a good thing, so trust me he's not going to let you go if your a cut above the rest, some leos are very emotionally unstable so you have to mirror to him emotional stability, if your always upset and emotional, he's going to tune you out and do an about face, he will seek a woman that has control over her life and control over her emotions.

However, in this relationship someone is going to have to bow-down. Give up the pride. If that is impossible 4 U to do.

I find this to be true also b/c as an Aqua female (fixed sign) I can be very stubborn but I took 5 years of no dating etc to work out alot of my emotional kinks and egoisms before my leo showed up so I definitely find that I'm the one yielding and comes naturally for me.

Keep your emotions to yourself and let him come around seeking emotional support from U.

The key to get a leo male to do this, I know I have found from my own experience is ACCEPTANCE and not reacting to things most women would react to, by allowing him to BE himself at any given time. My leo now seeks me out and says when he is sad or angry etc whereas before he wouldn't do this.

Challenging is a man biological make up. To women it is games. However, it is just part of men. They don't do it on a purpose type thing.

This is so hard for me, I have a hard time with the fact that they (men) don't do this on purpose, I take it personal at times, krobe has been a huge help with making me see it differently buy yet this has been a challenge for me (: don't get me wrong, it keeps me on my toes, keeps me thinking (like most Aquas love to do) but its so dayum tedious because leos love the cat and mouse game, I'm
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LMAO!!@It more so seems he's trying to pressure her into his ambush...I like that word ambush, it certainly is exactly what a leo will do, he will ambush a woman into being emotional and inadvertently bully her in a nice way to get what he wants.

Message posted by: tiki33 on 4/30/2007 7:43:53 AM
Don't try to rush him or pressure him..

Tiki.....she's not putting any demands on him. It more so seems he's trying to pressure her into his ambush, but she's not moving. She's not breaking her set plans with her family for him, he's soooo SELFHISH. I think he's going to have a run for his money with this woman...

gotta love it.


I have to stick around and get pointers on how she deals with her leo, I already like the way she handles herself, I myself can be a bit of a push over and a convincer type, I naturally fall into this pattern out of habit but I'm slowly breaking that habit, krobe helps me when I fall into that pattern of excess.

Jus like yesterday my leo will was so sweet and then he flipped it on me didn't return a call, he knows this can trigger an insecurity in me and I know he did this purposely, to see if I was going to sweat him and call and keep calling until he picked up, yes he has done this tactic before and it worked until I was hipped by krobe of these control mechanisms, so me tripping isn't going to happen, I'm not even going there...hey baby how you doing, thats all he's getting outta me lol!

I realize when he acts this way its because he's being an emotional rat and he wants me to play mouse...nope not doing it

One thing I can say for women who get into new relationships, if you can not show any sort of emotional insecurity early on with a leo, the better off you will be.

My leo knows my weak points and since I flipped the script on his ass for the last few weeks, he's trying other ways to pick at me...but he's wasting his energy lol!! I'm thoroughly hipped to his game.
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So, after he texted me on sunday morning.I texted him back late in the afternoon on sunday just saying how it was "good that he was feeling better and that I am still occupied tonight and we should make plans to get together soon".

Cut to monday afternoon, no leo in sight, lol. Whatever! I will not chase him. As I am the one worth being caught. Silly little boy. Well, on to other conquests for me I suppose 🙂
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Chocolate,
krobe03,
Yeah girl he HOT! Pretty brown eyes, built tight as- body, charming, intelligent, young and FULL OF GAMES. I got him though. He is about 8 years younger than I. Just what I want. Another 20+ years in bed. LOL! However, he is a rough neck. See he thinks because I have this high paying job, which took some schooling that I am just a book worm with no common sense. Just what I want. See he don't know a NI--- came straight out of the hood. His game is 10 years behind me. OK?
U should see his pretty eyes light up when I have beat him out his own game. He ask me out on a date! I stand him up, not once, not twice a couple times. LOL! He tells me he wants me to B his one and only. He wants to B my man. NO, U can't be my man, U can B number 2, but not my main man. I run. Real far. U expressed feelings? Nope. Don't do that. Cause I am going to take your heart and run with it. LOL! However, I am not going to lie, this young boy is GOOD. If I did not know a man's game, Whew, he would take me for a loot. But guess what? He knows I have a man and he still wants me. He still comes running when I leave him stranded. During his hard times, guess who is going to be there for him? Not me. I will leave all that their to ALL the other women who want him. I will just hold off on the Sex, mind FHIM and then he will desire me. LOL! NO calls, only when HE wants me to, NO texts msgs. No I never really let a man hear my voice. U don't need to hear my voice because the less I talk to you, the less I sweat U, the more U want me. LOL! I am going to let all the other women do my job, hold off on sex, show light weight interest and guess who he keeps running back too? ME, hey baby, what U been doing for the last 3 weeks? LOL! Never lose control, NEVER. Hey, I am not swiming up no streams to get to destination 0. I will do what U ask me to do, however, NO I will not pressure you either. If U want me, come get me.
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krobe,
Hey all the sisters, ladies...I made that last statement, however, as of today I give up on Mr. Pretty eyes because I am not going to be able to do this. I have a good man, Yeah, sometimes I love him, sometimes I love him not, But I ain't letting him go, Because he is all I got. Sometimes he nags me, and complains alot. But I ain't letting him go, NO NO NO. LOL! I am through with Mr. Pretty Brown Eyes. The ladies can have him. U hear me tikki, I am done.
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I am through with Mr. Pretty Brown Eyes. The ladies can have him. U hear me tikki, I am done.

::pats shoulder:: now now...calm down dear

your right, you have a good man, yeah he's a thorn sometimes but I bet you can name 3 good things for every bad thing he does.

Plus mr.cancer was jus a play thing to keep your leo mind occupied and stimulated, nothing serious..right?

trust me...he be back again (:

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Silver Eagle: I am Leo man and I love and adore my scorpio queen. I as Leo am not simple and I respect my scorpio lady 24-7. She is her own person and I never EVER attempt domination of her. I have eyes only for her and these other Leo jerks in question are not real Leo men and need to grow up. I am sick of the false rhetoric about the leo man, I am very complex and my scorpio lady had the right keys to all the doorways leading to my heart. I am a July Leo and that makes a hugh difference. We are an perfect combination in private or public, scorpio female is a natural leader and she knows how to bring in the bread also. This magnificent female is ever present in my life and I can't imagine a day without her. We are really soul mates and I love to spoil her, we are very loyal also we understand the value of true love and friendship. When she talk I listen and that is the key and if guys would give that example a try they would find that the woman will become more in tune to their own needs. The true Leo man really does operate with his mate as (1)one, it has to be that way or yes he will exit the relationship to find that unity elsewhere. This Leo is not into domination and
Control. OK!!!!