Would you/could you have two boyfriends?

Lady Scorps,

Could you have two boyfriends at the same time?

As I read many posts by fellow Scorp girls, I wonder if the best solution might be to have two boyfriends...

Maybe one you were intimate with, and one you cuddled with?

Or, whatever...

Becos the main commonality I see is that we have this fantastic sex drive/emotional drive, and it is wearing for the men we love/fancy...

Would you ever contemplate it? I do. You don't have to get personal, just your ideas, please...

WElllllllll.. .. when it comes down to is to make sure you find a man that can be there for you both emotuonally and sexually,, my mother told me one important tip though.. your either with a man who takes care of you emotionally/sexually or financially

not both

unfortunately, she seems to be right

what i mean is, mr. "perfect" doesn't exist

"Maybe one you were intimate with, and one you cuddled with?"

ROFL

Two boyfriends at the same time... Hrmmm... It is hard enough finding ONE keeper, much less two. Probably not feasible... And truthfully speaking, I don't want two, I want one... The perfect one, which discounts any possible need for two... 🙂

That, and I tend to count my sex drive as part of my emotional drive. No matter how satisfying the sex is, without the emotional connection, I would have to say that my appetite is not truly capable of being satiated.

Though, I can't truthfully say that, on some superficial level, it doesn't sound like a romping good time... 🙂

I don't think I've made my point clear...

It seems that a lot of men Scorp women are interested in keep backing off...

So why not juggle two?

That way you wouldn't be texting one, bugging one, trying to get a commitment from one...cos you would have boyfriend #2 to project your passionate fantasies on...

And boyfriend one could have more space to decide about you...

"Is this a joke"

No.

Becos why be loyal to someone who is holding out on you?

Feminist Theory and Female Sexuality

According to modern feminist theory polyandry is considered by society at large as a relatively taboo subject due to frequent social double standards (sexism) which see female sexuality as inherently inferior to, or less normal than, male sexuality.

According to this viewpoint, much of Western thought and literature has focused on finding cause for this behavior that ignores the primary function of female desire. These critics point out that this is articulated most clearly in Victorian morality which inspired Freud's Psychoanalysis which dismisses female desire as a mental health problem. While historical record of formal polyandry is not common, this is also considered to be a circumstance of marriage which is often acknowledged to be patriarchal and thus more suited to polygyny.

Judith Butler and H?l?ne Cixous are two feminist cultural theorists whose works have examined female sexuality in regards to the subject of polyandry. They express the idea that polyandry may exist in different forms than what we recognise through simple comparison to polygyny.

No Labels, therefore no "boyfriends"...I like to think of them as "potentials"...

"I certainly hope no one I ever date thinks like this.'

Dont date a scorp then.

1110% agree with Mr. Negative

loyaty + security + sucess in life (regarding love, good job, self esteem)

"we have different definitions of boyfriend"

Thanks for clarifying...

"I certainly hope noone I ever date thinks like this"

But why not? My point is, unless the ring is on your finger, you have no commitment to the guy. And I think that we Scorps take loyalty to an extreme...

LeoScorp rising, I don't know what you mean by your formula for success...I have an excellent job, great kids, and great self esteem. I simply mean that if your man friend is not really committing, and you don't know when or if it will ever happen, why not get another man friend?

EGirl is talking more on Gemini terms...or Sag ?

Eagel Girl, answer this question for me only this once :

How long have you known him, and Are you ready for marriage with this guy.

Sometimes the things you want aren't things you REALLY need.

Interesting to see how it is mainly men who are so shocked by my suggestion...

If you will carefully scrutinize my first post, you'll notice that I only suggested having two boyfriends as an option...I didn't say that this is something I am actually involved in...or support.

LOL

The women have, in the main, wisely decided not to respond to this topic.

if it makes you feel better Eagle Girl I unconciously was IN a situation like that before.. of course i wish not to go into details. I loved both of them, there were a lot of tears when i had to let one of them go, but he has returned :o

wrongo

..and i have chosen only one and refuse to see the other any more..just chatting though email.. hey i never said i wa a PRUDE, or WISE or never RECKLESS

To be honest, Branh, I think it might be something I could handle...

When my ex talked about wanting to be with another woman, I almost wished he would go and do it...and stop nagging me about it.

wasn' talking to you either......

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"To be honest, Branh, I think it might be something I could handle..."

I don't know, judging from your posts I doubt you'd be able to outwit a drunk six-year-old, let alone two grown men...

he actually said he wanted to be with other women?

I almost wish I hadn't started this thread...so many people appear to be offended.

On the other hand, Branh, please don't start with your "ethics and decency" crap. It appears you have had sex before marriage which was taboo when I was growing up....and I was offended at the thread in which you "rated" the body parts of a lot of female actresses. You contribute just as much to the problem as anyone else

LeoScorp Rising,

Like you, I have a sense of privacy...

What I've said, I have said

On the other hand, Branh, please don't start with your "ethics and decency" crap. It appears you have had sex before marriage which was taboo when I was growing up....and I was offended at the thread in which you "rated" the body parts of a lot of female actresses. You contribute just as much to the problem as anyone else

well FU**ING said

well then, it's time you died on the cross isn't it

"outwit a drunken six year old"

Yama,

I outwit a four and a five-year-old, day in and day out, by myself.

You are an outspoken little piss-artist who doesn't know what the F** strength is. I do, because I live it everyday.

"I outwit a four and a five-year-old, day in and day out, by myself."

Notice I wrote "six-year-old".

Oh, and since intelligence is somewhat genetic, I don't think it's very impressive outwitting any of your stock.

"You are an outspoken little piss-artist who doesn't know what the F** strength is. I do, because I live it everyday."

Do you live in Iraq? In the Congo? Do you struggle for every meal? Fight and risk death?

FYI, I have never had two boyfriends. geez I was just trying to start a discussion.

it seems
you better
start eating
your own words because
i never said anything about
treating people poorly

every good discussion will always have powerful, and passionate debates

I believe a piss-artist is someone who paints pictures with what he produces from his willie.

I just wrote that because Yama attacks me everytime I post on dxp. I'm going to ignore him now.

"I just wrote that because Yama attacks me everytime I post on dxp. I'm going to ignore him now."

Every time? This is the second time, you fuckwit.

It is not the second time, you double wit...

there was another thread in which you were rude to me, I've forgotten it now...it's late and I'm tired. Get off my back and maybe I'll forgive you...

"It is not the second time, you double wit...

there was another thread in which you were rude to me, I've forgotten it now...it's late and I'm tired. Get off my back and maybe I'll forgive you..."

Well, good job ignoring me.

I'm not "on your back", the last thread in which I "attacked" you, I quoted a blog calling you indirectly a "woo-woo". A good way to get me off of your proverbial back is to start posting more thoughtfully.

"Guess he does that to every one..i posted something similar few days back"

Only to idiots, cap, only to idiots.

"People tend to recognise there own types well but seems you are not so good at it YAMA."

"There"? This is just plain sad.

2!!!..I reckon I can have 6

😛

One for each personality type ya know...

God wouldn't be able to help the man that wanted to have "2 girlfriends" with me.. no mercy! (warning, this is not a joke)

Cap seeing as theres only 7 days in a week..A woman needs her own time too..ya know..And yes your right, there are many masks...Can't be greedy now can I

😛

::Hugs cap::

LOL... Damn, girl... I think I need to move to the UK and hang with you...

Yes you must..the more the merrier..LOL

Alcheme..anything to do with alchemy? if so, I love you already!...Are you Scorpio?

"Yes you must..the more the merrier..LOL

Alcheme..anything to do with alchemy? if so, I love you already!...Are you Scorpio?"

I have notice quite a bit of UK people on the forum... I don't know how well a Southern lass might fair in the UK, though... Currently, contemplating Vancouver...

Alcheme... I kind of wanted "me-damnit-it" or "none-of-your-damn-business", but decided against them. Kind of got a thing with alchemy (yeah, Scorpio), so Alche-me (though I decided against the "-"). I am creatively inept, so that is the best I could come up with on an off day...

"Cap seeing as theres only 7 days in a week.."

Please block Sunday for me. We will have the whole day to be productive.

"We will have the whole day to be productive."

reproductive...

Alchemy is associated with Scorps..so well done for picking out a cool username..I have a thing for it too...Oh by the way, have you read the book The Alchemist? Damn I like that book...

Gaurav: Your my Monday morning energy boost..start the week as you mean to go on..and on.....and onnnnnnnnnnn..

😛

"Gaurav: Your my Monday morning energy boost..start the week as you mean to go on..and on.....and onnnnnnnnnnn..
"

hehe ...I dont appear for Duracell.

But Yeah...I like the business to be perpetual 😛