Scorpio Female in Love - For Dyrst...

The Scorpio Female

Whether striking or self-effacing, plain or ravishingly beautiful, the one adjective which best suits a Scorpio woman is seductive.

To the Scorpio woman sex is as natural as breathing. It's a psychology deeply rooted in her being. Her sexuality permeates the atmosphere around her and accounts for a great deal of her attachments.

Scorpio women love men or they need men or they hate men because they love them and they need them. It's all part of the same story. With many Scorpio women the story can become very complicated.

When a Scorpio woman is emotionally involved, nothing is simple and a great deal can become convoluted overnight. By nature, the Scorpio woman is shrewd and intuitive. However, once she has been in the bedroom too long, her brain does not serve her well.

Essentially, Scorpio women are all or nothing in their emotional response and have a tendency to become galvanized by powerful attractions that are highly problematic. The man may be married, emotionally immature, insensitive to significant subtleties or downright egotistical and selfish. Yet in this Scorpionic mind an invisible string connects and its fibers are sex.

Scorpio women have an emotional memory in their bodies which can haunt them for days and even months. The power of a powerful sensual attraction stays in the cells and speaks through ripples of desire and longing. The desire nature is immensely strong in this woman, but its origin is deeply psychosexual and not the sort of shallow fascination with a handsome face.

There is usually mystery, power and great sensual appeal underlying the scorpio woman's magnetic attraction. Often to friends the real mystery lies in what she sees in him. Nonetheless, to the Scorpio woman's mind, the je ne sais quoi is all-consuming.

It is not terribly uncommon to see an awesomely attractively woman in this sign attached to a man who should not be let out in public. However, usually the couple does not go out in public. Quite often he doesn't even bother to call. The fact that they get together most likely has to do with her patience, positive thinking and exclusive obsessive-compulsive preoccupation. When a Scorpio woman is obsessed, she is inclined to give all - reason, emotion, energy, inventiveness -to receive less in return. In her mind, she is being fulfilled to the depths of her body's intelligence.

To the Scorpio woman this sort of connection breathes of myth and eternity.

Through the mystery of her own body she is able to become another person - a person perhaps no one else knows, but nevertheless, a person she most wants to be. Perhaps it is a wanton woman or an adored damsel or a female who is fed by the power of an imagined protector. The Scorpio woman can play it out within the confines of her bedroom - with or without the knowledge or consent of her lover. Through her response, a subterranean reality evolves that becomes increasingly involving. The power of sex, the power of her lover in the moment, the power of her own consuming sensuality is psychosexual. Whatever or whomever the lover may be in reality, when there is great sexual passion he takes on the identity of it in her mind. Therefore, it is the power of her own response which arouses and transports her. Her passionate lover is a psychological projection, not a person, but he is a powerful projection nonetheless.

A Scorpio woman caught up in a passionate projection is a person who can't be reasoned with under any circumstances. This sort of passion is a druglike and addictive experience, simultaneously enhancing surrounding sensual stimuli and reducing a reasonable, practical, logical mode of thinking. The power and problems of the real world recede while the internal pull of the projection takes over and can take on a life of its own.

Even more for the Scorpio woman than for the man, passion, when evoked, is an enormous pull. It can become a total immersion into a netherworld that is primordial in nature, feeling powerless in the face of rational choice. The core of her identity becomes an obsessive-compulsive thrust which can have a wearing effect with time.

There are many obsessive Scorpio women who fail to learn and therefore, benefit from the lessons of their passions. In the vein of fixed water, they repeat the essence of their experiences and cling to emotional behavior patterns that are self-defeating.

The ego drive - which can include the desire to seduce and conquer - can be very strong in the Scorpio female. This is a sign that is particularly vulnerable to the presentation and trappings of power. There is often a sense of exaltation that comes from tasting power firsthand and through significant others. At times power can become a priority over more compassionate considerations. The drive toward it can become a compulsion that diminishes personal happiness in time.

In the Scorpio woman there is either a need for power and domina

dominance or a need to attach to a man of power - and sometimes both. The late Princess Grace of Monaco was a Scorpio, and in her lifetime, achieved great worldly power - but at a cost of considerable personal unhappiness. The struggle for power can be such a passion in the Scorpio woman's personality that it dominates and dictates the tone and guidelines of every relationship. When so driven, Scorpio women can be consuming - to both themselves and others. Yet at the same time, they cannot simply pull the plug on their emotions. They must live through them. They must allow their emotions, drives, compulsions and complexes to take them somewhere - to a place within of insight, clarity, wisdom and compassion. In short, the Scorpio woman must learn how to live with herself successfully before she is able to live with anyone else. This is a test of true power.

The inner world of the Scorpio woman is a vast, deep, often adumbrated terrain. Emotions lurk behind every turn. Some ignite under the full force of the will, and some never really surface and are felt as dark downswings of moods. It is not easy living as a Scorpio woman. Likewise, it is not that easy loving. This intense nature is strongly expressed in its attachments. Such intense attachments often seem doomed from the start by their very intensity.

Scorpio can be a cold, ruthless sign when seeking control. When a Scorpio woman is betrayed, or sometimes ignored, a slow, burning ferocity is born that can be merciless. This need for control can be so deep within the personality that she may avoid relationships altogether. Although Scorpio is commonly considered the sign of sex, it is not uncommon to see Scorpio women who completely withdraw from sexual relationships until they feel a deeper sense of control. To reiterate, sex to a Scorpio is deeply psychological. It is always the attitude about themselves in relation to the partner which constitutes the strength of the passion. Unlike the beauty-conscious Libra, a Scorpio woman can become fatally attracted to someone who, by society's standards, might be considered unattractive. However, something in the psyche must feel the "switch go on" or else the moment will not amount to much. When not emotionally involved, a Scorpio woman can treat a man as if he died but doesn't yet know it. That mysterious, elusive pull away from reason must put them in a place of silent wonder. When properly in love, Scorpio dies, goes to heaven and is reborn.

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Especially for Scorpio women with their enormous emotional intensity, love can be a vast learning experience which can be transformative and lead to great personal and spiritual power. It is the power of being able to hear with the heart and see through the eyes of wisdom. The Scorpio woman who has gone through many evolutionary stages, who has encountered herself along the way in many guises - some pretty, some unpleasant, some hopeful and inspiring -will eventually be able to claim her richness and become a vast source of power for herself and others.

Power evolves through the Scorpio woman who becomes aware of the true value of love. In her psyche, power and love will both evoke their own myth and mystery. The path it will take will be through her own uniqueness. For the Scorpio woman, this is a path of infinite possibility fueled by her compassion and capacity to learn from day to day. The reward for the journey is a constantly renewing inner self, steadily emerging from the darkness to cast its own light through love, a light that quietly leads the way.

SO SIGMUND FREUD....ANALYSIS THIS!!!!!!!

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I'M DYING TO KNOW SOMETHING FORM SCORPIO MEN:. . . . . . .


Has any scorpio men in this forum EVER dated a female LEO, and if so.. WHAT IS YOUR TAKE IN THE BEDROOM and in LOVE with them—??

LOL @ DY..you do crack me up with your analysis..

No I haven't picked him up from the airport..I just said to him "what did your last slave die off"..LOL..

LeoScorpioRising..I don't know if there are any..I have no idea..but I've dated a Leo man..Hmm..it died in the end..there was nothing there anymore..Is there trouble on the horizon or something?

LOL..actually he's not back yet..he comes back on 27th...But I am still not going to the airport..

It is true. I just figured out that I project how I want men to treat me onto them. I guess that's one of the reasons I am the best lover, I treat them as I would want them to treat me. I have realizd that the man for me , the true man for me is, one who I do not project my wanted desires onto. One who doesn't consume me completetly. One who I love indvidually , with no strings attached. It is also said that women born under the scorpio sign usally get with men that are equipped to shine their high heels. Due ti them associationing sex with love, they can some times [ut men in a GOD like position , which may be to conmsummming for the Scorpion, therefore they are usually caught in beneath them situations. (My Interpretation) It is also said that in order to reach and understand a scorpio, one must use logic , rationality, and compassionate understanding. Women in the sign must truelyb take out the times for themselves and learn who they are and what they want.

It is true. I just figured out that I project how I want men to treat me onto them. I guess that's one of the reasons I am the best lover, I treat them as I would want them to treat me. I have realizd that the man for me , the true man for me is, one who I do not project my wanted desires onto. One who doesn't consume me completetly. One who I love indvidually and freely, with no strings attached. It is also said that women born under the scorpio sign usally get with men that are equipped to shine their high heels. Due to them associationing sex with love, they can sometimes put men in a GOD like position , which may be to conmsummming for the Scorpion, therefore they are usually caught in beneath them situations. (My Interpretation) It is also said that in order to reach and understand a scorpion, one must use logic , rationality, and compassionate understanding. Women in the sign must truely take out the time for themselves and learn who they are and what they want. I personally become very obssessed and consummed , something I am working on through the grace of GOD!

"the one adjective which best suits a Scorpio woman is seductive.

- an emotional memory in their bodies which can haunt them for days and even months. The attraction stays in the cells and speaks through ripples of desire and longing...and not the sort of shallow fascination with a handsome face.

Quite often he doesn't even bother to call. The fact that they get together most likely has to do with her patience, positive thinking and exclusive obsessive-compulsive preoccupation.

It is not easy living as a Scorpio woman. Likewise, it is not that easy loving.


a Scorpio woman can become fatally attracted to someone who, by society's standards, might be considered unattractive"



My God !!! MM where the hell did you get this from — SO so so true ......Please do tell me . I want to know about HIM ....😉

But HE is the sexiest mysterious gentle but firm - with an irascible temper kept almost under control by his sheer will power which is the most enormous - the only complete man I have ever come across..😉

Yeah I want to know about him too..but it was on this website called Geocities..which doesn't exist anymore apparantly.

This really hit home and bought a tear to my eye..so that means its true..

LOL @ Dy..

::rolls eyes::

"...the only complete man I have ever come across..."

Uh, then, you've never met the Ol' Dawg!


Dear Dy, you are one of the most sexy men here in DXP. I love reading your posts....full of PASSION...the only virgo male who seems to be a total match for a scorp female.

But my man Oh god, how can I make anyone understand it ?

I understand you Topazwoman..You don't need to say anything...

DY: l"better keep Missy away from him; so, no sweetie, you can't come visit me at the farm!}"

Nooooooooooooo...How dare you describe in him such vivid detail then expect me to stay away..you tease you...

::pout::

Scorps will have many affairs and many marriages before they settle..(but thats not all scorps) It may seem as though they will never settle..Its hard to pin one down..but when you do..oh boy!..your in for a crazy life..Your brother must have some other aspect in his chart..I couldn't stand the thought of my kids having different fathers..I would be mortified...I would have no self-respect left..I am very traditional in that respect..I am extremely hot on discipline and morals.

Your Debs sounds nice..I like her already..
LOL @ Whore hopper..Well at least he did the decent thing of marrying them and children are not out of wedlock..

"He's one of those guys that just exudes sex from every pore - not his fault - he doesn't have to work at it..."

You know thats one thing about being a Scorp..you can be pig ugly, but its that sexual magnetism that traps these poor souls like moths to flame..its so difficult to explain..Its just that smirk, how you carry yourself, the look, the laugh..everything gets noticed..And your right, your brother probably does nothing, doesn't even notice he's having this effect on peeps..but he is..Its so true..

My boss is Virgo..and he's always analysing me...its great though, we click on a mental level..at times I finish his sentences for him and nobody in the office will know what the hell us two are blithering on about..we'll just look at each other and burst out laughing..as in "we have the upper hand"..

"He's not reckless, just immature" - sounds like my scorp...Its irritating but you can't help but laugh at it sometimes..you'd think he was still 16 the way he carries on sometimes..Say if he comes over to my place..after dinner..he will pull up the cushion to cover his face..so only the eyes are showing..and he will say "can I have some ice-cream please"..then the cushion gets lowered and pouting starts...I am like..oh grow up moron!..then I get the "your sooooo mean...you bitter, twisted old spinister"..usually at this point, I am cracking up cos the look on his face has gone from childlike to Grrrrrrrrrr...LOL..

LOL @ Dy..but why?!...

"ScorpGuy farts, and you smell Tea Roses!" - bloody nora!..I wouldn't go that far..Its just that old connection..but he has a LOT of work to do yet..believe you me..It will only take one action to completely put me off him for good..don't know what that will be or when..but it can happen..I have extremely low tolerance levels..

As for the Virguy..I have only had msn conversations with him and a few phone ones..we have yet to meet in person and have a proper conversation..but he's very keen on "moving things forward"...his words..

"And, I mean it!"...HAHAHAHA...ok we'll see..you know she can twist your arm...oh by the way how many kids have you both got..1 each?

MissMorals...U make it sound so easy. Kool
BTW ...howz life ?

Hey Guru...I make what look easy?
Yeah lifes ok I guess..could be better..you know the drill..

Hows Aberdeen? cold?

No No..not met him yet..he was introduced to me via a friend..and we only exchangd phone numbers and msn id's...he works really hard so barely comes online but does make extra effort to come online..he's very serious though..knows what he wants, where he wants to be, what he needs in order to get there etc..very focused and determined..I admire him..he text me every day without fail, even if it was just to say hi hows your day...and then bless him, he built up the courage to phone me..said he never phones chicks before meeting them in person but he loves talking to me..and theres just something about me..LOL..

::rolls eyes::

Never mind ...For U most of the things are easy 😉
Hmmm...yeah it can be hectic ..and it can only get worse !...U a database analyst ?

Aberdeen is coldddddddddddddddddddddddddd. But am loving it.

Database analyst? well yeah I deal with some databases but no..
Aberdeen sounds fab...how long you there for?

For a month as things stand....May get extended beyond ...but then it wud be london.
Aberdeen is really peaceful....beautiful. How are things in london ?

Hmmmm....it rained last night ...but itz terrific !

London is cold and London I guess..miserable bastards everywhere..Train strikes etc at the moment in the pipeline..

I guess your enjoying Aberdeen. Wow a month..not bad..Enjoy!

Me retiring to bed..early start..

Nighty night peeps