TxOgal
@TxOgal
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Leo men and bruised egos ...
Posted by LeoAquaRulerhow do u revive that ego?
When I feel like my ego is getting bruised on a constant basis then that calls for a time for Leo to grow his Maine perk up and revive that ego.
Posted by TxOgalDid you fully invalidate him by telling him he
surely noone likes to hurt the other in a relationship... but seriously Leos.. the tinniest action or inaction can bruise your ego?
Dont you think you are overreacting sometimes? (we all do..but feel free to drop in your confessions) :p
And is there anything that can bring you back to your senses and see the whole picture?
No offense to anyone.... Taureans and Leos are stubborn creatures... we can only learn I guess
was overreacting?
Posted by MontgomeryNo.. I was saying that bec. in a situation where both of us are mad at eachother, I did not text him (like did not initiate any texts in the morning) he got mad at me for that. This is an example.. there are similar things that tick him and make him think I am ignoring, while I never ignored him from the moment I knew him.Posted by TxOgalDid you fully invalidate him by telling him he
surely noone likes to hurt the other in a relationship... but seriously Leos.. the tinniest action or inaction can bruise your ego?
Dont you think you are overreacting sometimes? (we all do..but feel free to drop in your confessions) :p
And is there anything that can bring you back to your senses and see the whole picture?
No offense to anyone.... Taureans and Leos are stubborn creatures... we can only learn I guess
was overreacting?
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Posted by GreyWiz😆
This makes me wonder why women are attracted to leo men in the first place.
stubborn, arrogant, sensitive.
I imagine it must be exhuasting and such a turn off to date leo men. Perhaps all leo males will be alone forever.
There are 11 other men luckily for all you ladies. I hope everything works out well for you
Incredibly i still like being a leo despite all this........
*shrugs*
But yeah... I can't.
Everyday this leo proves to me how too much ego can truly blind you ...
You're a glutton for punishment, aren't you?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamwhy are you always after things i said? ... a little space pls? need to breathe thank you
You're a glutton for punishment, aren't you?
My cap and I have both leo asc. Big egos. We r easily hurt buz we rarely clash because we value respect a loooot. Thankfully. But with others I have little patience for their disrespectfulness as they rarely value it as much as I do.
Posted by AquaNextDoorofcourse we all should be impatient with any disrespect... but im talking about the tinniest things.... like if i missed his call and didnt call back "rightaway" within less than an hour... he'd lash out at me for it cos he thought i ignored his call (eventhough i called back but his network was down) ... he didnt give the benefit of the doubt in so many situations ...
My cap and I have both leo asc. Big egos. We r easily hurt buz we rarely clash because we value respect a loooot. Thankfully. But with others I have little patience for their disrespectfulness as they rarely value it as much as I do.
A pissy mood is not a "bruised ego". Just bc he's a Leo.....
That's making it easy for yourself instead of looking at the actual issues between the two of you.
That's making it easy for yourself instead of looking at the actual issues between the two of you.
Posted by Montgomerytheres a big difference between ego n charisma.... lol im not talking about charismaPosted by GreyWizIt's the charisma... ^^
*wink*
No one is exempt 😛click to expand
Posted by enfant_terribleyeah you go attacking me for saying what you dont like tohear... im not making it easy for myself.. hes taking the easier way to be pissed off instead of solving any issues between us (which by the way i confronted him by several times...) some ppl just like to play victims instead of owning up to their mistakes...
A pissy mood is not a "bruised ego". Just bc he's a Leo.....
That's making it easy for yourself instead of looking at the actual issues between the two of you.
Posted by TxOgalThey come back to their senses in their own time. It just depends. It usually doesn't take too long though. There has to be some self reflection of course, but you also have to admit where you were wrong. An apology goes a long way.
surely noone likes to hurt the other in a relationship... but seriously Leos.. the tinniest action or inaction can bruise your ego?
Dont you think you are overreacting sometimes? (we all do..but feel free to drop in your confessions) :p
And is there anything that can bring you back to your senses and see the whole picture?
No offense to anyone.... Taureans and Leos are stubborn creatures... we can only learn I guess
Posted by gemguyaz34lol yeh ... i know how i might be wrong for being pushy to feel appreciated (or this is how he sees it) .. but u dont know the whole story anyway...obviously both of us cant see the other's feelings or thoughts... its not working out noPosted by TxOgalThey come back to their senses in their own time. It just depends. It usually doesn't take too long though. There has to be some self reflection of course, but you also have to admit where you were wrong. An apology goes a long way.
surely noone likes to hurt the other in a relationship... but seriously Leos.. the tinniest action or inaction can bruise your ego?
Dont you think you are overreacting sometimes? (we all do..but feel free to drop in your confessions) :p
And is there anything that can bring you back to your senses and see the whole picture?
No offense to anyone.... Taureans and Leos are stubborn creatures... we can only learn I guessclick to expand
Posted by TxOgalThere are no mistakes. His actions speak volumes. Your relationship has reached its expiration date. Chances are neither one of you wants to acknowledge that yet..Posted by enfant_terribleyeah you go attacking me for saying what you dont like tohear... im not making it easy for myself.. hes taking the easier way to be pissed off instead of solving any issues between us (which by the way i confronted him by several times...) some ppl just like to play victims instead of owning up to their mistakes...
A pissy mood is not a "bruised ego". Just bc he's a Leo.....
That's making it easy for yourself instead of looking at the actual issues between the two of you.
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Posted by Impulsvoh.. thats a very very long story.... but ive posted several threads about him before.... i do understand every word you said and i do consider all this until this moment... but i just realize that he just cant see how hes done me wrong... n i know my only fault is feeling unappreciated... the consequences is me asking for a little break... he doesnt see my hurt.. he only sees that i was mean for asking for a break which he thinks caused a distance...by the way i still called him everyday to check on him while he was sick..soit wasnt really a break... he just doesnt see my side of the story n i dont think ge ever will....
Why were u both mad was it something he feel u did or he did? If he thinks ur in the wrong hell expect u to reach out n u haven't means u have own up to it.
But like I said who know what the original issue is. N why does he keep thinking ur ignoring him? Where does that come from n how is he getting triggered. Have u been inconsistent?
Have u asked him why he feels he's ignored when u are not?. Maybe he doesn't understand Taurus detached nature, maybe it's triggered by an ex relationship. It not a normal Leo thing.
Brings those questions up
Instead of confronting him have a talk n work toward the real issues.
about ignoring...iknow he hates being ignored but i never ignored him... he told me a situation before whn his friend ignored him.. so i knew since then that if we ever get into trouble i wont ignore him.. cause it will only drive him mad.. maybe he thinks i was ignoring him bec. deep down he knows im unhappy with him..so maybe i could give him the cold shoulder... which isnt true
Posted by GreyWizhe sent me a text saying "you're losing me" .. im breaking up tonight...im just with family now so whn i go home
so how long is this going to go on before you see the light?
He is a doctor. i am sure that makes things worse.
@Impulsv .. i know what you mean.. but the break was my last resort... i really tried to talk with him about this calmly.. n the last time i told him.. this will make me distant if he didnt do anything to show me but he continued to act like theres nothing wrong n i continued to feel that my feelings dont matter.. i played it cool for a week after that n then i talked to him again.. which is when we had a heated argument.. n i told him we got to calm down.. i showed all my cards already as calmly as i could.. i told him its easy to fix n even suggested wht he can do ... i really never been so patientbwith anyone .. he still continued his own way ..n now it seems to me hes playing victim...but he doesnt know that this will backfire
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Dont you think you are overreacting sometimes? (we all do..but feel free to drop in your confessions) :p
And is there anything that can bring you back to your senses and see the whole picture?
No offense to anyone.... Taureans and Leos are stubborn creatures... we can only learn I guess