yazlan
@yazlan
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Leo woman comes back to you? Ever?
Well, unfortunately, based on the topic you created in ye olde Cancer forum...
looks like your long distance friend (cancer) had some good reasons for questioning you so closely all the time about your Ex and used her intuition correctly...
No wonder she's withdrawn and angry.
This post seems to imply you do indeed still have some unresolved feelings with the Leo.
Sending one girl birthday flowers, whilst living in the emotional past with another -is bound to get messy 😢
looks like your long distance friend (cancer) had some good reasons for questioning you so closely all the time about your Ex and used her intuition correctly...
No wonder she's withdrawn and angry.
This post seems to imply you do indeed still have some unresolved feelings with the Leo.
Sending one girl birthday flowers, whilst living in the emotional past with another -is bound to get messy 😢
I am aware of what you are saying. The question here is not about Cancer and I am not going to get into a relationship with her or anyone else until I sort myself out. It will take me a few months but I'm not in a rush. She is a dear friend and has done a lot for me so that's probably one of the reasons why I sent her flowers. I was not expecting her to get romantically involved with me just after receiving the flowers. We need to know each other more.
Coming back to my question about Leo, I really want to know how Leo mind works. I have never known another Leo in my life except my ex, so that's why I asked.
Coming back to my question about Leo, I really want to know how Leo mind works. I have never known another Leo in my life except my ex, so that's why I asked.
Secondly, it was not Cancer's intuition mainly but I told her everything there was to know (we are friends for many years now). She asks questions about Leo and I truthfully answer her. She makes her judgments based on facts I told her rather than her intuition.
If she's married now then she's moved on. At least physically, which is a big deal to Leo. She may still have feelings, but if she committed to another man, then that's her man. Leo doesn't take commitment lightly.
Posted by sultrykittyagreeeee +83932892
If she's married now then she's moved on. At least physically, which is a big deal to Leo. She may still have feelings, but if she committed to another man, then that's her man. Leo doesn't take commitment lightly.
if she is married its over completely, the only time she MAY come around is if she gets a divorce but she will never cheat
Let me give you a background on this.
We were in a relationship for about 7 years. We respected, loved and adored each other to bits. As I said in another discussion that I'm very stable emotionally and she had a big heart, so never had a real relationship threatening fight. We understood each other quite well and communicated our feelings openly. In her culture, her family had to approve the person she's going to marry. As an outsider, I was rejected vehemently (her society is still very ethnic and tribal in nature). We fought for 7 years, it was more trouble for her than me. Finally, she was forced to marry another man (against her will) she had never met in her life. I'm better than that man in every respect; socially, financially and morally. So it was not a breakup but we were pulled apart.
I asked her before her marriage if she wants to fights but she was too exhausted. She gave in to her circumstances. She is a strong girl but was very broken. Now the man she's married to, keeps a check on everything; her phone, emails, facebook etc. We are not really in touch but she calls me sometimes because she's worried about me. She said a few times that that's her (miserable) life now and she can't escape it. I think that's what she feels for now. She's a Leo and I think she'll overcome her circumstances. I doubt she'll ever do something that will threaten the status quo, unless something happens. She once said she may come back to me if she got a chance.
My question is, if she's free from her circumstances, do you think she'll come to back? Regardless of what she says at the moment. I don't think she's in a position to make a statement at the moment.
We were in a relationship for about 7 years. We respected, loved and adored each other to bits. As I said in another discussion that I'm very stable emotionally and she had a big heart, so never had a real relationship threatening fight. We understood each other quite well and communicated our feelings openly. In her culture, her family had to approve the person she's going to marry. As an outsider, I was rejected vehemently (her society is still very ethnic and tribal in nature). We fought for 7 years, it was more trouble for her than me. Finally, she was forced to marry another man (against her will) she had never met in her life. I'm better than that man in every respect; socially, financially and morally. So it was not a breakup but we were pulled apart.
I asked her before her marriage if she wants to fights but she was too exhausted. She gave in to her circumstances. She is a strong girl but was very broken. Now the man she's married to, keeps a check on everything; her phone, emails, facebook etc. We are not really in touch but she calls me sometimes because she's worried about me. She said a few times that that's her (miserable) life now and she can't escape it. I think that's what she feels for now. She's a Leo and I think she'll overcome her circumstances. I doubt she'll ever do something that will threaten the status quo, unless something happens. She once said she may come back to me if she got a chance.
My question is, if she's free from her circumstances, do you think she'll come to back? Regardless of what she says at the moment. I don't think she's in a position to make a statement at the moment.
Leo is the living representation of pride. It takes a lot to return to an ex.
Hmm...
Depends on how she regards her husband and the marriage.
Why didn't you two elope?
Depends on how she regards her husband and the marriage.
Why didn't you two elope?
@MoonshineLeo Read the background. Do you think she will contemplate a divorce at some point in time? Would it matter to her where do I stand in my life at that time? What if I'm in a relationship, will she stay away?
@dontgetmewrong I actually never got dumped. I've dated many fine girls but if it does not work out, I move on. I'm still on good terms with almost all of them. The Leo was the love of my life though and it was not a natural breakup.
@dontgetmewrong I actually never got dumped. I've dated many fine girls but if it does not work out, I move on. I'm still on good terms with almost all of them. The Leo was the love of my life though and it was not a natural breakup.
@037 Elope? It was never an option for both of us. I don't agree with the idea and she values her honor over anything else (even love). She actually trusted her family too much and never expected them to do to her what they did. That was her undoing.
if i was with ssomeone for 7 years and we couldnt be together because of other reasons and i still loved him i would still call him to check up on him and make sure he is doing okay. That is where our heart is, but she is thinking logically not emotionally and she knows she cant just get up and leave like she would like, if and thats big IF she does get a divorce i would not doubt that she will come back to you but if i were u i would not depend on it because you shouldnt expect anything from her for your own sake
Hmm, a different set of circumstances. Sounds like star crossed love to me. Bad for both of you. How does her culture view divorce? Because if it's not allowed except for abuse/neglect, it may not matter how either of you feels.
I'm sorry for your situation. If her husband allows you to be her friend, then be that but move on if you can. If he doesn't allow it, you continuing to maintain contact could be very bad for her.
This situation may be beyond either of you to fix, even if there is love between you. I hope that it ends well for you, but you can't waste your life waiting. If somehow many years down the road you two have the chance to live the rest of your lives together, that would be wonderful, but life isn't a romance novwl and it would be best to approach this with open eyes.
I'm sorry for your situation. If her husband allows you to be her friend, then be that but move on if you can. If he doesn't allow it, you continuing to maintain contact could be very bad for her.
This situation may be beyond either of you to fix, even if there is love between you. I hope that it ends well for you, but you can't waste your life waiting. If somehow many years down the road you two have the chance to live the rest of your lives together, that would be wonderful, but life isn't a romance novwl and it would be best to approach this with open eyes.
Posted by yazlanNo, it was your undoing. You are here today because you could not secure a marriage for a woman you love.
@037 Elope? It was never an option for both of us. I don't agree with the idea and she values her honor over anything else (even love). She actually trusted her family too much and never expected them to do to her what they did. That was her undoing.
If your society and family mean more than your love, why are you hoping for her to divorce her husband and come to you? Who is to say her family won't marry her off to another man?
You should have made moves to secure your love. Since you left it in the hands of her family, you have lost.
If she has a Virgo mercury, then she's probably thinking like I am. In time, she will consider you too weak and eventually move on whether or not you are available.
If I may ask:
What did you think her family would eventually do? Seven years with a man they don't approve of seems like a long time for some resolution to occur.
How old are you guys, again? I'm just wondering.
What did you think her family would eventually do? Seven years with a man they don't approve of seems like a long time for some resolution to occur.
How old are you guys, again? I'm just wondering.
Posted by 037I agree with this as well, I am Leo with Virgo mercury. It would be best for Yazlan to either emotionally disconnect and just be her friend (if possible), or just move on. If something presents itself in the future and it was meant to be, then she will come back. If he pines away for her and she knows it, even if she eventually divorces she will not consider him strong enough for her.
If she has a Virgo mercury, then she's probably thinking like I am. In time, she will consider you too weak and eventually move on whether or not you are available.
Sultrykitty,
Its sad, really. He let his caution bring him to this - unraveled. Talk about honor is all good and nice, but chances are the Leo wanted to live an adventure -like we all do.
I won't be shocked if she didn't protest enough anymore to her family's choice of another man to marry. A girl can only wait so long for a man to be a man.
Its sad, really. He let his caution bring him to this - unraveled. Talk about honor is all good and nice, but chances are the Leo wanted to live an adventure -like we all do.
I won't be shocked if she didn't protest enough anymore to her family's choice of another man to marry. A girl can only wait so long for a man to be a man.
It is sad. I understand his behavior, especially considering the cultural ramifications. Unless they were willing to leave the country and never contact their families (or at least not for a very long time), this could never work. He might have done better by her cutting it off long before this. I would be devastated if I found myself in this situation (on either side). But the likely reality is that it's over and he needs to accept it, and help her to do that as well.
@sultrykitty I have come to the same conclusion. I completely agree with you.
@037 I (and my family) tried to convince her family for 3 years. It's a cultural thing for them so they did not, specially when it's a daughter. I'm 31 and she's 28. We are both quite mature actually. She has Leo Mercury.
I know she'll ask me to get married after some time, just not now because she would be thinking she'd hurt me. I'm a very practical person too.
@037 I (and my family) tried to convince her family for 3 years. It's a cultural thing for them so they did not, specially when it's a daughter. I'm 31 and she's 28. We are both quite mature actually. She has Leo Mercury.
I know she'll ask me to get married after some time, just not now because she would be thinking she'd hurt me. I'm a very practical person too.
I wish you the best. Sometimes life (and love) sucks. Take care and never regret. :-)
Posted by 037I think you are jumping to conclusion without knowing the details. Yes, there was caution but the it was her decision. Eloping was not on cards as she never expected this to happen to her. I think you are generalizing here that all Leo's love adventure; life's decisions are not an adventure. There is more than one aspect that contributes to one's personality, including culture and upbringing. I wouldn't have stopped at anything and she actually had to beg me to not pursue it anymore for her honor's sake. I don't share her society's ideals of honor but I had to respect her decision. She had to face the brunt, not me.
Sultrykitty,
Its sad, really. He let his caution bring him to this - unraveled. Talk about honor is all good and nice, but chances are the Leo wanted to live an adventure -like we all do.
I won't be shocked if she didn't protest enough anymore to her family's choice of another man to marry. A girl can only wait so long for a man to be a man.
Thank you ladies for your kindness and advice! It has helped me understand things better as it was vague before. It's not just about stars but the advice on how to handle the situation that was valuable. Stay blessed!
Posted by yazlanI would have agreed with you a few years ago - before I started studying astrology.Posted by 037I think you are jumping to conclusion without knowing the details. Yes, there was caution but the it was her decision. Eloping was not on cards as she never expected this to happen to her. I think you are generalizing here that all Leo's love adventure; life's decisions are not an adventure. There is more than one aspect that contributes to one's personality, including culture and upbringing. I wouldn't have stopped at anything and she actually had to beg me to not pursue it anymore for her honor's sake. I don't share her society's ideals of honor but I had to respect her decision. She had to face the brunt, not me.
Sultrykitty,
Its sad, really. He let his caution bring him to this - unraveled. Talk about honor is all good and nice, but chances are the Leo wanted to live an adventure -like we all do.
I won't be shocked if she didn't protest enough anymore to her family's choice of another man to marry. A girl can only wait so long for a man to be a man.click to expand
But now, I am even more convinced she was stalling.
And, should you meet another Leo, know that we live our lives as an adventure (Not that we love adventure - though that is possible too). Never fighting in our relationship is not a plus in our books - its a cause to wonder if we can resign ourselves to a life without passion.
Virgo, Taurus moon, Scorpio asc
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