Leos do you ever change your mind about a person?

When you say you don't consider somebody a dating material, but you find them sexually attractive, is that person forever placed in a not dating material category? Or things can change with time?

I know I don't fit the Leo queen criteria at the moment but my life is a mess right now. No drama per se, I just don't have anything to offer to anybody at the moment. No job, trying to get a degree for years, no hobbies, that kind of thing. I don't even consider myself very attractive and think I should invest more in make up, clothes and my overall general appearance.

I realize my chances are slim to none, I know when a guy's not into you he's just not into you and I should move on. But I still can't help but wonder is there something I could do to change his mind in the long run. So I'm asking from your experience is your mind always firmly set or have you ever changed your mind about somebody?

I think how you perceive yourself plays a large role in how others perceive you. Do you think you're unworthy of dating? As long as you realize your shortcomings and are making efforts to improve your situation, I'd say you're off to a good start. But if it bothers you that much, then maybe you need to focus on yourself before you start dating, lest those insecurities start creeping up on you, putting a strain on your relationships.

Firstly, don't put your hopes on a Leo changing his/her mind. Go on and keep living your life.

Secondly, don't buy better clothes, make-up, etc to please a Leo. Do it to please yourself and to make YOU feel better!

Thirdly, an evolved Leo would NEVER judge you based on superficial things like a job, a car or other insignificant things. An evolved Leo will judge you based on who you are fundamentally and on your level of motivation to help yourself.

Finally, have faith that anything is possible and the person of interest to you can change his/her mind. Nothing is ever written in stone in this day and age. That was back in Roman times 😉

Thanks, peachey, SpiceNSugar and Jynja 🙂 I really appreciate your thoughtful comments and time you took to reply.

Everything you said is true and on point. I do realize some of this myself, that I need to work on myself first and foremost. It just seems to hit home better when somebody else tells you all this. I'll just have to keep your advice in mind. Might take some time 🙂

Where are you from, Chevapchic? Your name makes me hungry 😄

Oh, I think you have a pretty good idea 😄

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Where are you from, Chevapchic? Your name makes me hungry 😄

LOL 🙂

Speaking from my leo point of view... I think we are more attracted to people who shine a little less than we do so the makeup and new shiny clothes is unnecessary... and if you're that unsettled than concentrate on yourself... as for the hobbies well reading the news or about subjects that you like on the internet makes fine conversation... and if you're spending a bunch of years studying something i guess youre quite passionnate about it and passion is very attractive to leos...