libra guy leo girl

leo girls how good are we with libra men.This libra im dealing with got me open!!!!!!!lol

I've never dated a libra man. I have lots of libra female friends though. I get long with them.

cherie,

Are you in like with one?

I just got slightly into a leo girl last weekend... Wondering whether to continue or not...

My confusions
1. Past patterns - One leo girl(was never dating her) got annoyed and stop talking to me after I wrote in my blog that "she sounds like a silly college girl at times"... She was funny being with, we had lots of chats and laughs but someday suddenly she went silent... I cannot stand a silence without explanation. Then it was all downhill... When I move with a leo girl, she seems to be too silent and not giving a good company like how she is across the table. That kinda adds to my confusions and thoughts...

Now I met this shy leo girl and I feel I can go ahead and avoid passing silly comments which may annoy her accidently.

You can ask me how a libran guy thinks and feels, inreturn can u help me get some small small details on leo girl—
🙂

first...when you said that she sounded like a silly college girl, TL, you offended her, and that's why she went silent...in fact she's prolly waiting for you to call and apologize. Leo women are EXTREMELY prideful, and if you insulted her (eventhough it was unintentional), she is sulking and licking her wounds. We are very sensitive, and unless we know you well enough, you can't make fun of them or tell jokes that might be offensive...that's just how it is, especially if we like you.

Leo women are fairly easy going. We like attention...well...more so reassurance...that you are with us and care for us and love us. Also, we want to be treated the way we would you, and that means generosity, consideration, and thoughtfulness! Those are the three main keys in keeping us happy, and you have to want to be those things and not fake (we can tell, BTW!) Other than that, have fun. If you really want to impress us, show us that you are confident and independant and not afraid of a challenge (which we can be!) Assert your authority, but don't you dare try to control or dominate us, cuz we will run in the opposite direction...good luck!

..I wrote in my blog that "she sounds like a silly college girl at times"...

I would find this offensive as well. Writing it in your blog for all to see instead of telling her what you think in private, I can see why she became silent on you.

One thing I've noticed about the "typical" Libran personality is that they like to share their relationship stories with others. I have 5 libran friends right now, the main theme is boyfriends. All boyfriend topic ALL the time. If you happen to be seeing a shy leo now, either don't blog about her or don't let her know about your blog. I would think twice about trusting someone just knowing that my business was blasted all over someones blog before it was brought to my attention first.

Thanks for the replies... can some pls explain what excatly generosity means here— I mean just one example— This leo girl is now history. I did apologize but i guess it was same like the causual way a libran says sorry... wasnt dramatic... ooopps.. i guess i shud hav taken some extra effort... now I met a new leo girl and i seriously got interested this time...and i dont want to do something naughty like before....

Librans do discuss about relationships... I have always tried to project my gf(past) as excaptional, wise and smart or say whatever i could tell my friends tat i met someone great... in a way i guess i was trying to trigger some jelousy... but attimes i did talked to my frnds when i was having small clashes with her... normally when i meet a girl who interests me, i will tell atleast few of my close friends tat i met a girl.. and yes i am finding myself getting attracted... i dont think its just me... shud be a libran things...

And... most important question...

1. Best gift to start with for a leo girl
2. Is it ok to ask her out real soon aftr i met her? (i cannot wait)
3. Is it ok to be open with a leo?(like how we are open with others)
4. Is it ok to have silly talks. I just love that.
5. Will she take the first step or does she expects me to do it?

more questions will come soon... thanks for all the replies in advance...

Thanks again friends... this forum is really great....

cheers

libran,

Leo generosity means the ability to give freely without expecting anything in return. Except your undying worship, lol (joking) Really, I am. Maybe just a little appreciation.

... in a way i guess i was trying to trigger some jelousy...

Why do some people do this? I know, I know, a little jealousy can be healthy but damn, there is nothing healthy about MY jealousy. Maybe these are just my issues lol Ok, shutting up now 🙂

libran,

There is nothing wrong with sharing some info with close friends. I think that is different, especially when you are too into the relationship and need some perspective. Most leos are pretty open and want to discuss relationship issues with who they are seeing, being straight and HONEST with her would help best. There is nothing I respect less than someone who can't face up to me. I was talking about the whole blog thing. This is an issue because you are sharing your business with the world. And who knows, maybe there is someone reading that she doesn't want all up in her business? That could be hard to forgive. I am refering to the "shy" leos of course, maybe some don't mind. That may be something you want to be careful with this time around. (with your new leo)

1. Best gift to start with for a leo girl - People are different. Know where her venus is? A guarantee is to maybe take her somewhere. Get her out of the house! Up to you depending on where you live.

2. Is it ok to ask her out real soon aftr i met her? (i cannot wait) I would say yes. Ask her. Going out and actually dating are 2 different things. How else are you going to get to know her on a more personal level?

3. Is it ok to be open with a leo?(like how we are open with others) YES. YES please be open with her. I am almost positive the other women would agree.

4. Is it ok to have silly talks. I just love that. - unsure what you mean here.

5. Will she take the first step or does she expects me to do it? - Um, lol I can only speak for myself. I have been known to make the first move. Keep in mind, aggressive men are SEXY. And would be better if you did if you are certain she wants you to. Something tells me her certainess will be no secret 😉 shy or not.

Hopefully the others can add more 🙂

.....feel her out and see where her mind frame is at....

This one line alone probably answers all his questions.

By "silly talks" what I mean is that say I just love to talk about things which are not at all important or relevent to the subject... and also I have a very bad habit of calling all my friends with a prefix "stupid" since most of my frnds call me stupid straight... we are love callin each others stupid in a way but i dunno if a leo will find it rude...

Are leo girls more marriage oriented— I was hesitating to proceed on a few girls for quite sometime because I couldnt feel anything serious... I got this thingy(most librans do i guess) for a long term relationship and the moment I sense/calculate/guess some potential issues in future which can bring troubles, i skip away slowly. I dont think I can get involved once again and then break up... its hard for me...

I am a kind of kid who goes for value for money. Have that luxury syndrome hidden inside but I dont want to look foolish in front of others by wasting too much cash over luxury...— is it going to clash sometime— May be I will change with a partner... but still curious you know.. 🙂

And I got bit of issues with charity(though i dont label it so)... currently since I am single, a huge part of my income goes straight to other people...and I hardly spend the cash I earn. You can call me nuts but that does give me a certain amount of satisfaction. I dunno if she will think that i am an idiot(already my parents say so) if I happen to tell her... (i guess i hav to reason out why I lead a simple life)...


And most funny question - When a leo girl says "No" does that mean "no"? What dominates? Shyness or openness—

I guess I am going to have a big fight with my own ego and pride to win this girl... Thanks again for the answers and advices...

...By "silly talks" what I mean is that say I just love to talk about things which are not at all important...

That's something you may need to determine on your own. I have "silly" talks with my bf all the time. Dorky ones even.



...we are love callin each others stupid in a way but i dunno if a leo will find it rude...

I don't know any female of any sign that wouldn't find this rude. Men too. Keep that between you and your buddies.

...Are leo girls more marriage oriented—...

Um, not me. I have my own opinions about why though (for myself). Not wanting to get married and being "serious" are two different things. Generally leo is a freedom loving sign. Another question that would have to be based on the individual.


...When a leo girl says "No" does that mean "no"?....

Yes.


libran, ask her out. Get to know her. Find these things out on your own. You are asking for the little details you can only get from her. As far as the general leo personality, pay her lots of attention yet give her plenty of space. Be funny. If you are a typical libra, interesting conversation should come naturally. Offer her that. Compliment what she wears etc... I am not speaking of myself here. Just general info. And remember, if she is on the shy side the LAST thing you want to call her is stupid. She probably has a sensitive streak. Good luck.

She is on the shy side... When I met her last satnight, first word she told me was that she is shy. and that was enough for me to realize I got a lioness here in dazzling dress right in front of me... Already asked her out. Seems she is going out of town this weekend. Next weekend then... I am waiting and I just cant wait... There was lots of positive signs last weekend and we infact had a good time but even I was shy to take matters a bit further on the very first meeting itself... 🙂 She wasnted me to dance and I never dance... I think i have to learn ...

I am asking bit too many questions i guess.. just that i dont want to spoil it... so tryin to be bit cautious and avoid hurting this sensitive girl.

Cheers

Thanks chocolate... I am waiting.... waiting.. noooo... cant wait so long... gotta get over this weekend... and i dunno when next... She is bit silent for last couple of days... busy at job i guess... 😢 mmm... hope something will start working soon...

Ofcourse stunning dresses... The moment she took my hand for dancing, my man brain went calculating the budget for fashionable clothes if this is going to work positively.

Due to my indecisiveness, 2 years ago I changed my wardrobe into complete denim + black, white, grey plain roundnecks. It reduces confusion which to wear everyday you know... Now I dunno if I need to go for some class outfits to give that royal impression...

God changes and more changes... am moving to a better apartment as a part of homework. Gotta get rid of my simple humble life style . Its thrilling but its kinda confusing...

Wow
Yeah well, I dated/moved in with a Libra man ONCE. To me, he seemed the "classic libra", in terms of traits. Honestly, I felt that our temperments did NOT mix well. It was a disaster. LOTS of CONFUSION. Judging from your posts, I sense that same type of confusion (trying to read a person). I don't know man...Libras scare me.

theLibran

*slap*

Snap out of it! lol!

You sound like a Virgo.

You are Libra! Dress like it! Instinctually, we know how to look good, smell good, taste good. You know that clothes make the man. Stop denying yourself pleasure. Start basking in your own pleasure and the world around you will open up.

🙂

Why in the world would you be afraid of Libras?