Losing interest in Leo

The relationship I have bee in with a leo for 6 and a half years seems to be stale and boring. As a cancer sun with my moon in Gemini and moon rising is Scorpio I get bored very easy and I love to talk...about anything. Unfortunately, my leo doesn't. He is either on facebook, playing video games and when I do try to initiate a conversation he interrupts and talks about car stuff or disk golf. Now I am not blaming his astrological sign here because I think it simply comes down to the person and how they are raised. At first I liked his child like antics but after a while it got on my nerves. IE: he hates to talk about anything going bad in our relationship and when I do bring it up he crosses his arms and acts very child like. Do all leo men act like this? For fun one night we figured out his sun sign is a Leo, his moon is a Leo and I cannot remember what his moon rising is. I love him but goodness, are all leo men obsessed with their hobbies so much that they push their relationship to the way side? He has even joked that his love for playing video games as put a strain on our relationship...but yet he does not seem to want to help fix it and then he complains that I am acting like I don't care when I go out and do my own thing. Any advice?

Posted by Joselineee
why are you in a relationship with him at all?

A) Because I love him
B) As much as I crave change, I am honestly afraid of being alone and not finding anyone else (I know...that is a shitty reason to stay in a relationship).

Meh. My Aqua guy's the same way. I find other things to do with myself and just appreciate our mutual interests (which aren't many).

It can work. Learn to be more independent. Or break it off. 6 years is a long time. There's obviously something keeping you there; we've lasted over 20 years so it IS possible.

Posted by tcxyz2011
The relationship I have bee in with a leo for 6 and a half years seems to be stale and boring. As a cancer sun with my moon in Gemini and moon rising is Scorpio I get bored very easy and I love to talk...about anything. Unfortunately, my leo doesn't. He is either on facebook, playing video games and when I do try to initiate a conversation he interrupts and talks about car stuff or disk golf. Now I am not blaming his astrological sign here because I think it simply comes down to the person and how they are raised. At first I liked his child like antics but after a while it got on my nerves. IE: he hates to talk about anything going bad in our relationship and when I do bring it up he crosses his arms and acts very child like. Do all leo men act like this? For fun one night we figured out his sun sign is a Leo, his moon is a Leo and I cannot remember what his moon rising is. I love him but goodness, are all leo men obsessed with their hobbies so much that they push their relationship to the way side? He has even joked that his love for playing video games as put a strain on our relationship...but yet he does not seem to want to help fix it and then he complains that I am acting like I don't care when I go out and do my own thing. Any advice?

Like any fixed sign, we're prone to obsession. ...

and I hadn't thought about this in YEARS, but

my LEO ex was obsessed with a stupid video

game-- he quit because we moved and the game

stayed with our old roommate.

We were in our 20's but still... what a fkg drag.

And it didn't get any better.

SOO. .. yeah.

Leos are a bit stupid. I swear, you will discover this in time, they're beight, shiny, very sociable, can talk their way out or talk u into anything....
But the more you know the, the more you realize they're brainless.

Also, theyre very selfish.

It sounds like he isn't happy and is distancing himself from you. Have you ever considered that the reason he interrupts you when you speak- is because he doesn't care what you have to say?

Little to no conversation. Total immersion in video games and or other hobbies.

Sounds like he might be contemplating the same thing as you.

Posted by GreyWiz

Posted by tcxyz2011
The relationship I have bee in with a leo for 6 and a half years seems to be stale and boring. As a cancer sun with my moon in Gemini and moon rising is Scorpio I get bored very easy and I love to talk...about anything. Unfortunately, my leo doesn't. He is either on facebook, playing video games and when I do try to initiate a conversation he interrupts and talks about car stuff or disk golf. Now I am not blaming his astrological sign here because I think it simply comes down to the person and how they are raised. At first I liked his child like antics but after a while it got on my nerves. IE: he hates to talk about anything going bad in our relationship and when I do bring it up he crosses his arms and acts very child like. Do all leo men act like this? For fun one night we figured out his sun sign is a Leo, his moon is a Leo and I cannot remember what his moon rising is. I love him but goodness, are all leo men obsessed with their hobbies so much that they push their relationship to the way side? He has even joked that his love for playing video games as put a strain on our relationship...but yet he does not seem to want to help fix it and then he complains that I am acting like I don't care when I go out and do my own thing. Any advice?

even if you drop him it will be your loss. some other chick will come along and replace you. do what you want. go date and gem and get your stimulation. we don't care.

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Loss?

I disagree.

If you don't care anyway, then staying hardly seems beneficial.



LEO Men and LEO Women are very different creatures. 😐

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Posted by bricklemark
Leos are a bit stupid. I swear, you will discover this in time, they're beight, shiny, very sociable, can talk their way out or talk u into anything....
But the more you know the, the more you realize they're brainless.

Also, theyre very selfish.

you seem very dumb. I feel sorry for you

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Bahaha oh..dear. You a leo, dude?? By any chance...

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Posted by bricklemark
Leos are a bit stupid. I swear, you will discover this in time, they're beight, shiny, very sociable, can talk their way out or talk u into anything....
But the more you know the, the more you realize they're brainless.

Also, theyre very selfish.

you seem very dumb. I feel sorry for you

Bahaha oh..dear. You a leo, dude?? By any chance...

oh you are still here. lol

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Wow...don't ever attack someone after they've criticised your sign, it's not credible. It's really a bad way to go about it, son 🙂 it's truly, truly, sad.....bahahaha

Posted by GreyWiz
you sound like a moron. bye

Oh no! That can't possibly be because I criticised your sign...the most self-righteous, arrogant and conceited there is....

(once again, you make me repeat my point. Which proves Leos are morons...which was my original point, so it's like a triple whammy at this stage....)

Why don't you play some video games with him?

I actually like playing video games and watching people play them...if he's a true gamer it's something you have to respect as long as it's not taking over his life...go find a book to read or get a hobby during his game time...sometimes us girls need to find some business and not feel the need to monopolize someone's time just because they're there in our face....that's his stress reliever

@OP- It's okay to be alone... And look it's causing stress more with yourself than him. It's just adding and soon you'll be okay of being by yourself till you find a new. Let it go, you guys had your fun, tried working it out, and it's not changing..This day in age being in a six year relationship is plentiful..and it's okay to change..

@OP- Oh yeah I challenge you to tetris haha bring the remote.. It's okay to play with him too.. and then if you play with him, he owes you something for you. But playfully..

Super Mario brawl is cool for a couple.. like remembering all the times he did something bad and kick his ass in the game with your character and then have some sex... and then go eat make a recipe together or simply something you haven't made yet. Give him ideas..

Posted by fairytale
Why don't you play some video games with him?

That's what I'm saying lol op seems like a drag. Leos do just wanna have fun

Atleast he's not cheating on you. Your problems could be worse. Pick your battles

Posted by MoonshineLeo
Atleast he's not cheating on you. Your problems could be worse. Pick your battles

Hobbies and obsessions are two very different things...

Until you date or live with someone who spends literally

EVERY waking moment outside of work involved in

their obsession, maybe withhold judgement.

Because it sucks.

There's always a hit and miss in every sign. I've met awesome Leos,but the one I liked is just a pain. You would think Moon in Cancer(I've been with cancer moons) is sympathetic and a nuturer, but with his Venus in Virgo in retrograde, it makes his connections with relationships harder 😢

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Posted by bricklemark
Leos are a bit stupid. I swear, you will discover this in time, they're beight, shiny, very sociable, can talk their way out or talk u into anything....
But the more you know the, the more you realize they're brainless.

Also, theyre very selfish.

you seem very dumb. I feel sorry for you

Bahaha oh..dear. You a leo, dude?? By any chance...

Leo's are neither dumb nor stupid. So quit hatin'. My leo is amazing in every aspect. Smart, emotionally strong, successful, & sexy as fuck. So pls, stop with the leo bashing.

To op. Yup i see the only solution is join him on the video games. & if you're hurting about shit. Talk to him and have a conversation about how you feel. Isn't he your man of 6 years? If he's comitted to you wouldn't he wanna fix the problems?

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That's the problem with relationships nowadays. They don't talk about their problems til it's too late. Don't let your ego get in the way and just save the relationship by communicating. Even the greatest of relationships fall without communication.

Posted by tcxyz2011
The relationship I have bee in with a leo for 6 and a half years seems to be stale and boring. As a cancer sun with my moon in Gemini and moon rising is Scorpio I get bored very easy and I love to talk...about anything. Unfortunately, my leo doesn't. He is either on facebook, playing video games and when I do try to initiate a conversation he interrupts and talks about car stuff or disk golf. Now I am not blaming his astrological sign here because I think it simply comes down to the person and how they are raised. At first I liked his child like antics but after a while it got on my nerves. IE: he hates to talk about anything going bad in our relationship and when I do bring it up he crosses his arms and acts very child like. Do all leo men act like this? For fun one night we figured out his sun sign is a Leo, his moon is a Leo and I cannot remember what his moon rising is. I love him but goodness, are all leo men obsessed with their hobbies so much that they push their relationship to the way side? He has even joked that his love for playing video games as put a strain on our relationship...but yet he does not seem to want to help fix it and then he complains that I am acting like I don't care when I go out and do my own thing. Any advice?

Invite him to lunch or plan a trip out of town.
Try to initiate some activity between you.
You are the cardinal sign so in the face of having a lazy partner you don't want to be rid of you are going to have to work to get him to be more active with you.

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Posted by bricklemark
Leos are a bit stupid. I swear, you will discover this in time, they're beight, shiny, very sociable, can talk their way out or talk u into anything....
But the more you know the, the more you realize they're brainless.

Also, theyre very selfish.

you seem very dumb. I feel sorry for you

Bahaha oh..dear. You a leo, dude?? By any chance...

Leo's are neither dumb nor stupid. So quit hatin'. My leo is amazing in every aspect. Smart, emotionally strong, successful, & sexy as fuck. So pls, stop with the leo bashing.

To op. Yup i see the only solution is join him on the video games. & if you're hurting about shit. Talk to him and have a conversation about how you feel. Isn't he your man of 6 years? If he's comitted to you wouldn't he wanna fix the problems?

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I NEVER said I hated them. You're such a moron for thinking that.

And like greywiz has just demonstrated, they are in fact very stupid! It's not to put them down, it's just a fact.

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Posted by fairytale
There's always a hit and miss in every sign. I've met awesome Leos,but the one I liked is just a pain. You would think Moon in Cancer(I've been with cancer moons) is sympathetic and a nuturer, but with his Venus in Virgo in retrograde, it makes his connections with relationships harder 😢

cancer moon is not good for a leo sun. It drowns out our good qualities and drenches our fire. You can't simply say leo this or leo that. The chart reveals the full picture. Things like outlook and appearance are also dictated by the chart.

Intelligence is indicated by mercury,uranus and other apsects between them and the houses. This is why all these posts sounds dumb to me.

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Exactly. Each Leos are going to be different. We have a special blueprint. As an Aries, they say we're mean, bossy, loud turns out I'm opposite. I read the Leo's chart. Too much virgo with Leo sun and cancer moon. So effing confusing 😢