Posted by Mike79
If someone you were casually dating asked to go through your cell phone would you let them?!
Yes or No ???
Posted by KRA
I've been dating a Cap for 2 years. First year was amazing; then he fell in love with me (his words) and things got rocky. That should of been my first red flag. I was in love with him so I tried to work through his fear of being in a committed relationship after years of convincing himself that he would not again. Bad divorce thing. He said he wanted to get married, we would talk about a future and when things were really going great he would freak out and we would break up. This happened 3 times. The last time I said OK. And I meant it. No more of this. I sent him a nice email saying that I loved and respected him and definitely hope that we can remain friends (we were for 10 years prior) and I wished him well. And I meant it. Throughout our relationship he has always said if we don't have friendship we have nothing. Strange..... where is my friend now?
I do miss my friend. Not my BF but my friend. However, he's not talking to me and I don't want to push the issue. A nice email and similar text is all I'm willing to do at this point. I wish he could of let his fear go and know that we would of had a fantastic, amazing life together. SMDH.....
Posted by SweetestFatale
I'm a Taurus woman dealing with a Pisces man. We've been friends for a couple years. I really really like him although I do question his feelings for me. Overall:
He says he wants a relationship, but he doesn't want a "long distance relationship". We live about 45 minutes away from one another with a lot of traffic between. I don't want to move because my job and family is here and he lives in a VERY rural area. He doesn't want to move because his family and job is there and I live in a the city. We have been circling one another like tops for about 2 years now. We bump off one another whenever we get to this damn relocation stalemate. I want an official relationship status, maybe engagement even, before I even consider moving. He doesn't want a long distance relationship period. We usually only see one another on the weekends he doesn't have to work. He wants to "see me at least 3 times a
Recently we bumped heads because I questioned how meaningful it is to me when when have sex. He got mad and said even tho he doesnt cuddle after, I shouldn't take it persobally. I dont know what we are, I just don't want to get caught up in my feelings with it seeming like he won't budge unless I load up the UHAUL and head to Green Acres.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
This is what 98% of the women here need to realize. A playboy/treetrunkboy comes in all signs. They all have the same behaviors, just may go about them in a sign specific way.
But to use astrology as an excuse for bad behavior is a sad cookiemonster move, and we have far too many here who are like this and even enable others to think in such a way.
If he starts flaking, he's lost interest.
If he goes all out in the beginning, chances are he's going to disappear as quickly.
This goes for both genders, tbh.
I've gotten to the point if some asshat makes flaky plans so they can bail last minute or decide to actually do something last minute, bye cookiemonster. I don't have time for that. Flake on me once is the only chance they get. If they continue to flake beyond that, done. If they want to keep shaky plans so they can decide last minute, sorry, I'm busy. Bye Felicia.
Many of the women on this site need to start setting personal boundaries and making standards- not being these desperate, pathetic cookiemonsteres they come across as when they come here clinging to life to some loser. Where the treetrunk is your self respect? :/
Posted by ladylibra21
Cap said I know too much about his emotions (not about me but just how he feels about his life, family, and what he wants in the future) and that he was going to shut down again because he normally pushes down his feelings and I said please don't do that it will hurt my feelings. Do you think I should give him so major space or try to get closer to let him know it's ok to confide in me?
Posted by marnellavenus
I guess what I mean is....I like him enough that if I knew he was interested, I would like to focus my time on getting to know him.
Posted by ConfusedAries2016
I messed up and I'm regretting it really bad. I met a Taurus at work a few months ago. He was super obsessed with me to begin with. We got super close with in a short amount of time. After a few weeks he asked me to be his girlfriend. This was honestly the best relationship I felt myself ever being in.
Then I messed up and I feel horrible about it. He had told me something that for him is a big deal. I was venting to a "friend" I thought I could trust. I would never tell anybody anything major and personal he ever told me but I know perception is everything. When I was talking to my "friend" I was venting and I never thought they would go and tell somebody about it. It got back to him.
I never saw that side of him. He called me a just like me, a cookiemonster. Called me an idiot. Said that I wasn't loyal. Finally he agreed to come over and he slept with me and then just left and called me the next day saying he couldn't do this anymore. And that he didn't trust me anymore.
I understand where he's coming from. I am such a loyal person and I know that we're right for each other. I made a mistake venting to the wrong person and I wish more than anything that I could take it back.
I wrote him a long message telling him how I feel and he said it got to him. We started spending more time with one another but he said because of breaking his trust I had to make it up to him. He wanted me to delete somebody off my Facebook, when I wouldn't do that he asked for something else which I did.
When he came over the other night I felt us being closer and it was great but then the next day he was distant again. He said he loves me and I'm his girlfriend but he wants to start things differently and give it time.
When I hit him up a lot he seems to not be into me so much but when he does or says something mean or cruel and makes me mad and I act strong he seems to be all into me. He doesn't call me as much anymore. Even though he says he wants to be with me I don't know anymore.
He said by me making him dinner and being sweet that he would fall inlove with me again.
Things are so different now. I know I messed up. My intentions weren't malicious at all.
I read Taurus will keep you around when they know it's over until the next person better comes along. Do I have anyway to salvage this and make it be like it was?
Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
What the fuuck did I just read?
Posted by rainbow33
Hi, I need help! I'm interested in this libra man,initiated convo w him a few times.. he didnt reply the last time aft we texted awhile. Any ideas how to get him interested? Really wanna get to know him more.
I'm thinking of asking him out for a movie? Help pls, thanks in advance!!
Posted by GemitatiPosted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?
Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that
concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor
others by whom?
I didn't think so.click to expand
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I stay waiting for people to host DXP games