Question about my LEO. What does this mean?

I have been dating a Leo for 7 months. We decided to be a couple right off the bat of meeting. From reading a lot about leo behavior, He has displayed plenty of all the signs that he loves me at this point.. We are very close, spend all available time that we can together. He is loyal , trusting etc. I have been to his familys for holidays. He does lots of things for me , around my house, fixes stuff. Buys me stuff, that I need or want..Im very loving and giving and have given him several suprises and cards.. but I have never recieved a card or anything with his feelings... Well a couple nights ago I text messaged him and said "I love you, was wondering if you love me too?" It was late in the night but I never got an answer.. Last night I asked him if he got it and he said yes.. I said well i didnt get an answer. He said things like, I care about you, who do I spend all my time with? who do I want to be with? and I said I just kinda wanted to know at this point, if this is really going somewhere or are we just hanging out? He said no we arent just hanging out.. He said a lot of stuff but never just said Ya, I love ya, or anything like that.. Im confused.. at what does this probably mean.. I ve read that Leos take their time with giving their hearts, but I would think at this point of 7 months he should feel something. Any Leo advice Please..

Yea , thats what I feel, but why couldnt he just have agreed when I asked him flat out. Does the Leo just not say it??

OK. yea that makes me feel better.. He just called me and said he burned me a cd. Larry the cable guy christmas.. played some of it over the phone for me.. it is funny.. so Is this a sign of love?? lol

Thanks a lot.. 😉 Ill just wait till someday maybe he'll say it..and not bring it up anymore.

i somewhat agree with LK, texting i love you is very impersonal, leo's love to be loved and to feel it and touch it and breathe it, love to be in the midst of it to experience the emotion, your first i love you probably shouldn't be done via text.

It's not a major mistake...as proverbs said, be patient with him.

Geez, there is no mistake. Thats not the first time Ive said it either in person or otherwise. He doesnt mind. Im not juvenile either. The only reason why I did it as I had said it was late in the night is because I was celebrating my birthday and three sheets to the wind on wine. Only because there was no answer I couldnt let it sit at that. I dont believe I made a mistake. He is here and has bought me and done for me everything imaginable for my birthday. So I guess the first answer I got is the correct one.

leokitten you feel a text saying I love you is juvenile? wow.....i think most leos would melt at even that small gesture.....i think it was cute sag

my take is either its too soon for him or he isn't sure if he "loves" you, as a woman I can understand how that does something to the ego, but I tell you we don't lie, sounds like he does love you but doesnt know it yet, so like rainfairy said, accept that and believe in what he does not what he doesn't say. AND when the time comes and he tells you that, you'll know its genuine, and that outweighs the satisfaction of hearing it now just because it would be nice to have the sentiment returned

Thanks leodiva4lyfe , thats exactly what Im doing. I can tell by his actions, and if time goes on too far and I still hear nothing, well it might be his loss.
Leokitten. I came here for advice not to be judged, by an oppinionated person who couldnt EVEN say the words for 31 years. must suck to be like that. hmmmmmmmmmm maybe hes like that.

you're very welcome dear. Good luck.... we're not easy but it'll be worth it, hang in there for a little bit :=)

Leo (kitten) my ass. Excuse me ? Im more emotionally secure than youll ever know, and I also Judge. Instead of telling people what to do , because you are ALWAYS right as in LEO let me tell you that you need to go back to school to learn how to read !!!! I said. that I sent the text late in the night when I was wasted. Wasted and emotionally insecure are two different things. So I suggest before you start running everyone elses lives and telling them your oppinion, pay attention to what the story is first. I hate to tell you but you are not always right. In this case you are wrong. Go look at your conceited Leo self in the mirror. You are not doing justice to your sign. Calling someone pathetic that you dont even know? No offense to other Leos but is this what you are like— Ive never known one before and that is why Im studying and seeking advice. Dare Come back at me leokitten, I got more than you can take.

Well if she is an attorney , she better start getting her facts straight before delivering defense. As I said before

I WOULD NOT HAVE SENT THE TEXT HAD I NOT BEEN UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF TOO MUCH WINE. THIS QUESTION WOULD NOT EVEN BE POSTED. Im sorry I came in to this board. Im outta here, I have nice people to go talk to for real instead of getting pissed off at some twit on the computer. Leo cat you can diss me now all over the place, but then that will also just make you a @# $ % ^.
Merry Christmas to everybody else..

Just because LK is an attorney or that she has Virgo in her chart gives her the right to be mean? I don't think so!! Super Sag, you are not the first she has tried to derail.

If you happen to read her posts about her past relationships, she has done numerous things in those relationships that I don't agree with. Each relationship is different and unique but I don't go shooting my mouth off about it just because it doesn't happen to agree with how I feel. But to each his own!

LK...take this from someone who is old enough to be your mother. You may have a degree hanging on your wall and because of that you may think you have all the answers, but that means absolutely nothing in the scope of real 'life'. You still have a lot to learn.

Ok, I wont leave, only because I came here to learn about the Leos. however I refuse to even acknowledge any more B.S.
Candlz that is what I was thinking exactly, very well said.

Yes Proverbs you are the one who said it. And I was was the one who built my comments around your statement. I never once implied that she had bragged about it. But as you also said,

This is a public forum (not a one on one therapist appointment) so ALL must be prepared to hear the good and ugly side of the situation that is why it is called OPINION.

So we can agree or disagree, and I am not reputing that fact. What I am saying is that there is no need to shred a person's integrity just because they may have done something that doesn't agree with what someone else might do or say.

OK..you want validity. If I am supposed to 'take it or leave it' in regard to LK's 'rough opinion', why are you venting hostility when someone else also voices a 'rough opinion'?

Your words Proverbs...'take it or leave it'.

Super Sag,

Eh, so you said you loved him via text. No big deal. Let's face it. It's way easier to communicate emotion when (1) drunk and (2) over text as opposed to person to person. It happens.

I think in terms of time, 7 months is not that long. It can take people in a relationship YEARS to actually verbalize it. In any case, I think that by having said it first, he'll mull it over and who knows - maybe you'll hear it soon. Either way, if you feel it, you can say it. Don't just avoid saying it because he hasn't said it to you yet. Although you can't force him, you can just be true to your own feelings and say it whenever. Or not. Do what you feel is appropriate.

Thanks LeoCap...

Archer, you must be related to leokitten.. if you havent got anything nice to say then say nothing.. fill in the blank is JUVENILE

Besides to put this question to rest, whether I was juvenile or infantile or drunk or whatever, it apparently did not bother him, he has become even more giving and loving. Its history.

My apologies ...to Archer.

Well all I can say is he's definately Showing it Big Time. Theres no doubt in my mind.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

p.s. My capricorn ex, bought me a gallon of antifreeze for (at the time) my brand new car.. ———————————————? lol oh man

hi all..i'm also having a bit of prob with my leo guy, hope u can help me out.

i like my leo guy a lot- i've been having a crush on him for like 5 mths already.
everybody knows we're more than just close friends, but we're also not in the position to be called boyfriend and girlfriend either.
he would call me at least once everyday to ask what i'm doing, and also ask me out but always in a group of friends. also when we go for movies,i'd let him hold my hand. when we're alone, we'd act like couples, but in front of my other friends, we're just friends. that's why i can't even tell if we are actually having a relationship or not and i dun wanna ask him either.
am i being too easy? is that why he's not taking me seriously?

Hello Tam and welcome to our community 🙂

From what you said .. I'm left with the impression that you are a Virgo. We LOVE Virgo's !!!! If not, then love anyway 🙂

With Leo's, there's something you have to keep in mind .. they take their relationships seriously, are absolute sticklers about TRUST. With this huge trust issue they carry .. they will ONLY hand over their hearts to people who they are sure about .. with this said, for the fact that he's calling you all the time, including you into his life on a regular basis is a clear "sign" that you are apart of his life.

Leo's aren't prone to offering information about where both parties stand when in a relationship .. I think this is because they automatically think that their partner understands ..

.. If I didn't want to be with you, then I wouldn't.

However, once prodded, they are more than eager to discuss any issue that might arise .. just be prepared for it because if you ask, he will tell you straight up.

In knowing Leo's so well, it really doesn't sound like there is an issue of whether he is taking your loyalty seriously .. because if he didn't think you were a person to whom he could trust, then he wouldn't be giving you the attention he does. Don't worry, and if you are a Virgo, that is a tall order, lol.

wow you guys are fun and crazy... NOTE: I im back in here .. NOTE: I like fun and crazy...I also got so much shit and love from my leo,, that I dont even need to be on here anymore but its fun, I tried to apologize to leokitten and all the leos and Im trying to be cool on this site...I wasnt nice before because I was on dental meds okay? and in pain... please be nice. im sorry.

Hi, Ive been out of the board for a bit ... but I think Tam needs my help, apparantly you are a teen or so ish? im NOT, BEEN THERE DONE THAT... You arent doing anything wrong, go with your feelings , dont look back or forward. Like him , show him, and you WILL GET BACK WHAT YOU GIVE...TAKE IT... mine is the same way, lets say 30 years later, hes not used to affection and thats why he does it only with you.. he likes you a lot .. let him take it slow to where hes comfortable. some other day..it doesnt matter that hes a leo.. it matters that hes not used to affection .......... period from what you said,,and thats what ive learned and thats what im doing and its working...and they need slow.. soorry im late and listen to no one else. because its worth it...

holaa, hmmz, the thing is, i'm already showing all the affection and attentions he needs, just that this guy isn't making his stand clear. i know he cares about me when we are ALONE or when we're talking on the PHONE, but he definitely ISN'T in front of our friends.
my other guy friend has been telling me to stop meeting the guy and move on, but it's so hard for me as he is also one of my BEST friends...sigh..

oh by the way, i'm a Capricorn =)

Please re read what I said.. if you really like him, it doesnt matter if he doesnt do it in front of your friends as long as he does it to you..forget your friends..at this point you are either looking for love or showmanship..friends they will either be there for you or they wont in the long run, and that is what matters. When you get your life on that man is who matters, (the one who is worthy of you) , and your family.. Your friends will be busy. and one day you will know what I mean.