The end result

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rocktressa
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15 Years

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so kitty I see youve noticed the silence .. in my case im silent because im still stuck at the point in not knowing how my outcome is yet... is it any wonder i fear to jump to conclusions with this leo love. I can say this though. I aint holding my breath anymore and as hard as it is ... I am trying to make myself move on to date others but will probably leave a window open for him to still come in ... Hope ur doing ok and i appreciate your curiosity on this most confusing sign.
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firstlove26
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14 Years

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Well,
I feel like a caged bird. My king is under a lot of pressure and our long-distance relationship suffers for it.
He has a very ill daughter and a busy work schedual and she just had a death scare this weekend and is once
again in the hospital. I am on terminal hold. My duty is to learn him and keep doing well in school while he
reevaluates his life and getting some order to his hectic life this New Year's. We are 'still'exclusive.
Basically I think I am expected to provide mental and emotional support and expect nothing in return, for now,
because he has nothing to give. Oh, and I am on a texting diet. He says he loves me, always will. *sigh*

I don't know why the cage bird sings :0I
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maryjane
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15 YearsAries

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Oh well, nothing more exciting to do today at work so I will post what's happenning to my story too 🙂

I broke up with my leo before xmas.
Told him again everyhting I was feeling - him being cold, distant, not seem to care that much, etc
Again he didn't agree and insisted for us to be together.
Said the wanted to take things slowly but that he cares for me.

I kept my position.
Told him I had his xmas gift and was considering returning it.

10 days after that we got back together again. Damn it! I just can't finish this!
We kept on texting each other throughout this 10 days. The last day we made a contrat over text!! lol To at least have 2 proper dates a month, instead of staying at his place all the time, to always answer each other texts even if we don't like the subject and to act as gorwn ups, if we want to be we other person we stop seeing each other. We are still not bf and gf. Agreed to take things slowly.

I am not the most thrilled about this obviouly, but lets see where this will take us.
I recently found out something I was not aware of: before me he was with someone for 5 years. I made something bad, checked his phone. Silly I know. But I found out that he has been faithful. But also found out that his ex gf is not over him and has been textibng him all this months begging, humilliating herself for them to get back together.
His answers are always very determined, saying things were over long time, he doesnt want to get back, asks her to stop insisting...but never mentioned me.

I'm still thinking what to do with this information.
So yep, this is my outcome for now.
Hope all your stories will have a happy ending ladies.
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rocktressa
@rocktressa
15 Years

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well ima keep this one brief cuz i feel that if i spread the good news that it may backfire on me.. so to keep it short and sweet ..after much turmoil of his hot cold hot cold and him dissapearing on me for dys on end ....i wrote him a stern message telling him I will no longer stand for his ignoring me then two days later he popped in on my bartending job and waited on me to get home then professed how dumb he was for his dissapearing act and that he was scared cause he didnt want eithe of us to get hurt ... i told him that id rather a phuck u then a total lack of communication..so to wrap it up he told me in his absence he knew that he was in love with me and that he wanted me to be his woman and to move in with him ... we have always had flaming lovemaking sessions but that night OMG we sealed the deal with galactic outterspace three hour cosmic love making like no other ....he has since been the one to call me and profess his true love for me and im very happy,,, for all of the effort i put into this has paid off ... I hope the best for all u lovey ladies as well
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rocktressa
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15 Years

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oh thank u sweetness ..and thats y we ar all on here because of our fondness for the leos..yes yes leoman we do admire u for your generosity and caring for us in dissaray ..surely Leoman understands the trials and tribulations that this fire lion brings into the lives of those he loves. Kitty and sweetlibra i will stay tuned in to hear of yalls good outcome of the leonian soap ....many blessings in the new year
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rocktressa
@rocktressa
15 Years

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kitty how did the "meet the parents" thingy go for u?sweetlibra sounds like its another round of hurry up and wait .. but is he worth it? hopefully so ..it seems like it will never happen and the frustration mounts deeply but somehow the test of time endures and that torch always has that eternal flame.I had said the same thing as u about not holding my breath and to move on but i hate to admit it ..i never found myself to be intrested in any other guys after him ... that beast ruined me to anyone else lol ... so in the end I decided not to continue the madness and to just live a half life of aching for him rather than the unstability he offered.I flat out sent him a text tellin him finally I was done and moving on .. two days later he was on me like wildfire and now Im keeping cozy for the winter.He did ask me to move in with him but I know it will stay sexy living in our own places .I sometimes make sure to leave without givin it up . finally now the tables have turned and im the one getting the goodmorning text and the sweet short phone calls and the invites to go places and do things with him, all that praying and obsessing has paid off also the lil trip to marie Laveaus gravesite with the pralines offering may have helped lol
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FitGemGal
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14 Years

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Oh wow. My leo and I have been hot and cold like no body's business. It hasn't been that long, about a month and a half, but he was all over me the first two weeks, we spend time together, intimate time (no I haven't slept with him) then I've seen him three times in the last month. We were both away for Christmas, but what the hell.

Leos? Are they hot and cold like this? What the.....
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maryjane
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15 YearsAries

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Rocktressa, you rock girl!! I'm truly happy for you. Hopefully that will not be just another happy phase and will be something that will stick. Finally some happy endings!

On my side, I sometimes think my guy is like a curse I can't get rid of..Tried once again to break up with him, but he kept on insisting and insisting...so here we are again...together apparently. Even though his 'coolness' makes me still feel lonely. Deep down I still think he's only with me for sex. So I'm guessing the following: one day he will leave me for someone he really wants to open up with; one day I will be brave enough to finally cut him out of my life; one day he will change and be a caring and present boyfriend; one day I will accidentally meet someone who gives me emotional stability and leave him; or we will stay as we are and I will be complaining for the rest of my life.. What the result will be? 🙂)
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maryjane
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15 YearsAries

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Wish I knew how to help you Kity!
Everytime I come here and read all this comments from other girls I can't avoid thinking that some men, whether leo or other sign, even though there's seem to exist a pattern amongst leos, just simply don't know what they want. And in the process they think they have the right to drag people down with them. I don't think they even think about it. It is like they feel entitled to do that.

My advice would be...run...run fast if you can! (but then, I'm in such an emotional mess, I'm probably not the one to give advice). Good luck hun! Hope he will get in touch soon and have a damn good explanation for not saying anything for a week..